Secrets in Marriage!
Marriage is coming together of two individuals from different home, society, town,state,tribe,even country to form union and start a family together. It is the union of two imperfect people. There is nothing like a perfect marriage.
To make this marriage work we all need to know some secrets about it.
*****Thus*****;
*Secret 1*
Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.
*Secret 2*
Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. Before marriage let the both party not lean on the past but confess every necessary confession to each other and settle it ones and for all, let nothing be secret, so that in future it will not be a tool to destroy the home. Iron everything out forgive and forget. What matters most is the present life of your partner . Old things have passed away. Focus on the present and the future.
*Secret 3*
Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.
*Secret 4*
Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.
*Secret 5*
To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:
Ignorance
Prayerlessness
Unforgiveness
Third party influence
Stinginess
Stubbornness
Lack of love
Rudeness
Laziness
Disrespect
Cheating
Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.
*Secret 6*
There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.
*Secret 7*
God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience
*Secret 8*
Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.
*Secret 9*
Marriage is not a contract. It is permanent. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.
*Secret 10*
Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.
*Secret 11*
Be each other's teammate. Help each other financially. Don't let the responsibility be on one party, support him so he can also know he's not married to a liability.
**This happen between two couples**
*My salary came yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid.*
*He thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him.*
*It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it.*
*That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much, he struggles to pay without asking me.*
*He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.*
*I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility, he married an helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single.*
*I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband.*
*Oh my God, He went to the market without even telling me, stocked up the home.*
*Cooked and served me o, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about.*
*I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not supermarket. Men needs support too .*
Let us pray for our marriages and also be a team mate to ourselves.
Memorable Relationships
Are we waiting for some opportunity to meet someone dear to us?
The story of four close friends from school, who studied in the same school up to SSC.
At that time, there was only one luxury hotel in the city.
After the SSC exam, they decided that they should go to that hotel and have some tea and breakfast. The four of them could hardly collect forty rupees. It was a Sunday and all four of them reached the hotel by bicycle at ten-thirty.
Daniel, Santo, Michael, and Precious started talking while having breakfast and tea. All four of them decided unanimously, that they would meet again after 40 years in the same hotel on 1st April.
"Till then we all should work very hard. It will be interesting to see how much progress has been made after 40 years," they discussed.
It was also decided that the last one to reach the hotel then, would have to pay the bill for that day.
Kali, the waiter who served them tea and snacks, was listening to all this. He said, "If I stay here till then, I'll be waiting for you all."
All four separated for further education.
Daniel had left the city after his father got relocated, Santo went to his uncle for further studies, and Michael and Precious got admission to different colleges in the city.
Eventually, Michael also left the city.
Days, months, and years passed.
In forty years, the city underwent a radical change. The population of the city increased, and roads, flyovers, and malls changed the appearance of the city.
Now that hotel had become a five-star hotel, the waiter Kali had now become Mr. Kali, the owner of this hotel.
Forty years later, on the scheduled date, April 1st, at noon, a luxury car came to the door of the hotel.
Daniel got out of the car and started walking towards the porch. He now had three jewellery showrooms.
Daniel reached the hotel owner Mr. Kali, and both of them kept looking at each other. Mr. Kali said, “Precious sir had booked a table for you a month back.”
Daniel was heartily happy that he was the first of the four, so he wouldn't have to pay the bill that day and would make fun of his friends for it.
After a while, Santo arrived. Santo had become a big builder of the city. For his age, he now looked like an old senior citizen.
Now, they both were talking and waiting for the other friends. The third friend, Michael also came in half an hour. On talking to him, both of them came to know that Michael was now a businessman.
The three friends kept looking towards the door again and again, wondering when Preciouswould come.
Soon, Mr. Kali came to them and said, "A message has come from Precious sir. He's asked you all to start with snacks, and he'll join you."
All three were happy to meet each other after forty years, laughing and joking for hours, but Precious did not come.
Mr. Kali said, "Precious sir has sent another message, you three should order your favourites from the menu and start eating."
The food was ordered, but even after they had finished eating, Precious did not show up. When the three asked for the bill, they were told that the bill has been paid online.
At eight o'clock in the evening, a young man got down from the car and with a heavy heart reached the three friends preparing to leave the hotel. The three couldn't take their eyes off the man.
The young man said, "I am your friend's son Raymond, my father's name is Precious. Dad had told me about your get together today, he was waiting for this day, but he passed away last month due to a serious illness...
He had asked me to come late because if I had come early, it would have made you all sad. Dad had said, "My friends will not laugh if they come to know that I am not in this world, then they would lose the joy of meeting each other... I don't want that."
That's why he ordered me to come late. He also asked me to hug you on his behalf." Raymond spread both his hands with watery eyes.
Everyone around was eagerly watching this scene, they thought they had seen this young man somewhere.
Raymond said, "My father became a teacher and gave me a good education to become the collector. Today, I am the collector of this city..."
Everyone was amazed, Mr. Kali said, "Now, it won't be after forty years, but we will meet in our hotel every month, and each time there will be a grand party from my side...."
*Friends, keep meeting your loved ones, don't wait for any opportunity to meet someone, we never know when it's time to get separated and we may never get to meet again...*
The journey of life is also like a train journey. When someone's station comes, they will have to be dropped at that moment. Only a few blurry memories would remain!
*Stay with family, feel the joy of being alive..*
Keep meeting your loved ones, not only on special days but also on other occasions, and sometimes without any reason too. May the tree of our relationships be nourished by the water of love, for whom we do not have to wait for any reason or opportunity to meet.
Dear friend, when you are reading this story, if someone comes to your mind, do talk to them for two minutes. You have all the facilities!
*"We must take time for the people around us and enjoy the beauty of life."*
Time flies
I really appreciate you all for sparing time to visit my works when published, thank you so much and God bless us all.
*****Time flies*****
I remember how far have gone, remembering those moments of hard times,spent my early life in a very lower class family,met a nobody's son and fell in love with him,now 17years as passed that he left me but still in my heart and stuck together like forever.
I met him only when I was seventeen and we both got too attached to each other,we couldn't even control ourselves that our family knew of our love. We both have the same vision. Luckily, he got debuted first after four years of being together. He love to sing for me alot,so there was this special song he wrote and sang for me, he recorded it and it was produced and luckily it hit the rock of the best song of the year. That was how everything changed.
He was called for interviews by many companies,many signed him has brand ambassador. He forgot who he was and started falling into the trap of everything in skirt,he didn't breakup with me though nor give room for doubt and through him I got debuted as an actress also. His famous friends in movie industry started calling me to work. After three years of working hard together,he proposed and we got married. It was a simple but talk of the town wedding because we both are young celebrities.
Two weeks after the wedding,I discovered I was three weeks pregnant,my husband and I were so happy,I will say that was when I enjoyed most since we've been together. He pampered me like a baby or let's say egg,he showed me so much love than I could imagine. Nine months,I gave birth to a bouncing baby boy. I was so happy so was my husband. After the naming ceremony was over, a woman came to our house cleaning she had a son with my husband. I couldn't believe my own husband could even sleep with another woman talk less of having a child with her,the child was four years then. From that day,things begin to fall apart between us,I have to share my husband with another woman so is my child going to share his father. I didn't allow the woman in our matrimonial home but my husband do go out to see his child at her place. I wasn't happy though but I had no choice.
Two years later,I discovered I was pregnant again, I haven't even heal from the heartbreak my husband gave for two years,I felt like I wasn't ready to have another child when my marriage isn't good enough,I couldn't forgive him yet. When the pregnancy was five months old,I got a call from a woman again claiming he had two children for my husband (NOT AGAIN), I thought it was a prank because it was only few days to my birthday,I ask the woman to let's meet somewhere. When we met it wasn't a prank 😭,one was seven years and the other was five years. When I got home I ask my husband and he couldn't denied having an affair with the woman. I was so angry that I called my mum to come over to our house immediately else one of us will end up six feet. I could sense fear in his eyes when he heard me say six feet. He took his car key and left the house.
