Five habits stopping you from being truly happy

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Almost every action we take in life is aimed towards our happiness: a feeling of content satisfaction and even bliss, still it can be a bit hard to identify

But unhappiness, on the other hand, is easy to identify, you know when it has taken hold of you... It is possible that those who earn most are only a smidge happier than those who work for them

Life has little influence on your happiness because much of it is under your control, but your habit has a lot of influence on your happiness... And there are some habits that can lead to dissatisfaction more than others and that's what I will be talking about

Staying at home

Sometimes when we feel unhappy we decide to stay at home but that's not good for our mood. There are sometimes when we just want to stay at home and not talk to anyone, but know that this becomes a tendency and it destroys your mood

Know when unhappiness is making you feel this way and beat it, go and mingle with people and you will feel relieved and happier.

Envy and jealousy

Being jealous of others makes you unhappy, you just feel they are better than you and 5hat spoils your mood

Be wary of the thinking of jealousy because that spoils your mood and makes you feel unhappy

Pessimism

Pessimistic thinking really makes you unhappy and beyond that, it can become a life prophecy because if you expect bad things, you will get bad things

Of you are in this condition, force yourself to look at things in a brighter side and you will see that things are not as bad as you think... I think that might help

Spending too much effort on getting material things

You might be wondering how but of course it does have an impact...

When you spend too much effort on getting material things can make you unhappy, apart from the experience of disappointment, you might also discover that you have gained it at the expense of real things that make you happy such as family, friends, and well-wishers

Keeping your feelings to yourself

Keeping your feeling to yourself really makes you unhappy, you must have experienced that in one way or the other, but if you still in this condition, just try letting it out, share it with your family and friends and see how you will feel

Changing your habit with the aim of earning a positive reward is one of the best things you should doand it is also important for taking control of your happiness... When you are happy, others around you tends to be happy

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I'm kind of pessimistic myself sometimes.. Okay, most of the times. 😁😁

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but now you know the effect of that so you can let go of it

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Wow thank you dedicating your article to me.. i read this just now..

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you are welcome

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i subscribe you place subscribe me

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Anyway, don't worry about that, I will sub you😊😊

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Ok... You are sure you did, because you are the second person telling me this today but it only increased by 1

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Thats a good pointers, maybe for a reaso most people to that habit, sometimes, but always keeping it that way will lead you to out of focus on what really makes you happy in life.

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Yeah that's right

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