Know This As A Parent
Teach your child to focus more on their strengths rather than their weaknesses
Before i begin anything, i want to say that i am happy and delighted to be part of this great and awesome community of BCH lovers. This is going to be my first article here, and i hope the lessons i have gotten from others here will help me give out my best. I am so much impressed by what i see here, it's not like other platforms where there is limit to something. I got to like the fact that the freedom to express oneself is allowed here.
Naughty me, i forgot to introduce myself. The joy is so much here, i will just say my nickname, maybe with time y'all will get to know my real names. I am seeing myself becoming a blogger after now, i thought of this last night and it made me laugh for long while. Before now i will always top the list of people that are always lazy when it comes to writing long articles. You shouldn't blame me for that, it just happened, and i am happy that i have been able to deal with the laziness right from the first day i registered on this platform. Everything here motivated me that i was hoping for this day to come when i will write my own articles.
Going back to the business of the day, what i will share with us today is something that is really happening in our society today. New parents do seek for advice from other successful parents on how they can raise their own kids the proper way. And sometimes if they don't want to show their weaknesses to other parents, they will talk within themselves how to bring up their kids, and equally how build their self-confidence as they grow. You see as a parent, you will always begin from somewhere, before you play on building their self-confidence, you must first of all know what they are afraid of, those things that makes them look small, those things that makes them doubt their abilities.
This problem could come from the environment they find themselves, places where other kids intimidates them, or it could be they are not so good with mathematics. As a parent who is opting on building the self-confidence of their child will start from here to address the issue, what you say to them after discovering all of this can make them feel better thank before. Where you help them even at their young age to understand that whatsoever they are going through can be dealt with can help boost their self-confidence.
A parent who doesn't have time for their child can never raise a good and confident child. Have time for your child, maybe during the weekend and try to talk with them. Ask them what is bothering their life, from here you can know exactly how to help them build their self-confidence. Tell them that no matter what they face outside shouldn't limit them in any way, but rather they should focus on their strength. And if you are giving this kind of advice to your child, ensure that you are always there to celebrate them for their strength. This will help build their self-confidence.
Your child might always appear small in size when they are with other kids, encourage them with position words such that they will seize to depend on their size for anything. Tell them that their strength is not based on their size or the kind of clothes they wear. Always congratulate your child for their small wins. Also remind them that they need to be happy and proud of who they are even when they make mistakes. While building your child to become better person, tell them that you have equally been through tough times when you were trying to build your own self-confidence like them, and you were able to do gradually you were better. Everything that gives your kid hard time, try to give your support.
If you have tried all of this and it's still not working, employ the service of a teenager councilor to work with them. This is the best thing you would ever do to you kids.
Thank you for reading....
Awww Emarah you are highly welcome to this great platform full with people of the brighter future, adding to your article, I really want to emphasis on the attention that parents denied their kids in the name of work or something else, why on earth would you hand over your child to the hands of your maiden and expect her to brought up a child in a good way that you need?, just imagine even the parents themselves struggle to train their kids by trying to bring the best out of them but sometimes being the children are some how stubborn they will be like giving you tough time before they adapt to the teaching, but if this happens with the parents the parents would some how be patient with the kids knowing is their kids, but the house maid will not tolerate such they'll say something like if you want to be good you good after all you are not my child when I born mine I will train them on how i want them to be.