I was soaked in tears by the time my mum came in, she asked what happened but I could not say a word than "what have I done wrong to him". My mum called my husband but he didn't pick her call,she called several times everyday to know his whereabout and what happened between us. He didn't come home that night nor the night after,my mum stayed over, she insisted on staying till my husband comes back,he came back after a week. When he came, my mum ask him what had happened between us and he was only asking her to beg me to forgive him. My mum ask me what he did wrong and I told her not to worry again,put on a fake smile,she was angry that we both ignored her question and she left. Since then I smiled like nothing happened,I did all my responsibilities as the woman in the house and as his wife but didn't say a word about what happened.
In nine months I gave birth to another baby boy. I was in-between happiness and unhappiness because I was scare some woman might come again to give me bad news of having child for my husband. On the night after the naming ceremony,I woke my husband in the middle of the night,asked him to tell me about all his affairs, he looked at me with surprise,I told him I'm tired of different women claiming he's the father to their child/ren. He explained to me how they ask him how and told me he was sorry for sleeping around with them. I ask if there are any other women apart from those I knew about and he said many. I was already crying, what have I done to this man to deserve what he has done. I ask him to call all his women and request custodian of his children and anyone that refuse should never come to claim him as the father. He was surprised. I know it was a big risk but that's the only way I could show him how much I love and care about him.
Within a week my house was filled with seven kids, apart from mine,some are even older than my first child,but what got me more angry was that he had been cheating on me over the time before we even got married,only two were born when we were married. Many things happened afterwards, sometimes those kids tried to upset me and when I wanted to punish them they make me remember they weren't my children. It wasn't easy.
But today, I celebrate my Golden jubilee,all my children are here to celebrate with me. I was so surprised with how much love I got from them. Those that were not in country came home. My husband expired 17years ago,I wish he was here to how have raised all his children (our children) as mine,how have loved them and make them wonderful people. HAPPY JUBILEE
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Who am I ?
You are surprise by the question also. Today's article won't be too elongated but I know by the end of this writing/reading you will experience a devine opening sight and answer to that question of WHO AM I?
Do you know that you are not born only for yourself,you are to lift others along with you, but how can you help others when you've not discover yourself . Realising your own purpose makes others to also believe in themselves through you. But, note that we all have purpose of creation,we all have talents, but failure to realise it makes one a fool of whatever we engage ourselves.
A step is what you need.
The path way to the extraordinary life you wish for Is to discover your purpose in life and take steps to achieving it.
***Purpose is when you know and understand why you were born and what you are to accomplish.***
**There is also what we call VISION**
***Vision is when you see and feel what you are born to accomplish.***
Remember,your purpose come to life when you can see it. You are created to be known for something special and unique. Most people are yet to discover their purpose ,some even ended up died with the purpose. Just as man is unique so is each person's purpose in life is unique.
If you want to unleash your purpose,first you have to discover your reasons of creation. You ask yourself questions like:
Who am I ?
Why am I here ?
What am I born to be known for ?
What am I really doing to myself ?
Am I really doing it right ?
You discover your purpose when you can answer those questions that comes to your mind. Know yourself,know your passion,your talent, what you love to do most,then you will be able to strive hard to get it. Knowing your talent is like opening the door to successful life. It sometimes look hard discovering one's self but with more effort it's possible. You might look at someone as your role model but, do you have the enthusiasm to achieve it. Some people discover themselves in another person without having enough passion for it. You are only wasting away your time and life.
There was this story of a young boy who love music a lot but find it hard to understand the keys in music 🎶. He strive so hard to become his best but he ended up being the world best of his time. He work towards his passion and he achieve aim it in a big way. Without having passion he wouldn't have been able to be patient enough to learn and practice to perfection.
There was also this lady who love talking and thought of being a broadcaster in future,whenever she sees a broadcaster she always wish for posterity to come sooner. During her secondary education she was in art class thinking she will some day become a broadcaster,she ended up as a linguistics in her institution years,but still having in mind that linguist can still work as a broadcaster. When she got the opportunity to work in a radio station,she went for training and that was when she discover she was only wasting her time thinking of being a broadcaster when she have passion for writing. She couldn't even concentrate in broadcasting but love to write a lot. She quit her job as a broadcaster and started writing, within a blink of an eye 👀,she became known for her wonderful mind skipping stories, people call her for seminars and programs, she applied to be a lecturer in a prestigious private institution and within few years she was already given a Dean in linguistics department and also a honorary awards in writing.
You might be thinking you're doing something right because others can do it right but do you have zeal for it. Discover your own self and you will know the path to success is easy when you discover that purpose of your existence.
June 12 holiday news
This article was given by President of the federal republic of my country on the celebration of 12th JUNE,2022
Fellow citizens, Today, June 12th, marks another Democracy Day anniversary and an occasion to celebrate freedom and unity of our Nation.
From 1999, we consistently celebrated Democracy Day to mark the end of military rule and the return of power and control into the hands of those freely elected by the people. On this day, Nigerians recommit themselves to ensuring we protect and preserve the ideals of democracy.
In 2018, we moved Democracy Day from 29th of May to the 12th of June. This change was to remind all Nigerians of one free election after which the presumed winner along with Nigerians were denied their rights and their choice.
On June 12th 1993, Nigerians saw the best in our citizens as we all went out to vote peacefully. By June 24th 1993, we also saw the worst of our leadership as the elections were annulled.
We must never forget the sacrifices of the heroes of Nigeria’s democracy during 1993. Their patriotism and peaceful struggle should guide our actions especially when it comes to electing our leaders and holding them accountable, now and in future.
He said this is his last Democracy Day speech as our President. By June 12th, 2023, exactly one year from today,we will already have a new President. I remain committed and determined to ensure that the new President is elected through a peaceful and transparent process.
It is important for all of us to remember that June 12th, 2023 will be exactly 30 years from the 1993 Presidential elections. In honour and memory of one of our national heroes for democracy, Chief M.K.O Abiola, GCFR, we must all work together to ensure this transition is done in a peaceful manner.
He said he was hopeful that they can achieve this. The signs so far are positive. Recently, all registered political parties conducted primaries to select their candidates for the 2023 general elections.
These primaries were peaceful and orderly. Those who won were magnanimous in their victories. Those who lost were gracious in defeat. And those aggrieved opted to seek judicial justice as opposed to jungle justice.
He followed the party primaries closely from the state level to the Presidential level. He was very impressed to see across all the political parties that, most candidates ran issued based campaigns. The language and tone throughout were on the whole measured and controlled.
Another positive that came from the 2022 party primaries was the significant increase in women and youth particularly across all parties. I was very pleased to see this development. This augurs well for the future. These trends clearly show the level of maturity our democracy has achieved in the last 23 years.
As we move into the general election campaign season, we must sustain this mature attitude to campaigning and ultimately, voting. We must never see it as a “do or die” affair. We must all remember democracy is about the will of the majority. There must be winners and losers.
He therefore took the opportunity on this very special day to ask all candidates to continue running issue focused campaigns and to treat opponents with dignity. As leaders, you must all showcase high character and never forget that the world is watching us and Africa looks up to Nigeria to provide example in governance. The tone you set at the top will surely be replicated in your followers.
For the voters, he was pleased to inform us that in the last 7 years, our government across all tiers, has made significant investments to reform and enhance our electoral laws, systems, and processes to safeguard your votes.
The Executive, Legislature and Judiciary were and still remain united and committed to ensure these reforms are fully implemented in the 2023 general elections. Fellow Nigerians, our right to choose your government will be preserved and protected.
He said he knows many of us are concerned with the rise in insecurity due to terrorist activities in parts of the country. As a government, they are working hard to contain and address these challenges. And ensure that the 2023 general elections are safe and secure for all Nigerians.
To achieve this however, we must all contribute. It is not the job of government alone. I ask all citizens to support and cooperate with our security agencies by reporting any suspicious characters and activities to law enforcement agencies. We can only have a safe country if we are able to prevent crime not after the crime has been committed.
On this special day, he said he want us all to put all victims of terrorist activities in our thoughts and prayers. He said he is living daily with the grief and worry for all those victims and prisoners of terrorism and kidnapping. Him and the security agencies are doing all we can to free those unfortunate countrymen and countrywomen safely.
