@Estheriox 7 February 2022 edited

What to do, when you like him (love)

Lead Image 7th of February 2022 Good morning to my sweet family. I hope you had a good weekend,yesterday was boring to me, as I couldn't get in touch with my sweethearts on re@Balikis due to lack of power supply. @Balikis,@Fash-Tioluwa,@success,@cryptonag,@Fash,@Infinity, I have so many joy giver,I can't possibly name all,I'm the most excited today, cos I'm here today to interact with my lovelies @Garrethgrey,@Lixten,@Farmgirl,@ruffa,@jane. Let's get into today's article , you will enjoy reading . Guys are very lucky,when they like a lady,they can approach the lady, and take things further, if the lady gives in , it's a normal thing right ?, it's annoying why can't ladies do the same lol,if a lady should do that , she's sure to get the criticism of her life . Since we can't ask a guy out ,how do we go about it ,when we like a guy,Let's get into it . MAKE A MOVE You can make a move by initiating conversation, conversation o lol,not intitiate relationship,don't loose your self respect,by doing that, guys are meant to do the chasing. Men like to help ladies,you can ask for his help on something . Be available and accessible. MOVE SLOWLY Guys can tell when you're giving too much attention ,cos most guys are use to not getting attention.dont let your emotions betray you . There was a day emotions betrayed a friend, she was just telling me how attracted she was to the guy ,when he came in , we changed the topic of what we were discussing , the the guy contributed to what we were saying, it wasn't something funny the guy said,but emotions betrayed my friend,and she started laughing uncontrollably,I found it weird . Don't start buying him gifts, cos he might get into you cos the gift you're buying him,and you will never know,if he loves you or it's just the gifts ,that you're giving him he loves. BE WHAT YOU WANT Be want you want,in the sense,if you will get anyone to love , be sure to have the kind of qualities ,you like in the person. If you want a bad guy then, you must be a bad girl lol Same applies here too ,you want a good guy ,be a good girl.ladies and guy should be the kind of partner they want . DON'T FANTASIZE TOO MUCH We ladies naturally have the gift of fantasizing, be sure , he is the right person for you, ladies sometime create an unreal qualities of the kind of guy ,they want . Remembered a lady, that told me all the qualities,she wants in a guy and they are so unreal , how can we have qualities of good and bad in one person . She said ,I want a guy who is spiritual,hardworking , and a little bit bad .lol BE READY TO WALK AWAY Don't be too invested ,cos you might,find out he is not the kind of person you want,you can only be attracted at first sight,you can't love at first sight, it's when you really know each other that , you can say , you fall in love Be ready to walk away ,so you won't be controlled . BE ACCOUNTABLE Don't cut off your family and loved one , because of some you just met, sometime,that doesn't happens intentionally , the lady is just trying to protect her feeling for the guy,but you've got to be accountable , cos it's your family members and your loved ones ,if the guy ends up hurting you . When you like a guy , make a move , I'm not saying you should ask him out lol ,some guys are just too shy to express their feelings,but when you make a move by initiating conversation,they can be more free and eventually express their feelings for you, guys like helping ladies and if you ask for his help and he is not willing to help that should be a signal that he is not interested in you , don't force yourself on anyone, because you're very precious,and you shouldn't allow anyone underrate you. Special thanks to all those who constantly , read,up- vote, and also tip me . I love you all .