Treat people with love

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Omg, Jesse, you are so dumb and foolish at the same time.

Hahaha haha, David laughed at the innocent girl because she failed to get the answer.
I can't wait for class to dismiss, so I can mock you dumb ass.
He whispered into Jesse's ear while the teacher wasn't looking.

After class was over, Jesse was not left alone as all her classmates made fun of her always getting the wrong answer in class and for looking fat and ugly.

Jesse cried but nothing can stop this bully from her classmates. She got home and went straight to her room because she knew her parents were not always at home and she doesn't have anyone to complain about the bully she was always receiving from school.

While on the bed, Jesse began thinking and concluded that she can not take the pain alone and decided to end her life since no one was listening to her or paid attention to her. She had no friends because nobody wants to be friends with the dumbest, fattest, and ugliest girl in the class. So they thought.



The next day, everyone waited to continue their bullying act with Jesse but did not see her in school. Her classmates were surprised because Jesse never stays back from school no matter the amount of pain inflicted on her, her teachers were worried because they had tried calling Jesse's home phone to be sure she was alright but nobody was picking. The school knew Jesse's parents were not always in the house until the weekend because of their work.

After school, while on their way home, one of the students decided to go and take his bath in the stream, coming closer, he found a body floating in the water and out of fear ran to alert the passersby.

Those who heard his cry for help rushed to the scene and after much work, they were finally able to pull out the body.

I guess I don't need to tell us who's body was found because it was Jesse's body found floating. She was already dead by the time they brought her out, she drowned herself because nobody, not even her parents were treating her well.



When the school heard about the death of Jesse, they wept, the students who always found it fun to bully and treat Jesse wrongly all regretted their action and wished they had not done what they did.

They could not bring back Jesse but they all learned never to treat people badly and will always live with the guilt of their actions which caused the death of an innocent girl.



How many times have we treated people badly and with disdain not minding the repercussions or after-effects of our attitude, how many times have we succeed in sending someone into a depressed mood without realizing that we killed that person instantly even if the person does not end up committing suicide?


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Every day we see the rate of youth that commits suicide, and the rest even worst than Jesse and this is as a result of the way they were treated, this as a result of the depression that came in due to the way they were treated.

Many have lost their lives because of the way people had treated them and mocked them because of their body size, and the rest of them that we can mention.



The news talked about a young girl who just graduated from the university as a lawyer who committed suicide after taking to social media to thank God for seeing her through. After her post, she got so many comments but negative comments talking about how fat she was and the rest of the terrible things.

Worst of all was that she was dished by her boyfriend who told her she was too fat and would one day become obese. This led to depression and after some days, it was said the girl committed suicide in her room.



As funny as that may sound, it is real and many more stories we hear every day about people who did the same thing or worst than that.

There is no harm in treating people well, there is nothing you will lose if we learn to treat people fine, there is no pain if we learn to treat people the same way we would want and love to be treated, why then treat people bad and expect others to treat you well.

Treat people the way you want to be treated, treating people badly does not define who they are, it defines who you are and who others will see you as.

If you treat people like they are smart, they will be eager to learn, if you treat them like they are dumb, they will tend to disengage and may end up hurting you back just to ease or Quincy there hurt or going into a depressing mood but will either last them forever making them go for something that will release their depression-like taking hard drugs, joining a bad gang and the rest we can think of or lead them to commit suicide.

I am sure, nobody wants to carry the guilt of pushing someone to commit suicide because of the way they treated the person, then let us learn to treat people the best way we can to avoid death and guilty conscience.



Treat people like they are human and not like an animal or an alien who was thrown down to planet earth and do not have feelings or blood rushing through their veins. They are human and absorb every action and word thrown at them whether good or bad.

I am sure nobody loves to be treated like an animal no matter how poor, wretched, or unschooled they are. We all want to be treated well, so learn to treat people well and you will be happy you did.

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your behavior to others reflects your personality , It indicates that to which family you belong. So, always show your positive side to others . good job Evedear

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3 years ago

You are right. The way we behave to others tells them our family background and the state at which it stands.

Thank you.

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