Focus on yourself coz you matters

Again we got an awesome day to interact with new people, to know about new things, to live and love our life anew , to enjoy with our loved ones. How can we wish for more as Almighty already gave us another new sunrise to enjoy, another new morning to wake up, I don't know about others but I'm pretty much satisfied with my life except one thing the increasing heat of summer. I love summer because of it's unusual beauties but yet I hate the scorching heat of summer which we are going through now this is why we need to avoid doing bad things to our mother earth because once she gets angry with us then we can't imagine what will happen to the whole living and non-living things. Today's article is not about nature or the worst things we are doing to her, actually I'm so annoyed with this hot weather that I could not control myself from sharing my rants.

Let's proceed without delaying__

Nowdays when we are just wasting most of our time watching and imitating others , the most important thing which we can do is to focus on our own self instead of others , only then we will be able to live a healthy and happy life.

So focus on yourself by building a strong relationship with yourself__ We are social animal and it is our natural instinct to build relationships with other human beings in order to get a healthy, happy social life. But often our created relationships can create huge troubles for us and make us traumatized So we need to be more careful about choosing the person with whom we are trying to create a relationship. Indeed our life is not as beautiful and wonderful as fairy tales, there are lots of pains, miseries, sorrows no matter how much we try to avoid we can't but we have the innate right to make our life just as beautiful as our most loved fairy tales just by focusing and building relationship with our own self.

When we start to expect too much from others that's the exact moment we start to understimate, belittle ourself and at the same time we allow them to hurt us, to tear our gentle heart into million pieces for uncountable times. Though we can't control or change the thoughts of others, the behaviour of others, but one thing we all can do is to build a healthy and prosperous relationship with ourself by doing this we can make ourselves more strong , more powerful than ever and we can save ourselves from decaying, from withering.

No matter how difficult the situation is at the end of the day, you are your longest commitment, own true best friend So put yourself first before anything and anyone else because the thing which matters the most is YOU So dare to take stands for yourself and create a healthy, strong relationship with yourself by falling in love with yourself again and again.

Focus on yourself by Trusting Yourself

'Trust' maybe it is just a small word but it carries lots of tiny miracles and opportunities within it unbeknownst to us. Once you start to trust yourself, the magic inside you will start to emerge and spread. Often we make ourself cry, sad, devastated by trusting wrong people again and again So take a deep breathe and tell yourself whenever I'm going to trust someone, that person will be ME only. By doing this, you can paint your own world with the colours which you want.

In this mysterious universe, there are endless things beyond the capability of seeing of our naked mortal eyes So whenever you feel you can't do anything, you can't accomplish anything, that's the time you need to know that you can do more than you think you do.

Allow yourself to trust your own self instead of others because it will help you to become the person you are mean to be. Keep in mind, we all are meant for greater things, fir creating history all we need is to trust ourselves.

Don't allow someone else to fill your mind with their toxic behaviour and negetive thoughts. Don't allow someone to take away the trust which you badly need to put on only yourself. Be the person you always wants to be by building happy relationship with yourself and by trusting yourself.

So that's all for today. I hope you all had s great and amazing day. Wishing you a great evening and blessed day. How was your second holy day of Ramadan??? I assume you are all doing great. Stay safe and stay healthy.

5.41pm(04.04.22)

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