Falling in and out of love. Ever happened to you?
"Love is a beautiful thing yet can be scary"
Occasionally I ask myself "What is love?" Is it really as sweet as people say it is? Are you telling me, love, doesn't hurt? Can you love someone and hurt the person for the person's benefit?
I've gone through many experiences and I can tell you, the human emotional heart can turn our world upside down.
Love isn't meant to hurt but yet it hurts. She loves him so much that he even became scared of her love. They say "Every loving lady must get jealous" but was her jealousy or obsession? Love isn't an obsession. She couldn't stand him looking at another lady. She couldn't stand him talking about another lady, she calmed it was because she loved him and doesn't want him to be snatched away.
She began to ask scary questions "who do you love the most in the world? Can you forgo your sisters for me? " He began to get scared of her but because he loved her, he made excuses to cover up those red flags that were very visible.
He would say "She didn't mean it that way, she was joking, she loves me that's why she was asking like that"
He continue to ignore those signs and saw them as love. He loves her so much that he endured any fight or threat that came along. He wishes he could always be happy with her and he never wants to hurt her.
Deep down, he cries. "I hope I'm not making a mistake" he will continue to console himself.
What is love? Is love meant to make you feel scared? Love doesn't bring fear. It brings peace and calmness of mind.
His mind is never settled anytime he thinks about her and he began to fall out of love. He continue talking to her but he could feel the love slipping away little by little. He loves her but but but but
He couldn't bring himself to tell her. The distance begins to grow and they stop talking. What is wrong? What happened to the love? Is there a remedy?
I will continue and see how it goes!! I'm too scared to tell her I'm no longer in love with her! I don't want to break her heart!
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
Falling in and out of love!
Many people find themselves in this position. It might be a wrong decision or the right one. The fact remains, once love begins to slip away. Let it go. You might try to bring things back and it might work out but once there is a fight, the thought of "I should have ended things" would come to your mind and you will never enjoy that relationship.
The End.
Hello readers, thanks for taking your time to read this piece. Wrote this article the way it came to my mind and I hope I didn't confuse you along the reading way. I hope you enjoyed it. Thanks for having me... Have a great time.
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. This is the truth but then people then to be ungrateful to God for spoiling their relationship