Tips needed to build a healthy relationship. Part 1.
This article is directed mostly to people in a relationship or planning to go into one. These tips I'm about to share with you are tips you should know, understand and digest properly to build a healthy relationship that would mostly lead to marriage.
There are other things I would be sharing during the week but we shall be starting from this topic. So let's go
Abstain from sex or any sexual activities
It saddens me that many young couples today have based one of their relationship goals to be sex. I wouldn't lie, sex is pleasurable and enjoyed but it is more honorable when done in marriage.
Most people especially ladies refuse to quit a dying relationship because of the sexual intercourse they have had with their partner or some other factors, like the fact that they have aborted for the guy. Even when they know full well that the man has no interest in them again, they wouldn't want to let go because of the body count they got from the man.
A lady once got married to a man because she had stayed with him all through her schooling days, she said she had been trying to get pregnant for him so another lady won't take him away. She forced him into marriage and now she's regretting it. If a relationship has abstinence from the beginning, a lot of things can be avoided.
Limit yourself to tempting situations and create boundary
Limiting oneself to a tempting situation will help build a healthy relationship. I'm sure you would want to be with your partner always but don't stay with them in an enclosed place when you know you have no self-control. Avoid things like staying on the bed together half naked or fully naked. It can lead to something else. Kissing and smooching should be limited.
Set some boundaries that both of you can understand and agree to, with this there would be mutual understanding and respect. It would even help build trust between the two partners.
Self-control
It is said that a man that can control his sexual urge has solved 80% of his problem. Self-control in a relationship is very important, no matter how beautiful and perfect your partner seems to be, you would always find someone better than them, either in the financial aspect, in beauty, body shape, skin color, and many other things. You would always find someone better but the ability to stay with that one person you have chosen will go a long way in that relationship. As a lady, you need to have contentment and as a guy, you don't have to chase every skirt you see.
With self-control, a lot of temptation can be avoided even when the couples are in a tempting situation. They would respect each other boundaries and would be able to control whatever situation they find themselves in.
No double dating.
How can you be in a relationship with a person and be in another relationship with another person, be it a close one or a distant one. It is very wrong. Double dating would destroy a lot of things in a relationship especially when a person has a faithful partner.
A relationship isn't just about calling each other babe and boo. It is more than that, it is something that has to do with the soul. Some people aren't in a relationship, they only see it as a game and that's why they take it with a levity hand, that's why they can do the most unthinkable thing to their partner because they believe there are other ladies or guys out there. A relationship that has a future in it, anyone involved in that kind of relationship would never double date in it. Know this and know peace.
I hope you're learning from this, I would continue tomorrow with the final part. If you actually want a relationship that has a future in it and would defiantly lead to a glorious marriage, you should follow these tips and help build a healthy relationship for yourself and your partner.
Let's meet again. And here I drop my pen.
Nice one! I've taken all these into consideration be so I'm about going know into relationship. I hope she come and read this as well🤣