Why churchy ladies remain single (part 1)

Have seen good ladies out there getting frustrated because they don't have who to Marry yet,upon all their good girl's stuff they still remain in the same spot since last or upper year while bad girls are getting married Saturdays after Saturdays. Alot of them are morally justifiable,they have set standards for themselves they have achieved those standard with Time,they are disciplined set of girls, they are referred to as the churchy ladies,their movements can easily be predicted, from home to school to church to the market or a friend's house,they don't like attending occasions

I see alot of them been encouraged by preachers or writers that their Mr Right is on its way but they have waited enough and not seeing anything close to that,they started waiting since they were 25years and now they are 30,31,32,33 and yet no Mr Right,they are scared because they don't want to be too old before the man comes, they thought to themselves "what could be wrong,what am I not doing right"? They kept on praying and believing in God but refuse to understand these few points am about to share with you ,why they haven't seen their own Mr Right.

1. FEELING OF ENTITLEMENT- They feel because they are a good girl ,they are automatically entitled to a good husband without working towards it. MUTE EFE Says that "THAT YOU ARE A GOOD GIRL OR A GOOD GUY DOES NOT ABSOLVE YOU FROM THE CONSEQUENCES OF NOT KNOWING HOW RELATIONSHIPS WORKS" For everything in life there are principles guilding it.

2. LACK OF SELF IMPROVEMENT- most of them are redundant in their self growth, when there is a discussion about politics, fashion, lifestyle, current news they don't have any idea about them,they are dull and never better than before,they are always at the spot they were years back,never improving but when it's all about prayer they always have something to say,no man wants to a woman who doesn't know anything about life,prayer is good but there are things you are expected to do for yourselves that prayers won't do for you. Try to improve your intellect and knowledge about all facets of life.

3. BEING OVER FAMILIAR WITH SOMEONE- Many good girls keep friend zoning their male friends, saying he's just a friend and I can't marry him,who else do you want to marry if not your friend, your enemy?? They know fully well that that guy loves/likes them but they keep on turning a blind eye to it and praying to God to send them their Mr Right but God keeps directing them to that brother but they want to friend Zone him.

Thanks for reading this....next part will be coming up later