Can we call this love? I

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Yesterday, when I was scrolling on Facebook to get information about a gospel singer named Osinachi nwachukwu who died as a result of a beating she got from her husband and one notification, came in and the notification ask that "can we call this love" I immediately click on it to check what went wrong again because social media now is full of bad news and I seriously do not know why it was her story that the notification brought again and indeed can we call that one love? A love that goes along with beating, suffering, and emotional pain can it be called love? Why do women endure bad things like this? Can't they just leave and live a peaceful life alone?

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Sometimes people are seeing the signs of death in their relationships but still, they choose to stay until one day everyone will post RIP for them just like this woman call Osinachi, don't get me wrong am not judging her and am not blaming her for anything because I don't know what my mother too went through with my dad, because Africa believes that once you are married you can't come back to your father's house because you no longer belongs there.

Meanwhile, the relationship of nowadays can not be rest assured of because some people are into bad habits like drugs which makes them misbehave just like a Nigerian celebrity called Nkechi blessing's fiance who got beaten up blue-black by her fiance and only God knows why but the celerity called Nkechi quickly cut off their engagement because she just found out that the man she wants to settle with is a beast in human flesh.

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I do not blame her because she did what was best for her before her obituary is been posted all over the social media, and there are so many relationships like that that ladies kept quiet about until the last day of their lives just like this gospel artist who died yesterday.

It was said that many people have advised her to leave the marriage to save her life but she kept on asking some questions like:

What will people say?

How will people look at her?

Will the gospel association be happy with that?

How will she cope with the comments on social media?

How will she cope as a single mother?

Well I guess her spirit knows the truth now because if you live your life based on what people say or think of you then you are not living for yourself, you are just living people's life and someone also posted something about her that if she has left her marriage the gospel association and churches will not call her for a concert again because they will believe she will mislead the young couple in the association, my question now is what will the association do to bring her back to life? Or is the association do or die thing?

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Everyone knows how they are keeping their homes so never let any bunch of people control how you will live your life I guess some of the association will be regretting it now but that doesn't bring Osinachi back to life anymore, her so call husband happens to be a pastor I keep wondering what this man must have been feeding people from his alter called sermon that is why some people don't find church a place to go because of their bad experience with church and pastors.

It was said that after the man beats her (Osinachi) up he commands her to cook for him and after that, he has sex with her, then some minutes later she landed in the hospital where she spent 5 good days using oxygen to breathe before she passed on yesterday, I don't think some ladies find this educating at all because am sure some are still in this hell they called marriage and yet they are seeing how bad it ends but yet they won't leave.

I just pray that may her perfect soul rest in peace and the wicked man that called himself pastor get what he deserves because here in Africa if you know big people here you can do anything you can escape it but I pray this man never escapes this because he just shortened a life that was supposed to live longer.

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