For those who have lost their lives, we will continue to seek justice for their families against the perpetrators. For those currently in captivity, we will not stop until they are freed, and their kidnappers are brought to justice. If we all unite, we will be victorious against these agents of terror and destruction.
We have reformed some of our security structures. Some of the defence assets we procured three years ago have arrived and have been deployed.
Our cyber security and surveillance systems are being upgraded to further enhance our ability to track and trace criminal elements. We are also recruiting and training new personnel across all our security and intelligence agencies to strengthen the country’s over-all security.
He concluded his Democracy Day speech, as President, by assuring us of his commitment to protect Nigeria and Nigerians from all enemies from within and outside.
He also promise a free, fair and transparent electoral process. And pleaded with all citizens to come together and work with Government to build a peaceful and prosperous nation.
God bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria.
When I read this,I hope for a better country. And I pray souls lost in fight for better nigeria be granted peace.
What will be 2
Welcome to the final part of my previous story,you can read it **here****.** https://read.cash/@Crownofbeauty0310/what-will-be-0c582483
One night, around 11pm after I was done with the chores my boss gave me when we came back from the shop, Andrew called and ask what have not been picking his calls and I explained everything to him. He beg me to let's see on my next free day that it was important. On my next off day which was three days after Andrew called. When my boss left to shop,she gave me a lot of house chores already before she left. She ask me to wash her clothes and clean the whole house. When Andrew came to the house,he told me not to worry,he called her mum to send their maid over to help me do the chores so we can go out together. Within thirty minutes the maid was around,I told her what to do and beg her not to leave traces.
Andrew and I left the house, he drove like one hour before he finally parked his car at a very big mall. I ask what we were doing at the mall and he ask me to just follow him. I followed him silently and we walk into a very big salon, a lady came towards us and greeted Andrew like she knew him before,not long his mum also came out from a small room and called my name,she smiled so warmly to me, then both mother and son took me to the room Andrew's mum emerged from which is the salon office.
When we got to the office I was ask to sit down,Andrew's mother gave me a brown envelope and ask me to open it,when I did, there was papers filled in my name which only needed my signature. Andrew's mum said the salon we were inside was bought by Andrew and willed to me. That the salon now belong to me and the lady we met outside is going to be my staff. I couldn't say a word,I was crying and looking at both mother and son like I was dreaming. I knelt on my two knee to thank them. Andrew also told me that he already bought a house for my family in my name so I can move my parents from their one room to the mansion he has willed to me among his various houses. I was surprised by all these and was forced to ask Andrew his motives towards me,he just said his mother was the one who told him about how I use to take care of her whenever I come over to her house even though there is a maid,so she ask Andrew to help me to be independent anytime he comes home from abroad. I ask if he have any feelings towards me,that was when I knew he was married with kids but the wife was a white woman and they were divorced. I was sorry for him.
Andrew took me to the house he got me and his mum went home. All the shop and house documents were given to me to sign and that was how my story changed and my dreams of becoming someone important in life came through. I went to my boss and told her I want freedom,she was shocked, she ask how I want to get the money and I told her all that Andrew and his mum did for me. She seems happy. After my freedom, I started going to my own salon and glory to God,He has been surprising me afterwards, within three months, I already had five apprentice and three staffs. Andrew travelled back to his kids abroad and we still keep contact, my family moved into the mansion,I open a shop for my mum and dad so they can both use to take care of themselves.I enrolled my little brothers to school and luckily they were coping so Andrew help them got admitted into oxford university and that was how my two brothers became american citizens after 10years of living and working abroad.
Oh yes,after some years Andrew proposed to me,I moved abroad with him and my step-children. My first elder sister help manage my salon and make reports to me everyday. Things get better for everyone of my family through my husband Andrew. I also gave birth to twins (two boys) and we all live happily abroad and come home on holidays.
No matter how much you think about the future,dream either large or small,what will be will be. Dreaming about the future too much sometimes keep you awake from your sleep.
After all the writing, I forgot to tell you my name, don't worry you sha know my story changed so no need of my name.
What will be
***My dreams took my sleep because I had them while I'm awake. Different dreams came into scenes while I was awake, close my eyes to the world but open my mind to the things I wish for in life. I am so confused of those dreams myself. This moment I dream of becoming a lawyer, the next moment I want to be a media communicator, another moment I have the dream to own a business in a very big way that everyone will only want to patronise me, but here I am in my one room shared with my parent and eight siblings. You too open your mouth,well that's the shit I found myself in life,my parents are so poor but wasn't poor with children,they gave birth to nine children,haaaa nine children in one room,poor people with excess liabilities.***
***I live with my parents and eight siblings in one room face me I slap you apartment in ajegunle area of lagos,I know most nigerians will know how these looks like. I only have the chance of attending primary public school but as a logos breed I could speak little english and good in pidgin english. I am also the fifth child,had four female before me and two after and the last two are male. The first two female are married to some agbero (area boys) in our area while the third and fourth were just wasting around the street of ajegunle. I told my parents I want to learn a hair styling work so I can atleast have something to do for myself and not just waste away my life like my elder sisters. My parents didn't even put effort, they said they have no money to help put me to work. I have a friend whose mother have a salon in our area,I went there and beg the woman to let me be an apprentice at her shop that I will pay her gradually when I have money. She accepted through the help of my friend and I became one of her apprentice.***
***After six months,I have been able to learn even faster than those that I met there,my boss took me in and I started living with her family. She trusted me so much, she send me to most of her customers to do home services for them and her customers always compliment my work. I work with my friend's mum for eight years,during these time my friend got married and her husband took her out of the country. I still stayed loyal with my boss. My friend use to send clothes and other things that she's no more using for me,which I accept with love since I can't afford to buy for myself.***
***One day, I went to one of our customer's house to plait her hair,while working her son came in,I greeted him and continue my job. When I finish with her hair,she told me she has transferred the service fee to my boss but still have me extra money to compensate me. She called her son and ask him to drop me at my place,I wish to reject her good gesture towards me but she insisted. Her son's name is Andrew. Andrew drove me to my boss place since I live with her,he requested for my number and I told him I have no phone. We departed with smile and he drove off. When I got to my boss, I told her all that happened and gave her the money Andrew's mother gave me.***
***The following day was my off day which I use to go home to visit my family. Things were still the same at home but it now only mum,dad and my two brothers,my two junior sisters got pregnant also so they moved in with their husbands. I gave my parents the little I have from what I save from the money my boss use to give as food money every day. On my way back to my boss house, I met Andrew and he said he was coming over to my house since he asked of me from my boss at shop and was told it my off day so he was directed. Since it was my off day, he ask to take me out and spend the remaining time of the day with me. We went to a restaurant and ate lunch, after we went to an amusement park,we sat on the grass and we had a long conversation,he ask me to tell him my story, his eyes were red and was already having a running nose by the time I was done.***
***By 6pm, I told Andrew I have to get back home, he told me we have to get somewhere first before I went home. We got into his car and he drove me to a phone store, he bought me an Android phone 📱 and also got me a sim card,I was shocked and didn't want to collect it because I don't want my boss to think otherwise,he said l shouldn't worry that he will follow me home to my boss and explain to her that he got me the phone. He taught me briefly how to use the phone and drove me home. He told my boss about the phone,since my boss know the son of who he is she accepted and he left. After he left,my boss called me and ask what was between I and Andrew and I told her we were just friends,she didn't believe me but since then she changed toward me. She never allow me leave the house on my off day,she gave me extra work to do at shop and excess at home,that I do not have time to even use the phone.***
TBC..........
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Thanks to @Talecharm for renewing our relationship and sponsoring me,I am so greatful.
*****F.O.R.G.I.V.E.N.E.S.S*****
There was a widow who lost her husband at a very tender age, leaving four children for her to cater for. She was rejected and abandoned because of her abject poverty,but she failed to compromise as she single-handedly raised all her four children to the glory of God. One fateful day,her third son whom she loved dearly,who happened to be her favorite gist partner....the beloved son of this woman invited her to follow him to his sick friend's house,of which this is not the first time he has invited his mother. She agreed with great excitement without thinking twice. Shortly, after the journey began she fell asleep,when she woke up she found herself tied with rope in a strange premise where human body parts could be found. In front of her were placed jars of clay pots with human blood in it. It was then she understood that her own beloveth son had brought her as a ritual. She also heard them telling him a date for the collection of the items required to make him rich without undergoing stress.
