A hormonal disbalance or a bond made in heaven, whatever you would like to call it, its effects will be unbelievable, never lasting and magical always. At times you won't dare to believe the dedication and changes it has brought in your personality, vision, thought process and in a longer run, your entire life.
There were times when you used to walk alone in winters enjoying the warmth of your jacket, or would never like to share that last bite of your cheese loaded pizza with anyone, only you become enough mad in love that the pain of other half is dominant to yours. Their suffering needs to be taken care of first even if you have a personal issue of same priority. You would never hold back or think even a single time before covering her with your jacket soon as she shows even a single sign of feeling chilly and of course you would stuff her mouth with every last bite of your meal for the rest of your life.
Love is mysterious :
It happens strangely, a totally unknown person come close enough that now he/she or any other form of love matters more than ourselves.
Even if you don't like hardships, pain or any discomfort in your life, now you are suddenly ready to take their worries too and love to shoo them away just to see them happiest in the entire universe.
Though you are introvert and sharing your comfort zone is really out of bounds as per your lifestyle, you tend to accept them as close as your own soul.
Talking and thinking about a single person all day long and planning like crazy everything with them suddenly becomes your favorite pastime.
Taking care about their likes, dislikes, dreams, aspirations and what not.
It can't be termed as normal and is indeed mysterious. Its base is trust, likeness, coziness which forms higher levels like belongingness, oneness and complete dissolution into one another. Many say it's just a chemical process, if it's so, it needs the position among topmost craziest, trickiest and strongest reactions LOL if any list as such exists.
Forms :
Though the most common form is : two young souls dancing to the harmony of youth clashing into each other losing control several times in a single glance and felling head over heels for each other, love is not to be confused with this only. You need to be lovely to love others and they are your family, pets(of course they are family only), friends, passion and anything dear to you which you are really crazy about. God is one form of love and all of us are blessed by the divine love too.
As per my perspective, I really enjoy to see this world having eyes of an lover. It's through a lovely perspective only that a lovable personality develops within you. I believe in seeing it as a support system for the existence of mankind.
My gradma taught me a lot on this matter. She was the one I always looked up to whenever I felt low or something, she was my guide in life, a mentor who taught me super valuable lessons for life. Her demise separated us. She was this close to me that a single mention of her chokes me badly and my heart feels like enormous weight is being placed on it. Though she is not here anymore but I feel strong as I feel every moment that her blessings are there with me.
My approach to love :
It's very open hearted and welcoming. Really warm and delicate as the practice of onboarding love in your is very tender and it can only be achieved with a soothing heart. You are susceptible to frightening it away in case you are rude or disrespectful towards the one dear to you. It's like planting a seed and nurturing it with outmost care, trust, affection, understanding feelings, supportive behavior and then sitting under the shade of the strong tree of oneness once it blooms on one fine day.
Hope you guys are true to your love and enjoying it much as you can. Love as much as you can in this one life you have got.
Thanks for reading!!!
and love is also unexpected xd