My attractions, repulsions and what keeps me around.

What attracts me is not what keeps me

Yesterday has been such a long and busy day . I couldn't even get a chance to think of something good to write here...because my mind is so exhausted.

The day is finally over and I was sitting in front of the house with a friend gisting about relationships. Then he was talking about what attracts him to a lady, his likes and dislikes. He gave his own interesting points on why he prefer a lady with some certain qualities and so and so. And I also shared my own opinions serious ones and sarcastic ones. It was a funny conversation.

But the thing about me is I'm kinda diverse and dynamic when it comes to relationships. What attracts me is not always what keeps me.

Now allow me to share with you some of my view points regarding my attractions, repulsions and what will keep me.

Attractions:

1. As you must have guessed and generally what attracts a man at first sight to a lady is her beauty, her physical attraction. The beauty in her face and body, i don't care about her complexion as long as she's pretty. Then her body structure(moderate body, not too slim, not too chubby)Hight; preferably tall but not talker than me, I'm about 6.5 feet...so if she's taller than me...hah! then she's too tall.

2. Second one is her maturity. Not just by age but by her attitude, character and behavior. I hardly tolerate ladies who act silly and too childish. I get so captivated by those maturedly well behaved girls.

3. Intelligence, common sense and Sense of responsibility. Lots of people have great intelligence but few among them are capable of using common sense. A girl with both intelligence,common sense and sense of responsibility is like the most precious gem to me. She knows things and always take responsibilities for her actions.

4. Respectful. Respect is very vital organ in a person and the lost of it is very crucial to a relationship. Therefore a respectful lady is a perfect gift.

Repulsions

This things always win in pushing me out of a relationship. I just can't tolerate them, probably because of my sensitivity. Yeah I get a bit sensitive at times.

1. Talkative and Lying. Some girls are kin to telling lies because they talk too much. And don't get me wrong I like girls who talk alot, who always have something to say. But if what they will open their mouth to say is a lie then I'll definitely pass on that. And if they do it constantly I get bored,tired and annoyed.

2. Unclassy and unreserved. Have you ever had a girl that you're in a relationship with became friends with guys, total strangers right in front of you? And welcomes every guy that opens teeth and smile at her. That is very annoying and a major turn off.

• What keeps me

The beauty of a girl may attract me but what will keep me stuck with her is her good character, Good manners, intelligence, sense of responsibility and ethics.

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So that's it, thank you for reading my read.cash people. What's your opinion?