Why cheating?

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Aside from money and care what else do you think women want from men?

I have been thinking that truly what does a woman want? And what does a man want from a woman? Because the issue of cheating is on both sides.

It baffles me how some humans don't even know what they want and why they are in a marriage or relationship a lot of people have made decisions about relationships with their minds clouded by greed and selfishness.

I have seen men jump from one woman to another because they are beautiful and I have seen women run around men just because of money and these things makes me wonder if true love still exists in this life because relationship is now like a business where ladies go into just for material things just like what I read on @Olasquare post that a lady wants to be collecting monthly allowance from her boyfriend and even some guys went into a relationship for satisfaction, some guys are in a relationship too because of money when they see a rich girl automatically they want to be her boyfriend.

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Last night I saw a lady posting iPhone on someone's status her boyfriend bought it for her and after some hours that same boyfriend has beaten the hell out of her though I don't know what happened between them but my question now is why is she with him? Because am sure that is not the first time he's beating her but she chooses to be with him because of material things.

Some ladies don't even care where their boyfriend is getting money from all they want is a rich guy to move in with to live an expensive life, that's not enough reason to go into a relationship and I also saw some girls being used for money ritual and those guys recorded it and post for people to see why are some girls choose to end their lives because of money?

While some guys date girls for sexual satisfaction, curves, beauty that's all they are looking for in a lady some guys will even say if she's not light in complexion with a very beautiful face they can date her but then you don't know you just made the biggest mistake of your life because a relationship that is not built on feelings of love would definitely end up crashing badly.

When you love someone for something or go into a relationship, marriage for selfish reasons and the things eventually get missing it means your love for that person will start fading away and that's why you keep seeing 1-year marriage crashing, 2 years of marriage having a serious issue because the love is not enough between the two of them but if the love you have for your partner is enough I am sure there is nothing that can separate you till the end.

Back to the main topic, why do people cheat? I have some reasons which I believe might lead to cheating in a relationship and I will highlight them below:

• Some people cheat because the love they have for their partner is not enough.

To keep a relationship, you must give the best of your love with a la lot of sacrifice and if one side is not giving his or her's completely into the relationship, there is no how the relationship is going anywhere and this would lead to seeking of attention elsewhere.

• Some cheat for material things.

This is really annoying to me and I get confused when I see people cheat because of merely material things and this is common among ladies If you know you can settle with a person who is not financially fit it is better to wait for the rich dude than to go into it and then end up cheating. It is very wrong to cheat because your lover can't give you all that you want.

• Some cheat because they are not satisfied with what they have.

When a person is not contented with what they have so their covetousness would push them out to cheat.

Some people are cheaters by nature.

This reminds me of one of my neighbors where I was living before, he always cheats on his wife, and guess what those other girls have nothing, and his wife she owns a clinic where she treats people. Is that not a future that two people should build together as a family?

Instead of joining hands with his wife physically, financially, and emotionally, he chooses to spend all his money on another woman.

He takes them out every time to celebrate birthdays for them and buys expensive things as well while his wife struggling all alone with two kids.

I am sure there are some women like that too who choose to have extramarital affairs for some lame reasons like "he can't satisfy me in bed" and other silly excuses they can't even share with someone else. They know what they are doing is a shameful thing and that is why it is called "cheating".

There are times you see the husband of a cheating wife and you can't help but ask yourself why she is cheating because they have a perfect home already but some humans are just something else in nature.

Thanks for reading.