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Thanks to @Princessbusayo in her https://read.cash/@Princessbusayo/a-deserved-moment-2a116b21 ,she open my head to an answer for a friend who requested for my advice and it has kept me in a deep thought of what to tell him. Although the matter isn't directly to him but on the other side it concern him because the issue came from the family of his wife to be.

Have really missed sharing my mind with everyone here especially my lovely family @NigeriaBCH group, people like @HappyBoy , @Gaftekloriginal , @Fexodine1 , @Olasquare and some more that I could not remember their read names,I miss you all.

Back to the matter, according to my friend he told me his fiance is not happy and he need me to talk to her so she can get easy on herself. I wonder what might be the problem making someone that is about to get married so worried because it a thing of joy so what could have get her so worried. My friend gave me his wife to be number so I can call her. I called her and we fix a day to meet and talk.

We meet and I can see on her face she have been crying a lot. I ask what the problem could be that she cried so much that her eyeballs are red then she said to me "My dad is my problem" . I statued, I couldn't figure out what it meant in my head how her dad is the problem of her getting married. I ask her to please tell me how her dad is the problem.

She started "Ade, you know so well about how long have been in this relationship with your friend, it been 4years now and every woman pray to end up with such man she stayed with for that long. I have always pray to be with your friend for the rest of my life, when he proposed I was the happiest human on heart. He took me to his parents and I will say I'm so lucky to have such in-law. When he told me to introduce him to my family that was when I know I'm going to face a very big task because I know the kind of father I have. I told my mum and she ask me to talk to my dad by myself,I talk to my brother he also ask me to talk to him myself,I feel rejected but one morning I summon courage and text him that the man I'm seeing wish to know my family and he said no problem. Your friend called him and he fixed a day for us to visit. After our visit, his dad also called my dad to tell him about coming for a proper introduction of both family and my dad said it fine. After the day had been fixed,I told my dad the date and he only told me when the day is close I should let him know how many people are coming. Now that it close,I called him that 12 people will be coming, my dad got upset and told me that anything more than five people they should stay in their house. Please Ade tell me, isn't this enough to think,did he want to spoil a day of joy for me, everyone from my mum's family ask me not to listen to him but I'm afraid if I ignore,he might do something that will make me sad for the rest of my mind. What do you think I should do?

Hmmmm,I was speechless,I look at her and the only word that came out was 'it is well'. I told her to cheer up that I will find a way around it even though nothing was coming to my head at that moment.

When I got home I decided to check here then I saw @Princessbusayo story, and after reading I said to myself, the answer is prayer. I told myself that the only best solution to the problem my friend need is prayer.

I called her already to start praying to God to change her dad's mind towards the event, that God himself should intervene and take control over every principalities and power of the devil that want to use her dad to sadden her joy.