We should be careful in every word that comes out of our mouth, because there are words that can affect someone's personality and lead to insecurities.
Ephesians 4:29 - Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, ...
Some of us Filipino can't deny the fact that we sometimes say things that should not be said especially to the kids or our kids.
After watching "BEAUTY IN A BOTTLE" I realized something, and that is to be careful of what words that came out into our mouth even if we are his/her parents.
Below I list down all the negative words that can affect someone's behavior or lead into insecurity.
ANG PANGIT MO (YOU ARE UGLY)Â
This should not be said with someone even if they are truly unattractive, we even sometimes said it in a joke way, but we didn't know that it really affected them.
The effect of these words may lead to self consciousness and low confidence which is not good because sometimes this word can create a gap between others and not being sociable.
ANG BOBO MO (YOU ARE SO STUPID)
What I learned from being a practice teacher was there were no dumb or stupid in individual, because we have this so called "MULTIPLE INTELLEGENT" maybe that someone is not good with academics, maybe they are good with something else.
MULTIPLEÂ INTELLIGENCE
It refers to a theory describing the different ways students learn and acquire information. These multiple intelligences range from the use of words, numbers, pictures and music, to the importance of social interactions, introspection, physical movement and being in tune with nature.
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The effect of this one is low self stem when it comes to study, since he/she was called dumb, he or she does not want to to his or her best because they think that even if they gave their best, people already think that they are dumb, so why should bother.
BALIW KA ( YOUR CRAZY)
There are several types of being crazy, Kind of crazy about something, crazy in love and so on, but when someone called you crazy out of the blue or you made some mistake and you called it crazy, that's too far for a mistake that it leads someone to be more stubborn, we can correct Mistakes in a proper way and not this kind of way.
We used to call someone out these words and we already used that especially when you get a small score in the exam or you even pass sometimes with pity, so we are told that we are stupid, and honestly that's not good because it really has a big effect on a student, how can he insist that to study if they still calling you a stupid.
These are some of the words we should not use on someone, because this simple word can affect someone’s life.
Never in my entire life that I heard words like that in my parents, even when they were still alive, but sometimes I heard other people calling me ugly, or why Am I black, I really felt offended but I just ignore them, I have been in the stage of my life that I am not confident enough because of what beauty I had, but then I realized that why I should have to be beautiful from others when there are a lot of people accept me for who I am.
FINAL THOUGHT:Â
What I learned from that movie was, never try to be like others, trying just to be yourself will be enough for you to be a good person, and of course, always watch the words that come out from our mouth because we do not know what is the effect of it on others.
This is me @Dawn_Dii , saying that the world is so beautiful so be happy, be wise, be confident, and be you 💕
Thank You For Reading 🎉
Date Published: February 6, 2022
Never compare yourself unto others. people has different kind attitudes. Just be yourself and be contented. Thank God for all the blessings we have. Because God created us More beautiful, so be happy be contented & accept our differences. If you accept insecurities it means you accept badluck in you life. That's all. #Keepsafe.