When we are living miles away from our partner, obviously it is called a long-distance relationship. Whether you are married or not, it was a challenging relationship to sort out. It get tougher in marriage life. Some couple may strong enough to get through it and some may not. Of course, it wasn't an easy task to do.
Some people may advise you, not to get involved in a long-distance relationship so that you won't get heartbroken. Most people said long-distance relationship won't last long. They believe it gave more disadvantages than advantages.
I have been in a long-distance relationship for 6 years now. I wished, my advice can help those in the same boat as mine.
Most of all, to make it easier to handle, put your trust in your partner. Trust is everything, in another way around, the other must able to stay loyal. Two basic and important thing, trust and be loyal to each other. Otherwise, whatever our partner says or explains, we will always have doubts. Thus, we tend to question and argue with every issue. Regardless even it just a simple matter.
Times play an important role too. Do spend time well with your partner: messages, calls and video calls are the sources that will connect you with your partner. Therefore, pay attention to how much you contact your partner through media. Leave a quick message as I love you, take care or safe home, those are always precious words which make them happy.
Make a time to talk about your relationship, get to know each other better. Be more open to each other, tell what you like and dislikes. Simple talk can give clarity about what each other feel and solve misunderstanding too.
It's normal for the spouse to doubt the care when we aren't with them much. Loneliness may be developed in them. So, don't make your partner feel alone and fill their days with a smile. Give support, ask them about their day. Good things to know when your partner alert about yourself and always be there when in need.
While common relationships get to celebrate special days by hanging out or partying together, other ways can be done by a couple with a long-distance relationship. Have some extra effort, by shipping gift for your partner during special days. Often, it can be much more worth compared to others.
Whatever advice be given to you, I believe that it always depends on what the couple think of each other. Mindset can change everything, either in a good or bad way. However, arguments will still exist no matter what, but we should learn to forgive each other.
Well, I still personally think that the above factors I mentioned can affect the well being of a long-distance relationship. In a positive aspect, when we committed to the long-distance relationship better, it was the most beautiful relationship ever!
What is your mind? What do you think? Tell me about it!
Thanks for reading. Regards.