Some hours later the leader of the group came into the room to untie her,calling her by her name. Luckily for her, the leader of the group happens to be her half-brother ( same father but different mother). He untied her,set her free,and gave her some money. They covered her face,put her in a taxi,and traveled for about 6hours. The man helped her down and instructed her not to remove the covering on her face until after 10mins. She obeyed,when she removed it,she found herself in her native town,which is another one hour drive to where she lives. On getting home,she found her beloved son at home we'll settled with a chilled bottle of beer.
**Question: if you are the mother,will you forgive such a son?**
**Note: The deeper the relationship the deeper the hurt. But,to the natural man, it is only a stupid man who forgives a wrong without hitting back.**
Sincerely,it is hard to forget or forgive a wrong. But it is a must to forgive, why?
What is Forgiveness?
Forgiveness is a deliberate decision that must be made in order to let go of grudges,bitterness,resentment, and thoughts of revenge regardless of whether the offender deserves it or not. To forgive is more than just a word,it is the full blooded energy of one's life working for the full deliverance of another life.
"To forgive means to deliver a man which requires your thoughts,your prayer,your speech, and your deed" Lilias Trotters.
*****P.O.L.I.T.I.C.S*****
Forgiveness isn't a sign of weakness but it is a sign of maturity. It takes maturity to forgive those who hurt us both physically and emotionally.Unforgiveness ties you to the past,it debases you to the present and hinders you from the future. Do you know that the current situation of our country is a result of our failure to let go and put everything behind us. The disappointment we met from our past leaders and politicians,the war, the killings,etc has tied us to our past. It debases us in the present and hinders the future from coming forth. It makes us run inside our shells. Many people's perspectives concerning going to care has changed due to these.
The belief and the wrong assumption that politics is a dirty game have driven many away from politics, most especially women, we believe politics is meant for men alone. The role of women is way beyond the kitchen and the bedroom. Her voice must be heard because she has a lot to contribute starting from her home,to the community, and the country at large. She has a lot to contribute to the growth of the nation.
*****B.E.N.E.F.I.T.S*****
Forgiveness is a spiritual medication that heals the soul and gives you a sound mind
Through the act of forgiveness our relationship with God and fellow men is being restored.
Lowers blood pressure.
Improve your health and you gain your peace.
Improve self-esteem- being confident and able to function wherever not moody,touchy or irritating habit, for example, being free to relate with everyone.
Fewer symptoms of depression.
It brings freedom.
Forgiveness sets you free from the past and makes you live in the present.
Surely forgiveness is the best way to open doors.
Never allow resentment and anger to drive your life,put everything behind you,and move forward. Stop imprisoning yourself in the walls of anger and bitterness,holding grudges does not make your story. Rather, it makes you weak and bitter. Don't imprison yourself forever.
Forgiveness is not a sign of weakness but a posture of maturity. It makes you stronger, sets you free,and gives you a painless memory. Doors of blessings are opened and as well restored the lost glory.
To forgive a man is to deliver a man and that will require your thoughts, prayers, speech and deed.
Financial bouquet
*****Today I'm sharing a food for thought and I will love you to accept me the way it come today.*****
I know you might be reading this either at home,work, morning, afternoon,evening or midnight but note that you are going to experience something special 🤣 and amazing in these.
Happy reading........
Do you know that no one generates power for a flight ✈️,no one would choose for you until you do for yourself. You can't go high with the support of another person without your strength,you can't be successful with another person's strength. No amount of riches,if your children refuse to be successful, the riches will varnish so do not rely on the success of another person. You cannot win a race with another man's leg.
****Note****: Choose right. You must be able to see the future. Associate yourself with the right people. Marry the one that is of your level of reasons and intelligent.
****Gateways to financial fortune****
Serving God is a choice not calling. When you make your choice God supply the grace so it best to make serving God a platform for yourself.
What move you forward is a step.
Choose what you want by yourself.
Know who you are.
Honour your parents so you can have the blessings under the platform of parental blessings.
Be a tither so you won't experience a tight life. Give the first fruit of your possession to the prophet,widow and be blessed.
Kingdom promotion sacrifices.
Convenant people prevail. Convenant people supernaturally flourish. God gives power to get wealth but convenant is a path way. No amount of harsh weather not economy can break God's convenant. Convenant is just like heaven's secret to enjoy greatness in life. Convenant with God guarantee supernatural fruitfulness. God procures financial favour to convenant practitioners. To be enrich in all things to the point of abundance you have to make convenant with God.
To sustain our financial settlement with God it best to enter into convenant to keep serving God. Once our part of the convenant is adequately fulfilled, God is ready to fulfill His. God is constant. Men who are financial giants are those that sorted God first with their finances,so keep seeking the advancement of God's kingdom through kingdom promotion sacrifices.
An encounter with God's power settles man permanently. The convenant of wealth is anchored on seed time and harvest (giving and receiving). Every requirement for life and godliness is delivered in knowledge. The proof of your greatness is the largeness of your workforce. Our increase is the product of the substance in our hards.
The convenant is God's bailout of poverty. For your business not to experience setback,tithe is the way out. God don't give blessing that will confuse you. Those who are committed to the convenant always scale new height.
****Note****: No prayer prosper you if you don't work. You can't be stagnated if you obey him. Keep learning because the day you stop learning is the day you start dying.
I hope you learn one or two things her......stay safe
Elizabeth-Jane
Mr Chad was drunk while sojourning with his wife and his month old Elizabeth-jane. They got to a tent where travellers buy what they want and sell what they have. Mr Chad out of his mind place sales on his wife and sold her to a sailor who was with other sojourners. Susan ( Mr Chad's wife) cried to his husband to get back to his senses but he insisted so susan and her child left with the sailor.
The following morning after he regain his sense, he asked people around about his wife and daughter's whereabout,they mock him and told him all that happened the previous night when he was drunk. No one have ever seen the sailor before. Mr Chad went looking for his wife and child but he couldn't find them so he gave up. He went to a church and vowed not to ever drink again for he has lost a great thing that cannot be regained.Mr Chad started a new life,he went to another town called Tanzbridge and start a new life for himself.
Eighteen years later, susan and Elizabeth-Jane came to the spot where Mr Chad sold them out, ask of him and were told by one woman that the man said if incase anyone came asking of him that she should tell them he had sojourn to Tanzbridge. Susan and her daughter went to Tanzbridge to see if Mr Chad still live there. When they got to the town, susan wasn't in a rush to find Mr Chad,she tried to make her findings slowly.
Mr Chad on the other hand was a very popular known merchant and the high chief is all the merchant in the town. There was an annual event which make people in the town close their shops and stores to attend which also involve Me Chad to be around. Elizabeth-Jane overheard two men talking of the event and make mention of Mr Chad, she told her mum and they both attended. They saw Mr Chad sitting in the most expensive and big chair among the spectators. Susan sensed that Mr Chad must be a rich man now and it will be hard to walk up to him in his current position.
The following day, Susan wrote a letter addressed to Mr Chad and gave it to Elizabeth-Jane. Elizabeth-Jane went to Me Chad's house not too far from the motel they lounge,she gave the letter to Mr Chad. When he read the letter, he was touched because he had thought his wife and daughter were dead. He reply Susan's letter and told her in it to meet him at a restaurant downtown. When they met, they both expressed themselves and Mr Chad proposed a new marriage.
In two months they got married,susan and Elizabeth-Jane moved in with Mr Chad and they all live happily together until two years later when Susan fell sick,on her sick bed she requested for a pen and paper,she wrote a letter addressed to Mr Chad but to be open on the day Elizabeth-Jane get married and that night she died.
Two weeks after Susan's burial, Mr Chad couldn't hold till Elizabeth-Jane's marriage so he opened the letter and was surprised to know that Elizabeth-Jane isn't his own Elizabeth-Jane,that his daughter died a year after he sold them out and she named her child after Elizabeth-Jane. Mr Chad was depressed that he had no child and that he will die childless. He started drinking again that on an unfortunately one day,he was so drunk that he stab himself to death. All his properties were willed to Elizabeth-Jane.
