A Must-Read for the Men; Ladies Please, Keep Off.

I will be very blunt with all of you my male folks. I want to use this medium to beg for your forgiveness in advance because I believe that there must be someone to whom my statements in this post may seem like an insult to you therefore, I apologize in Advance (I am very sorry, please forgive me).

Now, to the business of the day, if you look in-between your two legs and you find out that you are another leg which of course is not as long as the other two, I am begging you to read in-between the lines of this post with all carefulness and attentiveness. This is not the time to start showing your masculinity which of course is nothing other than a pile of flesh and muscles that can be deflected by just one bullet. This is why you should not let those empty muscles get into your head at this moment. For those of you who think that their masculine deep voice is golden, I bet you have not heard me talk then you will know that your voice sounds like a bird’s voice.

I have a few things to tell you all my male folks because I believe that if you miss these things I am about to say, you will surely find yourself to blame when old age comes knocking. Whether you are already an old married man, a very young married man or even a single and not married young or old man, this post is purely for you. For the married men both young and old;

·        Are you among those married men who will always tell their children to go and meet their mom when they come asking for money?

·        Are you among those married men who will always be too busy to play with the kids once in a while?

·        Are you among those married men that will always shout at their wives in the presence of the children?

·        Are you among those married men that make the highest mistake of not showing their children how much love they have for their wives?

·        Are you among those married men that have made it clear to both their wives and children that they do not want to be corrected even when they are wrong?

There is an endless list of the wrong things a lot of married men do which most times they pass it down to their sons and this is what has led us and the society to where we are today in respect to having a wonderful family where true love exists. Today, I am here to tell it your face that if you are among these types of men I have mentioned or if you are still single but you are already seeing such a way of life as the best for you then you have already dogged your grave. I am not wishing you to die in any way but I tell you the simple truth, you will not live as long as you are meant to live the moment you adopt such a way of life. Most times we the male folks forget that the real essence of family and children is companionship and nothing more. The moment you see yourself making some little money that should be used to take care of your family at all times, you will begin to feel like a mini-god in the family, making even your wife a slave in the house.

It is something you may not see its adverse effect in your life while you are still very much younger as a man but I tell you, the moment you find yourself between the ages of 65 and 70 years, it will begin to make sense to you and by then you won’t be able to do anything other than to succumb to the pressure. Being a father does not make you a god in the house rather you are supposed to be a servant of all the persons in your household. It sounds funny, right? But that is the hard truth that a lot of men do not want to hear. You can choose to make amends today by changing the narrative in the story of your children whenever you are not around. Can your children miss you so much that they would do anything to save you from death when it comes knocking? This is one big hell of a question you must be ready to answer as a man and if your answer is a YES then you are a rear gem, but if your answer is a NO, this is the time you need to make serious amendments in your life as a father otherwise it will be too late when old age comes.

Accepting correction as a Husband and a Father

I decided to talk about this part lastly because I wanted it to stick into your skull as a man. That you are a man does not mean that you cannot make mistakes. Being a man has made it so easy for you to make mistakes therefore, how do you accept corrections from your wife, children and even your household servants? To so many, it may seem too tough but I tell you, any man who does not accept correction from either the wife or the children whenever it is given is already a failed husband and father. I am not here to beg you to do the right thing but I am here to tell it to your face that if you are going contrary to what you are meant to do as a husband and as a father then, you are indeed a living corpse. I don’t mean to insult you but I think the insult will make it sink into your head whether you like it or not. Like I said in the beginning, I am sorry for being so blunt and insulting in this post, but I feel it is highly needed.

For the ladies that disobeyed the instruction I gave, I want to say thank you for always wanting the best out of your sons and your husbands. It is only a loving mother or wife who will disobey an order such as the one I gave just to know what is being said about the male folk. Thank you for always believing in your sons and husbands. Please, my ladies, help them to understand how lonely they will be when old age sets in. As a woman, you already feel a bit of loneliness the moment your baby starts walking and eventually leave the house and out of your sight. You know how painful and lonely it feels but I believe the men do not understand it at all therefore, help them as much as you can.

Lastly for the men, don’t allow yourself to become a tyrant in your house either by chance or by mistake, to avoid going to see God or the devil at a very young age. This is not a curse rather it is a piece of sincere advice from a good friend.

Thank you for reading it, for those who read it to the end you are the real MVP’s and Davinchysax loves you all.

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