Don't Trust Immediately.

November 25, 2022. Friday.

"Don't immediately believe someone you just met" that is the constant reminder to us. We are told that just to keep us safe from others. But even if you have known someone for a long time, they can still deceive and betray you.

You should not give your trust to people you just met, but for me, no matter how many years you have known the person, you should still not give your full trust to them. Sometimes even if your long-time friends, your distant relatives and family members can do bad things and lie to you.

You can get along well with people but don't just give them your trust. Because there are people that even though you've been with them for a long time, you still don't know them well, you haven't seen their true colors yet and you barely know anything about them.

Everyone can lie to you so learn to be vigilant. Don't immediately believe what they tell you and the thing you need to do is watch what they are doing to you. Sometimes listening too much to what people say to you is deafening and you are blind to what is happening around you, so you should only choose what you listen to and believe. Many people are now good at controlling others, so I hope you don't become one of the victims.

Repentance comes later, so as long as it's early, I hope we check and analyze the people we can trust first.

I just thought of writing this topic because of what happened to me. I have a few experiences about this and I just want to express my thoughts.

I'm not totally quick to trust people, but I'm quick to get attached to someone, especially if we get along.

So I have a classmate whom I think I can trust so I tell her the things that I notice in my surroundings. We have known each other for almost 4 years because we are classmates since 1st year college. Sometimes I even tell my secrets to her and she does the same to me. Long story short, recently I was surprised by her actions and words. And I feel that the things I used to tell her that were my secrets, she also told other people, how could I have said that? Well, I'm just surprised that our other classmates also know my secret, which is I only to told her. And this classmate of mine suddenly treated me differently. One time I almost got into trouble because of her, because she said something to other people that was not true. This happened recently, guys, but I won't go into too much detail about the whole incident.

I know that I am not doing anything bad to this classmate of mine, so I am wondering why she is acting like that. Well, I have one suspicion as to why she is acting like that and that is about our grades and our performances. I tried to talk to her about that and if she has a problem with me, but her answer to me is that she doesn't have a problem with me. I want to ask her more questions but she doesn't seem to want to answer and talk to me anymore. So all I did was keep distance with her. I also keeping distance with our other classmates who were always with her. These people that I am referring to now are the ones I told you about before, I just don't know if you still remember or if you have read my article about them.

That's why I realized that I shouldn't use that as a basis, the fact that we get along, even if we share the same preferences, that's not enough reason to say that this person is a real one to me or that person is a true friend.

And before I end this article, I'll just leave you with some quotes that are meaningful and will teach you a lesson.

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That's all for today. Thank you so much for reading this article of mine.

God bless us all.