Thanks to you all for being there for me even though I'm only a novice.........
Chronicle of Dr. Robin
It Dr. Robin's birthday,he went with his family (wife, daughter and his brother) to his daughter's friendly football match. After the match they went for an ice cream and after they went home to prepare for the birthday dinner which Alex (Dr. Robin's brother) will also join the family later for the dinner.
While getting ready for the dinner a call came in from the hospital that there was an emergency that needed Dr. Robin's presence. The dinner was cancelled. Dr. Robin left for work and his wife and daughter went to the store that evening to get some things they needed to bake a cake. They decided to bake a cake for him since the dinner was impossible. When the mother and daughter came back from the store, lucy (mother) told jordan (daughter) to go upstairs in her room to get her iPad so they can watch the steps to bake the cake. Jordan went to the room and was on call with her friend clare, Lucy in the kitchen light the gas and put a pot filled with water on it.
Lucy went back to the cake booklet she already opened on the kitchen table and noticed it wasn't in the page she already open,she open the page again and notice the breeze blow the book page, she went to the window and was surprised it was open, that was when she suspected something was wrong. She called jordan to come down but due to the call she was making, she ignores her mum's call. Lucy shouted jordan's name again instructing her to come down immediately,jordan ended the call but it was too late, someone graph her neck from back and close her mouth. There were three armed robbers in their house.
The one holding jordan took her down to the kitchen where the others were with her mum. Lucy was asked to cooperate and show them the way to her husband's safe. Lucy led the way to the library and open the safe,they took all the money in it and went back to the kitchen with Lucy. Jordan was trying to escape and hit one of the robbers in his stomach with her elbow, the others shot the mother and daughter.
At the hospital, Dr. Robin was attending to his patients after a successful operation when one of the nurses ran to him that there was an emergency of a woman in her fifties and a young lady in her twenties, brought in from house 12 hallway,which happens to be his address. When he was trying to go into the EU he wasn't allowed because it the rule of the profession that a doctor or surgeon must not attend to his/her own family in case of emergency. Lucy died but jordan's operation was successful but she was unconscious . The police was involved and they promise to make sure they arrest the culprit.
Two weeks gone, jordan still in her unconscious state and the police still don't find the robbers. Dr. Robin went for his wife's funeral at her dad's town where she had always wanted to be played to rest. His father -in-law said something that touches and changed him. He started his research on the case of his wife and daughter,he got a gun illegally from a patient brought to his hospital for an operation,he gathered bullets from every patient he did operation for who had been shot. He started taking law into his own hands, he killed every single bad guy he lay his hands on. After,he became the talk of the town, the police were looking for the man on hoodie that was killing the bad guys, the people were praising him for dealing with the bad people since the police have not been able to do a good job.
Jordan after three months became conscious. She ask of her mum but she was told her mum was home waiting on for her. After five days and was confirm better enough to be discharged, Dr. Robin went to a gun store and bought guns in his name for protection because the police were already suspecting him because almost all the culprit involve in his wife's case were died and there was some evidence already with the police that Dr. Robin had been absent from work and home at the hours of the incidents but no solid evidence since he wasn't caught in the act.
On the day jordan was discharged, the boss of the robbers was in the elevator with Dr. Robin and jordan and with his speech he suspected something will be wrong that evening so when they got home he was already prepared. After dinner, Dr. Robin's brother left the father and daughter for the night, Dr. Robin saw a suspicious car across his house so he went in and told jordan to hide under the stairs and not to come out until the police arrive and he ask her to call the police immediately. Jordan was scared. Dr. Robin off the lights and not long after he heard someone came in through the kitchen window and jordan could only hear gunshots. After twenty minutes the police arrive, Dr. Robin's brother came too, jordan came out and ran to her uncle. Dr. Robin was able to kill the robbers and he was also shot in his arm but he already treated himself since he's a doctor.
That was how Dr. Robin end the revenge of the death of his wife and daughter's accident without no evidence to be arrested by the law and no one heard anymore of the man in hoodie. The police make investigation on the gun Dr. Robin used in defending himself and they discovered it was legally bought for protection from well known company on the day before jordan was discharged.
Thanks for reading........
Mind reader
**Yoshi:** Why am I out so early when I know my boss won't be coming to work. I just feel like my boss should just have accident and never come back.
***Lakshmi:*** This life is too hard on me I just can't endure longer than this,see that trailer that is coming,it should just crush me to death so everything can end.
***Lovelin***: How will I tell my husband that all our four children are not his own and that there father as come back to claim them. How will I tell him he has low sperm count. I'm in big trouble.
***Null***: Waw see that lovely babe,see her curves I feel like getting down with her. Looking at her alone get me moved.
***Steve***: How will I tell my wife I went bankrupt and the bank will be claiming our house. How do I face my kids now.
***Kash***: It seems I see spirits of my dead mother that I used for ritual. I can't rest myself both day and night.
*All this people are thinkers and they were all thinking In there mind but Toje could hear what they were all thinking, it was a special gift she had since she celebrated her 20th birthday and she has been trying so hard to control her ears from listening to people's thought.*
*Toje live with her auntie's family since her parents died when she was just five years old. Now on her 20th birthday when she woke up, she discover she could hear some things in her ears,she went to her door to see if someone was there but the person was only passing at her window. When her aunt sent her to get something outside the house she discover she hear too much of people passing her without talking out. She was confused and told her aunt about it but her aunt abuse her in her thought and she could hear it clearly and told her what she thought, her aunt was scared and told her not to discuss it with anyone in the house. Toje's aunt husband is a rich man so there are many maids in the house, her aunt ask her to listen to other people in the house to see if it the same, they sat at the pavement and then she started saying what each person was saying including her auntie's husband who went bankrupt and has not talk to his wife,her aunt ran to her husband and ask him if truly he was bankrupt and he said yes but was surprised because he was just thinking it some minutes ago so how come his wife knew.Toje went to the market one day and could not control her hearing, different people with different thoughts, people's thought are too scary, the thoughts were echoing in her hear and it hurt her so much that ever since then she became deaf and dumb but only hear the thoughts when she is in a noisy environment*.
There is an adage that says 'if the stomach can be open, I will show you how my stomach is' . If we have people like Toje who can read people's thought,the world would have only face each other warm. If you could hear the thought of your best friend, maybe you would have been a murderer yourself. Many people have been a murderer in their thoughts through their bad thought towards people. If we could read people's mind it could have been easy to know who to fight, who the real enemy is and so on.
Even while you read this 😂 what's your thoughts towards the person next to you or you intentions towards that friend of yours,are you the true enemy or is your best friend your best enemy in his or her thoughts. Our thoughts are scary if listen to by others but thank God we all are unable to read each other's mind .
@Olasquare what were you thinking by asking who was with me when you call me on video call 😂😂😂😊.
Human minds will be scary if there was people gifted to read thoughts and it might even end thier life because if people know around you that you have the ability they might want to kill you so you won't expose them by knowing their thoughts toward someone.
Your loyal beauty........thanks for reading
Getting to know me...
Oya o make una carry bucket con fetch beauty small from here. I forgot to introduce myself to some of my new readers that do not know who is behind this beautiful crown 😂🤣 but all thanks to @Princessbusayo and sir @Olasquare for pinching me to introduce myself to those that do not know me. That face 😅 above carries a lot of beauty that even by seeing herself in the mirror she falls over hills for herself. Apart from being so naturally 🤣 beautiful she's so strong, courageous, amazing, stubborn,friendly,free,loyal, what else can I say of such a beautiful soul. Her beauty can't be resisted no matter how shabby she looks In her hair(she hates making her hair as a woman) but that's not where I want you to know me so let's get back to business 😜😂.
*****Light on or light off*****
If you are afraid of the dark I'm sorry you can't live with me 🥺. I am an officer's daughter and my dad right from childhood thought us some serious security 🤣 ways which OFF the light in the house and ON the light outside the house is an essential security savage of our house,till today I'm so used to it that I can't sleep with any kind of light reflection including day light. If I'm sleeping and you come into my room and on light just run o else world war three is about to begin.
