Falling in and out of love. Ever happened to you?

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1 year ago

"Love is a beautiful thing yet can be scary"

Occasionally I ask myself "What is love?" Is it really as sweet as people say it is? Are you telling me, love, doesn't hurt? Can you love someone and hurt the person for the person's benefit?

I've gone through many experiences and I can tell you, the human emotional heart can turn our world upside down.

Love isn't meant to hurt but yet it hurts. She loves him so much that he even became scared of her love. They say "Every loving lady must get jealous" but was her jealousy or obsession? Love isn't an obsession. She couldn't stand him looking at another lady. She couldn't stand him talking about another lady, she calmed it was because she loved him and doesn't want him to be snatched away.

She began to ask scary questions "who do you love the most in the world? Can you forgo your sisters for me? " He began to get scared of her but because he loved her, he made excuses to cover up those red flags that were very visible.

He would say "She didn't mean it that way, she was joking, she loves me that's why she was asking like that"

He continue to ignore those signs and saw them as love. He loves her so much that he endured any fight or threat that came along. He wishes he could always be happy with her and he never wants to hurt her.

Deep down, he cries. "I hope I'm not making a mistake" he will continue to console himself.

What is love? Is love meant to make you feel scared? Love doesn't bring fear. It brings peace and calmness of mind.

His mind is never settled anytime he thinks about her and he began to fall out of love. He continue talking to her but he could feel the love slipping away little by little. He loves her but but but but

He couldn't bring himself to tell her. The distance begins to grow and they stop talking. What is wrong? What happened to the love? Is there a remedy?

I will continue and see how it goes!! I'm too scared to tell her I'm no longer in love with her! I don't want to break her heart!

A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

Falling in and out of love!

Many people find themselves in this position. It might be a wrong decision or the right one. The fact remains, once love begins to slip away. Let it go. You might try to bring things back and it might work out but once there is a fight, the thought of "I should have ended things" would come to your mind and you will never enjoy that relationship.

The End.

Hello readers, thanks for taking your time to read this piece. Wrote this article the way it came to my mind and I hope I didn't confuse you along the reading way. I hope you enjoyed it. Thanks for having me... Have a great time.

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A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. This is the truth but then people then to be ungrateful to God for spoiling their relationship

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1 year ago

Love can be beautiful but can be a painful too. It's part of love that's why people should aware of it and be ready for it when it comes to love.

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1 year ago

How long does it takes a broken heart to heal

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1 year ago

Love is a beautiful thing, but one shouldn't ignore the red flags. Another thing is that the girl was too insecure and that insecurity might be because she had not yet healed from her previous relationship. The boy should have communicated this to her and if she still doesn't change, he should end things. Just like you said, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

Hope this is not Fash's story.

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1 year ago

Ella whyyyyyyyy why did you end your nice comment with that comment. ehn? i wont answer the question but thanks for the comment and throwing more light

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1 year ago

Lol I knew it! It's definitely Fash. πŸ˜‚

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1 year ago

its not oo lemme o

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1 year ago

The initial stages of love are frequently marked by intense sensations of attraction, enthusiasm, and infatuation. But, as the relationship develops and the excitement of the beginning wears off, these strong sentiments may decline with time. Similarly, falling out of love can also happen for a variety of reasons, including a change in mood, a loss of compatibility, or outside stressors that have an impact on the relationship. The relationship may need both couples to reevaluate their feelings and work together to rekindle the spark if they fall out of love. However, this does not necessarily mean that the relationship is doomed. It's critical to keep in mind that love is a dynamic feeling that can change and develop through time. It's common for relationships to go through ups and downs but it is up to us wether to still be in such relationship or not

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1 year ago

nicely said. this is just beautiful. why do i feel you have experience in something like this. but you are right in every way. what if the guy feels a danger if they continue

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1 year ago

I think love Is a beautiful thing when you fall in love with the right person

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1 year ago

thats true but sometimes the right person is hard to find

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1 year ago

I was reading and laughing, not at you ooo but the st*pidity and wickedness in love.🀣🀣

Damn! I'm scared to fall in love like this because it oftentimes end in bitterness like bitter leaf

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1 year ago

what's Funny is that you will soon fall in loveπŸ˜‚

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1 year ago

dont mind him. his own would be world record breaking

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1 year ago

AhanπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ you wan make him love be obese. Na really world record breaking πŸ˜…πŸ˜‚

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1 year ago

someone once said love is wicked

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1 year ago

Love can be filled with happiness or sadness but still we could learn something from it.

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1 year ago

Sure... Can you tell me a different between love, obsession and jealousy

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1 year ago

A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage that a hard fact Man

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1 year ago

Thats just it.. But many people are scared to leave a relationship because of the number of years they have been in it

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