Why early Marriage (Child Bride) is not good?

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You might wonder why I am writing this topic out of the blue. Well, my student client asks me to write about critique reaction paper about certain topics that have globalization issues and I find the “Early Marriage (Child Bride)” topic easier to write. I don't know if I did right but the student said that his professor already accepted it.

Early Marriage (Child Bride)

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Early Marriage or child marriage is a union between two people who are younger than 18 years of age. This type of marriage is rampant in poorer rural areas who are low or middle-income countries. Some parents see it as a cultural rite that can protect their daughter from sexual assault and offer care to the male guardian. Some parents think that their daughter is a burden or economic liability, so they wish to marry them off at an early age, sometimes this setup already occurred during the infancy of the daughter.

Parents just think about sending their daughter off without thinking about the consequences of the situation that may come along when their daughter marries early.

There are fallouts when a young girl or boy marry at an early age,

Early marriage can threaten reproductive health

  • When a young girl marries early she cannot finish her studies that made them illiterate and naive. She cannot socialize and by that, she will be lacking sexual contraceptive awareness, which leads to unprotected sex. It will make them got pregnant at an early age, early pregnancy is risky for a mother and child's health since young girls' reproductive organs are not yet mature for safe child delivery. Also, unprotected sex can cause some sexually transmitted diseases.

Becoming a parent at an early age

  • Being a parent is not an easy job it requires a lot of patience and not just that it will give a lifetime of responsibilities. If a young girl or boys marry at an early age they will likely not enjoy their youthful stage because they will be going to face lifetime responsibility raising their kids. Sometimes some younger parents are still irresponsible because they are still immature and still like to play as other kids do, it ends up that their child will be mistreated.

Early Marriage can cause failure marriage

  • Marrying at an early age is not good since both partners are still immature, they are at the stage of being impulsive who cannot decide or make actions accordingly because they are still kids. Immaturity can kill the relationship because there are a lot of negative traits that can suppress the situation or if partners are into arguments. These will likely fail marriage because once they become mature, some will give up on their marriage if they are not happy anymore. The impulsive decision is rampant to immature people.

Conclusion 

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Marrying early mostly gives misery to those who marry early, without enjoying their youth. They were tied to have responsibilities at an early age. They cannot explore and socialize well because they are already being tied up with the marriage, we all know that a married person has only limited time to mingle with their peers because of their duties as a married one. Especially, if they were tied into the wrong person, for instance, if a girl marries a sadist guy, she will be a battered wife and that will bring her misery for all her life. Child marriage or early marriage should not be tolerated, although some countries have enforced laws about it, it wasn't that strong to prohibit it. A minor should enjoy her youth, discover themselves, and should spread their wings to fly high and not being tied early for a lifetime responsibility. Marriage should come from “free will” and not being forced. Parents should be educated or be aware not to marry off their kids at an early age to prevent casual damage in the future. Early marriage also disregards education as they marry early and do not continue their studies, which is a very important aspect to escalate one's life status because when a person has finished their studies they can improve their situation compared to those illiterate ones. The law should be strictly implemented to prevent child marriage as it ruins the future of the child. Parents should protect their children and not send them to hell.

Disclaimer: All statements above are just based on my views and opinions towards the issue, and I do not mean to strike anyone.


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3 years ago

It's so hard to remove some things from culture though but hopefully on the future generations, it would be gone. It's so rampant in india, after all and a few poorer countries

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3 years ago

Merry Christmas 😁

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3 years ago

Your so generous haha Merry Christmas 💋 Ako bawi na lang next time. Malaki talo sa futures 😹 Thank you so much😽

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3 years ago

At some country n religion po, they had this kind of thing po, it shouldn't be allowed po but i guess, it's part of their culture n tradition po cguro that's y they had it po

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3 years ago

Yeah but it's child abuse. It's okay that they have arranged marriage but they should marry them off once their kids turn into adults first.

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3 years ago

Yes po, it's considered as child abuse po especially if the bride's still a minor or just an elementary student n yes, i agree po that it should be an arrange marriage po n they'll get married once they r on legal age already na po

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3 years ago

Child marriage is one of the biggest human rights violations in the world. Girls in rural areas are more affected than those in urban areas.

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3 years ago

Exactly, it is child abuse.

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3 years ago

In other country nasa kultura na talaga Nila yon. Kahit nga Hindi Pa sinisilang yung Bata nakaplano na yung buhay dahil sa kagustuhan ng magulang esp yung mga mayayaman na ayaw mapunta sa iba yung yaman ng pamilya. Pero ayun nga sacred kasi ang marriage at dapat love talaga yung reason Kung bakit papasakop ka sa matrimony na ito

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User's avatar Yen
3 years ago

Yeah, it's their culture but it should not be like that. Yung sa mga mayayaman naman saka na pag asawahin yun pag mga adult na. Eh yung child marriage practice sa ibang country which is mga bata pa di tama yun..

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3 years ago

Kaya nga e. Hindi Nila maeenjoy youth nila

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User's avatar Yen
3 years ago

Thank you sir @MarcDeMesel for the tip. Merry Christmas sir! ❤

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3 years ago

It is terrible to give young child to get married because of economic reasons. You mentioned lack of knowledge, because they can't go to school, which is with need to play, because they are so young very difficult for everyone and men and women in that case. Taking care of child and mother is also child make us think how that situation is complex and unstable.

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3 years ago

Yeah, it's very complicated and the misery will also be inherited with their child because their parents cannot take care of them too since they are also a kid.

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3 years ago

Yes, so sad.🤦‍♂️

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3 years ago

Oo nga . may mga bansa na ganun... Kakaawa kabataan na ipapakasal sa murang edad.. Iba nga ibebenta ng magulang sa mapera. Grabe

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3 years ago

Oo nga eh, kawawa yung mga bata lalo na batang babae tas binubugbug lang kase binayaran na ang mga magulang nila tsk.. Thanks sa tip hehe

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3 years ago

Gawin lng pampalipas oras ng mga lalaki tas katulong sa bahay

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