I know some will think it good to on the light at night so you can easily see anything that might enter the room but to me it best to off the light and have either a touch or your phone close to you in case of emergency.
So for me light off for life o.
*****Light or heavy sleeper*****
Like I said earlier,my dad thought me indirectly some serious security in which body movement vigilant is one of it. If you're next to me on another bed and you make a move I'm awake. I will say out of my 4hours night sleep I think in my sleep for 3hours because I can't even sleep without thinking something that's heavy else no sleep.
I remember one afternoon at my parent's house,I came back from my grandmother's house and was trying to sleep because of my sleepless night 😪,I put down my room curtains so the room will be dark enough. Not long in sleep when I heard a footstep outside our compound, I tried to ignore but I couldn't because the footstep was getting closer to my room window. I stood up and peep through the curtain to see who was it,I saw my neighbor's son trying to watch my room from outside, I went outside and ask him what he was doing at my window and to remind him he as trespass and if he's not careful I was going to report to my dad . I didn't even give him chance to say why he was in my dad's compound. I saw him left before going back in and was unable to sleep again. There are other circumstances also that I could give for you to know how light I sleep but let's not go deep.
So I'm a very light sleeper.....
*****Fan or no fan*****
You see that fan thing 😂 it kinda complicated because I hate cold . If I on fan before sleep, by mid sleep I'm already feeling cold in my chest which makes me feel pain. If there is no fan in my room I can manage but if there is fan I'm okay before sleep but in my sleep like this I will be shaking like 😂 american chicken 🐔.
So please the fan at the lowest order
*****One or several pillow*****
Haaaa I love pillows so much. Any kind of it I love it, but one thing that spoil my love for it is my neck. If I use pillow my neck 😂 will pain me. I feel pain 😭 everyday out of the use of pillow and if I decide not to use it I will still feel pain so why shouldn't I kuku use it jhooor. Please if you have any solution to not feel pain when I use pillow please don't hesitate to hint me because my love for it is unlimited.
Give me all kind of pillow to hold 🤣 and to place my head 😜.
*****Early in bed or late sleeper*****
There was a saying that early to bed is early to rise but that one no be for me o, if midnight never come I no go sleep even when I don't do anything reasonable,I find sleeping early a sin, I have the notion that if I sleep early I won't be very very rich but ask me what work I do at night 😅 ,I think ,that's all I do. If every living souls never sleep around me I find it hard to sleep. If you have a night job please employ me o I beg I no dey sleep.
Late sleeper 😪
*****Thin or thick blanket*****
For someone like me that do not like heat and do not like cold I will go for a thin blanket. If I use thick my body will be doing me one kind and if I use thin one during cold I'm also in cold trouble so maybe I will just use double thin 😹😜 so that the heat won't come fast and the cold will not kill my beauty.
*****PJ or comfy clothes*****
I be confirm nigerian and yoruba to be precise I beg wetin be PJ when I get some correct comfortable clothes that I can wear to sleep. Make we no dey open our yansh for outside some of us even wear what we call our home clothes to sleep. I have some clothes that I separated for the house which I only wear around the house, if I'm not sleeping alone I wear them to sleep o but if I'm alone I might like to be free from clothes.
*****Drink milk or water*****
Hmmmm drinking isn't what I like doing too much so either of the two but water intake is everyday 🤣 after food or when tasty. Milk with chocolate or tea is not what I love to take constantly sha.
Thank you so much for getting to know me. Thanks to @Princessbusayo for hinting me on introducing the beauty behind the crown 👑😻🤣.
Green eyed
Harriet was sitting on the floor in her visitor's room crying,her husband Muller walk in with a glass of vodka wine in hand,he touched harriet on her shoulder,she slowly look at her husband then shouted "Edith killed my child !!!", Muller was confused but he knew harriet was only saying that out of trauma from the death of their child. Muller told harriet to calm down and explain why she thought her best friend was responsible for the death of their child. Harriet started narrating how it all started.
Harriet: *When we were in university, there was a guy who walk up to Edith and I while we were going to the cafeteria. The guy admire Edith's dress and requested for her phone number,I was so angry that the guy didn't notice me and was into Edith. When we got home that evening the guy called her and I was even more upset seeing Edith so happy that it shows they are already getting along. They started dating and fixed a date,my friend told me she will be meeting the guy at a particular place around the school and the guy asked her to wear the same dress she wore when he met us.*
*On that day,I wore the same dress my friend will* wear out to meet the guy,I tried convincing him towards me but he rejected me so I had to sabotage my friend,I told the guy my friend went out with her fiance and they will be having a really nice time at that moment. The guy called my friend and she wasn't picking. I make sure I got home late that day so Edith won't ba able to go out anymore. When I got home she was angry at me but because she is a good friend she forgave me so easily. When he called the guy he wasn't picking, she texted him but he didn't reply. The following day,she went to his place and she was embarrassed. When she got back home, she told me all that happened,instead of consoling her, I was happy in me and told her the guy isn't good for her. Many other relationships of Edith have I destroy out of my green eyed towards her.
*When* you proposed to me, I was so happy that I'm getting married and Edith will remain single. On our wedding evening when Edith and the best man was making moves like they were into each other, I was also angry. When you ask your best man and Edith to sleep over at our place that night and they both refuse,when the best man help her with her hand bag and hold her hand, I felt like bouncing on them . I couldn't sleep that night,I was hoping the day break so I can go to Edith's place to see if the best man slept at her place or she went to sleep at his place.
***Muller: Waw, was that where you went to early morning the day after our wedding, was that the stupid move you make that early morning and you lied to me.***
Harriet: ***I got pregnant and at the same time Edith called me and told me she was pregnant also,I was shocked when she told me the best man was responsible and they've been seeing each other without my knowledge. The shock make me lose my pregnancy, I was so angry and wanted revenge so I went to Edith place. I put a drug in her drink when she went into get something in her room. When I left ,she started feeling pain in her stomach and blood started coming out of her body, her boyfriend rushed her to the hospital and the doctor said she used abortion pills and it was overdosed,her boyfriend was angry and broke up with her. She lost her job same time so she had to depend on me . I was so happy she lost her job and have no man in her life so she will ask me for whatever she needs, she will depend on me for everything.***
One day, she ask me to help her with a job,I told her I wasn't complaining ,she insisted so I had to link her up with your sister so I can monitor her life from there easily. There was a day I went to see her at work, your sister came and was on video call with her husband's brother she ask Edith and I to greet him,when I collected the phone he ask me to pass the phone to Edith because she is single,they were chatting like they know each other before,I was so angry and lost in my thoughts. I didn't know afterwards that they were dating untill three days ago when Edith called me and told me he proposed and they are getting married,at that same time my child had an attack, I rushed to bring her first aid,used her inhaler but doesn't work so I gave her overdosed injection which led to death for her, if not Edith's call, I wouldn't have overdosed my child, Edith killed my child,she killed her.
Muller: keep quiet,she didn't,you did, you killed our child,you killed her with your bad attitude,you killed her with your green eyed towards your friend. You used your jealousy to ruin our life.
***The couple cried so hard ......***
Thanks for sparing your time to read.
The Perfect Man
***I'm so sorry for not being constant with my writing for some months now but trust me things will be good soon. I have a lot to share with you but till when things get right,have written a lot of stories that I want to share with you all but when the time comes you all shall enjoy it...... I Miss you all......***
*****Mr Perfect Man*****
Lily in her house with many people around, different people crying saying all sort of good things about the deceased. Badmus was a very good husband to lily and also a responsible father to Kyle. He was involve in a house accident and died before he got to the hospital. Lily was so pain for the loss of her husband,they so much love each other. Badmus and lily were married for 13years and they look up to God for 5 years before God answer their prayer.
Two weeks after the death of Badmus a lady walk into lily's house to tell her she had two children for Badmus. Lily refuse to believe because Badmus had never sleep out,eat out, make suspicious calls, even came early from work no matter the traffic he never exceed 7:30pm, so how come he had the chance to get someone pregnant or even have two children. Lily out of anger send the lady out of her house saying she was a lier that her husband would never do such a thing to her. She became confused and depressed,she tried to think on how, where and why Badmus did such to her. She went to Badmus grave and cried till the security called her family to come and take her out of the burial ground. She couldn't concentrate on her son anymore.
