"There is a timelines in everything"

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There a saying that goes like this: " We try so hard to copy others without realizing we have different examination papers to answer " Do we have any idea about it?

Maybe, some of these questions can trigger a little thought about it. Does it bother you when you were slightly slower? I mean, about how far you been in your journey to success? are you, even until now, comparing yourself to others?

Have you succeeded? We keep on wondering when it's our time? We keep on planning and trying but never succeeded. For how long it is, to wait? Well, no one knew.

As I write these questions, I try to answer them too. I believe, every answer is different for each person.

Most men feel insecure about being far behind success. The uncertainty provoked peace of mind, anxiety while trying to figure out the future. Will we be fine later? it is what fills the mind. Somehow, an individual may question fate. Is this what meant to be? Where this question comes frequently after repetitive failure and great disappointment.

A failure and disappointment, basically not a preference. These words are seen as discouragement and difficulties. No one will want to invite the circumstances into life. At all costs, men try their utmost to make sure it doesn't come crossing the pathway.

At one time, an imbalance of mentality occurred. This leads to an improper way of thinking. Worst come to worst, resulting in an emptiness that causing mental illness.

Rather than see it negatively, for sake of inner peace, being optimistic is the correct way. However, it is a challenge that not everyone can cope with. those who found strength, make it as a reason to grow and learn to be better in living.

Life is a perfect combination of bitter and sweet. Life is a wheel that going up and down. Accepting bitterness is tough, but moving on is far better than not.

Moreover, success is an accomplishment that revolved around many aspects. It can be relationship, career, or health. When something bad happened in life, don't dwell on it. Never look at it as a total failure of life. Turn to the other side, and look at every little blessing around.

There might be a blessing in our life, dreamed by someone. Thus, never took it for granted. Instead, appreciate everything that happened. It can be a blessing in disguise.

Therefore, live the present, love, and forgive yourself. Competed with yourself, to be better than you were yesterday. Last but not least, don't compare yourself to others.

God's willing, at the right time, with hard work, everything will fall to its place.

THERE IS A TIMELINE IN EVERYTHING.

Thanks for reading. Regards.

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Personally, I cannot say there is a perfect combination of bitter and sweet in my life. If there's a timeline there must be something seriously wrong with it.

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@wakeupkitty glad to see your comment. Thanks for reading.If it "personally" it makes sense too. "Timelines" generally refer to "when it time come" and basically, we don't know when. Whether it turns out to be "bitter" or "sweet", we also will never know. Just give out the best in everything. If it "bitter" then take a lesson from it, if it "sweet" then be happy with it. Personally, for me, life is for sure a perfect combination of bitter and sweet because that just how life is.

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Comparing myself to others might have happened in my past. A little bit jealous of others still exist in my present but then being optimistic in the future is one of my plans. It is exhausting trying to catch up with things that I want to be successful with until I learned to separate all of them into a few goals. With this, I can focus on one at a time. I can call myself partly successful because I have achieved more than half of my goals. Perhaps there will be more set of goals in the future, but then that will have to wait until the future becomes the present.

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Most of us may feel the same, it never easy. It need patience and strength. Wishing you a better life ahead. Be proud, to yourself.

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