Reasons why people force themselves into relationship

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Without much wasting of time let's move straight to what we have to discuss in today's writing. I think we would all derive some certain things as we keep on reading. Though people of the new age would see most of the things that happens now as if such is the first time that this has happened. Meanwhile like I was told by my late father, that everything that is happening in the world today has already happened. My late father would sometimes said that there's nothing new in his eyes apart from the new technology that wasn't so rampart in their time.

We are going to look on what exactly why some people would force themselves into a relationship. A relationship would be good and be successful, or last longer when the two parties agreed together. A relationship can never be successful and last long when one is forcing his or herself or another person into it. This act in particularly, always damage a relationship. In where I'm coming from , one person can take another person's effort and time for granted and just because it's wasn't a genuine love. One partner was either forcing him or herself to be in the relationship. So moreover in such relationship disappointment is guaranteed.

Love is a beautiful thing, but it's just that most people refuse to appreciate it. Love become so beautiful when the two people who is involved understand each other and know what they really need in the process. A relationship would only suffered when love is much bigger in one side than the other. It would be much better than it's equal so that they would be no much problem.

Reasons why most people force themselves into a relationship

Wealth; This is mostly rampart nowadays that the world economy is very poor. And this is really cause through the level of poverty that most countries are facing with. It was before that people accept to marry one another because of love, but nowadays there's nobody that is ready to eat love if at all is eatable. Everyone is praying for a good and wealthy partner. I had a comedy some days ago where one sister who was seeking for a husband. When it's time for everyone to tender his or her request to God. The woman started his prayer. God I need a wealthy tall man, I don't need a poor man to come my way. And In front of her there was a short man standing.

When he heard the woman's prayer. He also prayed his own prayer saying God I know you created a short man and with a billionaire I'm. God give me a tall wife. And when the woman who was praying for a tall wealthy man heard it. She said God is that your voice? I know you're a miracle God yes you will do it for me. To cut short the story, both men and women of nowadays are looking for ready made. So when they see what's up to their taste they would do anything possible to get into a relationship with such a person.

Beauty/Handsome; This has really cause people to force themselves into a relationship. It would be when a woman sees a handsome man who's she love. But in the other hand the man doesn't give her an attention or ask her out. The woman would try everything to get into a relationship with the man. And the same has also happen to the men, when the men sees a very beautiful woman and they try all they could and if they can't get the woman, they would say no I can't loose such beautiful woman and that's alone can lead them to force themselves into a relationship.

Marriage; people do force themselves into a relationship just for them to get married and be among those who are call married people. In my country a lot of girls do not joke with marriage rings. So once they see their fellow friend getting married. They would get jealous that them too they suppose to be getting married. And this can always lead them to forcing themselves into a relationship with a man so far they got married.

Some disadvantage that occurs in forcing people into a relationship

• When people are being forced into a relationship, if it leads to marriage such wouldn't last because they will each look for their own taste.

• When forcing people into a relationship. They wouldn't be much respect. It would just be like begging people to stay. So they wouldn't regards one another as its supposed to be.

• The would always be fault finding. The person that was forced into a relationship will be the one finding fault in other to break up from the relationship because she's no longer interested anymore.

• A relationship that is forced into would be no forgiveness. This type of relationship would be full of complaints. They would always complain to their parents in other to be separated from each other and return back to where their minds belongs to.

• Lastly a relationship that people are forced into, if it leads into marriage. There would always be a problem when it's comes to marital right on bed. I think a lot of us would understand what I'm talking about.

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