The lady called her to let them go for a DNA test to confirm if the children are Badmus own. Lily selected the hospital to be used and when the results was out it was positive,the children are Badmus own. This makes her even more mad, trying to figure out reasons why her late husband did such,how he did it ,where he did it,she could no see answers to all her questions.
The lady called to even tell her that her brother-in-law knew about the relationship between her and Badmus but the brother-in-law refused the he knew nothing about it. She told Lily she didn't came to her life to claim anything because Badmus have settled her enough,that she only want her children to pay last respect at their father's grave.
Lily lost control of herself that she forgot about her child. She locked herself in her room and even when she comes out she didn't talk to anyone. One unfortunately afternoon, her maid went to report to her that her son was ill and needs her attention,she was just looking like she didn't hear her,the maid left her presence. Not long her child fainted and she snapped out of her thought by the shout from the maid. She rushed her son to the hospital and the doctors said it was too late that the child died. She cried out calling on God for second chance,she was whaling that even the doctors could not control her, she was only shouting 'One more chance Lord'. Luckily for her God answer her prayer and revive her child. In two days they were discharged.
Lily called the lady that gave birth for her husband and ask to see her. When they met she ask the lady how she and her husband managed to have to children and her husband has never lied except about having another wife an skids. The lady said Badmus only spent his lunch time with her which is 1hour. That he so much love his wife that even withing that one hour he will make sure he doesn't exceed it even with a second. She explain how much her husband loves her that even her own children don't answer Badmus name but her own name because Badmus don't want lily to discover.
Lily appreciated the lady,she took responsibility of her husband over the children and ask the lady to move in with her and her child so they all can live as family. Lily ask the lady to let her children answer Badmus name just like her own child.
Wait o, Badmus is truly a perfect Man. He loves his wife so much 🤣 that he kept such thing to grave. He respected his wife that even the other woman that gave birth to two children for him knows so well that he can never hurt his wife even for her own sake. He will always praise and adore his wife even in the presence of his mistress. He is such a good man.
Shot words of advice
Stop living in the past, Face down your fears and, Step into the future.
Discipline become your habits, Habit become lifestyles, Lifestyles influence your character, Your character becomes your destiny.
***Essential values of life;*** Integrity Commitment Loyalty Compassion Responsibility Discipline
Work is doing it, Discipline is doing it everyday, Diligence is doing it well everyday.
Work is good, Discipline is better, Diligence is best.
Face what is tearing you apart or, Focus on what is keeping you together.
Earth provide to satisfy everyman's need, But,not every man's greed.
Trial + Time = Endurance
A faithful man will abound with blessing, But, he who hastens to be rich will not go unpunished.
Face the fear with no consequences, Believe in yourself with no doubt, Understand the fact it might need new strategy to make it stand firm,but be assured with patience, persistent and striveness you shall reach your goal.
Cry it out so you can feel better inside,keep the cry and you keep hurting inside, do not try to compose yourself but just let it go with the flow, go with the flow,time will tell what's to be done.
Saddest way to cry is not to drop tears,showing your composure for people to ignore your inability to feel.
In our lives,we will stagger many times and lose our way. In those moments,it best to have someone to look next to, someone that will support you when you staggered. It the best strength to sail again.
The process should be righteous and the result should be just .
Be resourceful,even in the midst of your adversity. Look away from problem and reach out to someone who need you. Don't withdraw into the shell of inaction or mediocrity. Bring out the creativity in you,create something, help someone,and get busy.
There are three things that cannot stay long hidden; the sun, the moon and the truth.
Thousands of people are brought into a state of real poverty by their great anxiety not to be thought poor.
Keep it close so it can be valued, Make it different from it look on the outside so it won't be predictable. Leave space for an alternative option. Set a goal for yourself to not be left behind later in future.
If the sea's job is to make waves, mine is to think of you.
Do not marry a stingy man because if love stops, he can still care for you because he's not stingy.
I trust you is better compliment than I love you because you may not always trust the person you love but can always love the person you trust and without respect love is lust, without hearing love is boring, and without honesty love is unhappy.
Hannah (2)
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One faithful afternoon, a woman in her fifties came into han's coffee shop and ask to see the owner of the shop. Hannah went to her table and the woman ask to see the owner of the house she's using as a shop. Hannah ask her what she wanted because the owner of the house has been missing for a long time and she's their daughter. The woman looked at he and called her hannah and she said yes. The woman gave her a box and told her her mother ask her to give it to her any time she is released from prison. Hannah was shocked when she knew her mother was in prison all these while and she didn't know. The woman left the shop leaving hannah in her imagination of what could have happened that landed her mother to prison and her dad no where to be found yet.Hannah closed the shop early due to the news she got from the woman. She couldn't sleep all night trying to figure out what crime her mother could have committed.
Early the following morning she remember the box the woman gave her,when she tries to open she noticed it was lock and there was a key space, then she's remember the key in her neck. She open the box and find her parent's picture and two paper. She read her dad's letter first which was written with blood and stated "Daddy love you Han". She cried out loud for few minutes before reading the second letter which was from her mum.
***BODY OF THE LETTER***
My lovely little han, I am so sorry to write you this letter, I should have deliver it in person but my days are yet completed here. It been over fifteen years now and I know you are no more the little Han I know. I believe you are okay and not missing us (your dad and I ) so much. I know life might be so challenging without us but my love we are so sorry. I know you might have tried to search for us everywhere with the name we gave you but baby in this letter I will tell you a story you don't know about your dad and I . Also, there is a picture of your dad and I with you when you were two years old.
*Koik and I met on a business trip (robbery) which was the hardest one we both embark for our bosses. Koik work for one of the most dangerous and wanted criminal who deal in cocaine business a d also steal gold from gold miners in different countries. I on the other hand also work for an enemy to koik boss which suppose to make us enemies, but on these particular trip we met and fell in love with each other which we both knew was dangerous for us. We exchange contact and met secretly after the operation. The business was successful for me because koik had to surrender to me so I could go happy. After the business was done,we had a year vacation from our bosses so we decided to leave the country and reside in another country where our identity is unknown.*
*We got married with another identity and luckily I was pregnant in due time. Since we were on holiday from work,it was easy to hide the pregnancy from work. When I gave birth to you it was almost time for me to resume back to work,koik was still on holiday from his boss because he was wanted and the had to wait till his case went low at the police station before he could resume back to work. When you were three months old I left you with your father and was away for six months. When I got back your dad have also resume work so he left you at an orphanage. From then on you've always been living at the orphanage till when you were five years old and we had to move you closer to us but your name was different from ours so you won't be linked to us. We bought the house in your name because we don't want our identity to be traced to you. We leave the house as early as possible and came back late night when we knew no one will see us went out nor came into the house.*
*Fifteen years age when we stop coming over,we discovered our bosses knew our relationship and they both decided to end our lives. We were hiding from them for three months but unluckily we tried to hijack one of their trip so we can use the money to start a new life with you. Your dad was shot during the operation and died,I waited for the police to arrive and I was arrested. I was sentence to 35years imprisonment with hard work. The woman that gave you the box was a friend from the prison where I'm serving. My love I'm so sorry for telling you these story but I thought you should know the truth about us. Your dad wrote the other note with his own blood when he was dying in my arms. He truly loves you. Baby, there is an account we open in your name where we put all our savings and every other documents is properties we bought in your name. Please, accept our apology and our sincere heart of love from your parent.*
World Bank 32983848849 Hannah saints
Little Han,the key with you will open the safe at the bank. Please, don't bother to come visit me here because it still not safe for you.
MUMMY LOVE YOU
DADDY LOVE YOU
Han was in a shadow of herself, she didn't know time already passed her,she couldn't open her shop for the day because she was so in pain.
QUESTIONS
If you were hannah
What will you do with all the property?
Will you forgive your parents for living such life
Will you visit your mum at prison?
