It's okay not to be okay

This is wonderful

the world is not set right, thats why its okay to be not okay, we are living in cruel world where only at home we feel safe, it is very sad but also very true- true SirPotato, thank you!

I know the feeling of isolating yourself from others. It's hard to express your thoughts and feelings about something. It's not because your afraid, it's because it feels like no one will really understand you. Sometimes, I doubt my self if I really knew who I am. It's hard to mix things up. Like, you thought about the result before giving it a try. It's kinda frustrating to express yourself but afraid that no one will understand you and they will just judge you and what you relly are. But sometimes I have the courage to speak up but the problem is no one is willing to listen. Am I the only person who do'nt have any one true friend? HAHAHA

Everytime i see this kind of title, i always remember the korean drama, its okay not to be okay, it's great drama about people who are holding emotions (hatred, sadness, grudges) for long time. But when they started to loosen up and let go of those emotions, they started to feel better.

So for you, don't think too much. Loosen up, stop holding that emotions for long coz it will cause depression. I suffered depression before as i am working here abroad, away from family, away from friends and only seldom to go out with friends here due to this pandemic, so most of the time, I'm alone and lonely.

There are times that my tears suddenly just fell down, my mind was full of negative thoughts, about my family, my responsibilities, my own self. I'm always thinking, is my hard work enough to support my family? Will i gonna be lonely until I grow old? Why I be okay soon?

Am burnt out due to exhaustion in work and it gives me depression along with the negative thoughts in my mind. But then, I found readcash. It helps me express my feelings, emotions and thoughts. It helps me engage with others, talk with others...it became a cycle, eventually, I noticed a progress. My depression became suppressing, I started to became okay. I started to let go of the emotions I hold for so long.

Eventhough it pop out anytime, I learned how to think bout it too much. You should learn how to fight against it, or else it will consume your whole life. What will happen to your family if you will give up? Think about it. Despite of difficulties in life, we should always be optimistic. That's the only way to stay at bay in depressing hours and that's the only way to fight against it.

Sorry for the kong comment, i think this can be a short article already. 😅 I'm really like this everytime i can relate to an article .

Your title is a very important message and I do hope many will read it. Being different, not okay is a part of who we are too. It might not be the most comfortable or easiest part of us but it is who we are and no matter how dark it is it is you. You count and like all the other times it's clear to me you have something valuable to share and you can write.

I am sure @charmingcherry08, @Clarissa_KG, @esciisc, @gerl, @Hanzell, @Jane, @Jdine, @lioness777, @marblely, @Mehedi01, @psychie, @Urmeelaurmee122, @Xzeon, @heartbeat1515 share my opinion.

I recognized a lot. No news, the own comfort zone does make life easier and there's nothing wrong with that. 🍀💕

This one called depression and you are right. My father also suffer this one but we always encourage him to go outside make some stuff to make his mind busy. At first it's not easy for him then 6-7months later after all the medications and also with the help of the people around him he used to open his feeling and we try to understand things .He is now on the stage of recovery. And the most important he has Gid who always there.

"It is okay to be not okay" is not always good. It may lead you to depression. Whatever it is the reason for you to feel that way, do not let it engulf you. When in situations like that do not let yourself be alone. Look for friends that have a positive mindset and do not dwell in your comfort zone. One more important thing, pray brother, always pray.😊

Don't put yourself out in the community. If you experience like this, you can ask for a friend that will listen to your thoughts, do not put negativity in your life it will ruin your perception about life. Always put in your mind that everything has a purpose. Appreciate every little thing or big happens in your life. Embraced it.

It’s good things to be okay.

I know how it feels. But at this moment, j am totally okay. But depression kicks in from time to time, and it's good to have someone you can talk to. You need a reliable friend who is willing to listen without judging. And whatever happens, pray.