Hannah
The sun set at Hannah's face as she await the return of her parents from work. Seven years old hannah always have to wait everyday after school at the door stairs,sitting at the stairs outside the house and wait for her parents to return from work.
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Mr koik is known as a business man and likewise his wife only that no one knows what kind of business they both do. Hannah only knows her parent left the house early before she wake up and late when she's asleep.
Little hannah turns fifteen in two weeks and it been three months she saw her parents last because they went on a business trip and only call her once since they left. Hannah had no friends because right from childhood she find it hard talking ,she prefer to be alone. She called the number her parents used to call her last but the number has always been off. The two weeks before her birthday she couldn't reach her parents so she lost the hope of them coming.
On her birthday she got an envelope through mail from her dad that they won't be able to come but there is a safe in their room and she should open it. Hannah was disappointed by her parent unlove and uncared attitude towards her. She went to her parents room to see what was in the safe. When she open it,she saw a key and a note that reads "HAPPY BIRTHDAY OUR LITTLE HANNAH". She was confused on what to use the key for but didn't understand the message her parents were passing across to her.she took the key and find a rob and use it as necklace till her parents will come back from their business trip and tell her what the key opens.
Months turns into years and hannah still didn't hear from her parents anymore. She learn to live her life after the money her parents left in their room finish. She got herself a job at a coffee shop where she work two hours in the morning before going to school and after school she resume as a ice cream seller to a van shop owner at the end of the street to her house. She live her life like that till she finish high school. After high school she thought to herself to seat for a state scholarship so it will help pay her tuition through college. Luckily, she passed the test and went for the interview and was chosen among the top five that will get the scholarship.
Hannah as a wise child in her twenties had saved money to start making coffee but since she can't afford to get a shop she cleared her sitting room and used it as a shop. She make a sign post outside the house advertising her business as 'Han's coffee'. She also make deliveries to offices and people likes her coffee so much because of her good customer relations. People start to know her shop and come early morning for han's coffee. Many offices start to order for her coffee and she deliver to every offices on time with no mistake on each person's favorite order.
At thirty,han's coffee shop has expanded outside, she employed more staffs to support her at the shop. I know you will wonder weather she already forgot her parents and live her life. Well she always remember them each time she sees the key in her neck. She had reported missing couple to the police but their names wasn't registered online. She tried to find a picture of them in the house but they never had any,even when hannah was a child she never remember seeing a picture of herself. She knows her parents but there was no single picture of them to be able to identify them by the police or anyone that might have seen them somehow. Hannah accepted her faith and hope someday her parents will come back or maybe someone who know their identity will come looking for them.
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Giving isn't something easy to do. Sharing what you have with others isn't so easy but when you do so out of love you get even more from where you lease expected.
Woke up to see that a special someone like @Talecharm sponsored me. Thanks so much for showing me love 💝 more strength.
True love
Polly was walking through the woods to her house when John noticed her beauty from far. Polly is a very beautiful lady in her prime. She live with her. Parent and have a brother. Her family love her so much that they don't let her lack anything but there is only one problem she had, she had speech and hearing disability. Her disability has been the only sadness she ever had.
John was calling her 'beauty beauty beauty' but she didn't respond since she can't hear him call her. John thought she was only trying to ignore him so he walk up to her and tapped her on her shoulder. She look at him and was making sign to him asking what he wanted but John was unable to understand her sign language,that was when he knew she has disability. He tried to communicate slowly and let her read his lips and by that she knew he wanted to be her friend.
John walk her through the wood while she was talking to him with her signs expressing how sad she is about her condition and how her family have tried to make her happy but still she wasn't satisfied,she want to talk and hear like other people. John could not understand her but manage to play along so she won't feel bad. John walk her home.
Afterwards,they became close friends, john visit her every day with a gift,polly express her gratitude and happiness by giving and smiling at john which make John knows she like the gift. One day, john came with a cloth as a gift for polly,she was so happy,while expressing how happy she was ,her brother came in,john was glad that the brother can speak and hear so he told him to tell his sister he love her,polly also gave a sign to her brother to tell John she love him too. Polly's brother left the two love birds to enjoy themselves. After that day john stop coming to see polly.
Six months passed and John still didn't show up to see polly. Polly was so sad about it, she already grow found of john, she already love him passionately and now john broke her heart. She think so much about him,she thought of what could have happen to him,why he stop visiting her,maybe he was tired of her because of her disability,she was so confused. Her brother had use different ways he knows to console her but to no avail,her mother bought her a lot of gifts,took her out for shopping,shower her with more gifts but she still could not forget John.
One day ,her brother came running to her,he told her john was back and he wanted to see her. She was angry at first but when she saw him kneeling down with a ring in his hand and also gave a hand language sign to tell her to marry him. She was so happy, she make a sign language to him asking why he left without telling her and he responded with a sign that he left to learn her language so he can be able to understand her better. They hug each other and he put the ring in her ring finger .
John inform his family that he want to get married to polly and polly also told her parent john proposed. The two family came together and became one. John and Polly were happily married forever......
Can you unconditionally love someone. Do not marry your spouse for a reason,because when the reason is no more seen,the love begin to shallow and the home begin to break. Have faith in the power of love,you might say it just love ,but love is what we can rely on. When you seems tired the love make you try more to make it work.
Life is a journey and love is what makes this journey worthwhile. However, finding the right partner isn't always simple, perhaps it because there is no such thing as right or wrong partner. Great relationship isn't when a perfect couple come together, but when an imperfect couple learn to respect and enjoy each other differences.
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Thanks to @Princessbusayo in her https://read.cash/@Princessbusayo/a-deserved-moment-2a116b21 ,she open my head to an answer for a friend who requested for my advice and it has kept me in a deep thought of what to tell him. Although the matter isn't directly to him but on the other side it concern him because the issue came from the family of his wife to be.
Have really missed sharing my mind with everyone here especially my lovely family @NigeriaBCH group, people like @HappyBoy , @Gaftekloriginal , @Fexodine1 , @Olasquare and some more that I could not remember their read names,I miss you all.
Back to the matter, according to my friend he told me his fiance is not happy and he need me to talk to her so she can get easy on herself. I wonder what might be the problem making someone that is about to get married so worried because it a thing of joy so what could have get her so worried. My friend gave me his wife to be number so I can call her. I called her and we fix a day to meet and talk.
We meet and I can see on her face she have been crying a lot. I ask what the problem could be that she cried so much that her eyeballs are red then she said to me "My dad is my problem" . I statued, I couldn't figure out what it meant in my head how her dad is the problem of her getting married. I ask her to please tell me how her dad is the problem.
She started "Ade, you know so well about how long have been in this relationship with your friend, it been 4years now and every woman pray to end up with such man she stayed with for that long. I have always pray to be with your friend for the rest of my life, when he proposed I was the happiest human on heart. He took me to his parents and I will say I'm so lucky to have such in-law. When he told me to introduce him to my family that was when I know I'm going to face a very big task because I know the kind of father I have. I told my mum and she ask me to talk to my dad by myself,I talk to my brother he also ask me to talk to him myself,I feel rejected but one morning I summon courage and text him that the man I'm seeing wish to know my family and he said no problem. Your friend called him and he fixed a day for us to visit. After our visit, his dad also called my dad to tell him about coming for a proper introduction of both family and my dad said it fine. After the day had been fixed,I told my dad the date and he only told me when the day is close I should let him know how many people are coming. Now that it close,I called him that 12 people will be coming, my dad got upset and told me that anything more than five people they should stay in their house. Please Ade tell me, isn't this enough to think,did he want to spoil a day of joy for me, everyone from my mum's family ask me not to listen to him but I'm afraid if I ignore,he might do something that will make me sad for the rest of my mind. What do you think I should do?
Hmmmm,I was speechless,I look at her and the only word that came out was 'it is well'. I told her to cheer up that I will find a way around it even though nothing was coming to my head at that moment.
When I got home I decided to check here then I saw @Princessbusayo story, and after reading I said to myself, the answer is prayer. I told myself that the only best solution to the problem my friend need is prayer.
I called her already to start praying to God to change her dad's mind towards the event, that God himself should intervene and take control over every principalities and power of the devil that want to use her dad to sadden her joy.
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