If many of us are ask to list the kind of love we wish for, I know we all will surely have a lot to talk about and if ask whether we've experienced that love hnnnnn..........
In my life I have never for once experienced the love I wanted, all I got is s*x mate. I know some people will think otherwise but I hate s*x yes and that's the only thing that get me tired in any relationship. Why do guys think the only thing a woman can offer them is s*x , some guys of now don't even want to see your potential and abilities they only want to be inside of you any moment you're with them.
Well I know love is full of different responsibilities but I will say that s*x shouldn't be the top of it. I'm not writing these to the married couples but to the youths who are yet to marry. Courtship suppose to be to know eachother, understand eachother, see eachother's strength and weaknesses to know if you can cope with it, know your potentials see how to support eachother etc. Instead, the ladies make the men think they don't have anything to offer than s*x because when the guy ask for it you give it.
I know before one get a Man or woman of one's choice, we must date different kind and put them to test. It may even take you for a long time before you succeed. Sometimes you will be frustrated as if God has forgotten you, then he will surprise you.
Now I don't even give a dime about any guy, if you don't work towards my expectations you can't even try any rubb**h s*x with me. I might be somehow harsh but hmmmm. Any man that want me now must naturally without me asking be caring,loving, adorable, creative, romantic and over all must not be a s*x addict.
I want a man that will call me and tell me he knows I need some money for my project and he will cover my tithe for the month so I can add the 10% to my project, or even send me money to keep for him which we both know he won't take back, organise a dinner date for two even if it going to be our dining but it should be so amazing and special, it shouldn't be only s*x and not even a heart to heart discussion.
These little things are the foundation blocks of a relationship and marriage, not that I don't have my money, but it is also up to you to take care of me even when I don't ask. I don't need to ask before you can do it for me. Most women are independent in nature and these make us feel uncomfortable asking our partner for help. I don't even know how to ask from my own dad talkless my partner, I don't want a dad in my man, I want a friend, soul mate, companion, teammate. Some guys don't even have the account details of their partners and they've been together for over a year. Some can't even remember the last time they bought airtime credit for their partner, it's that bad. Love is not free,the price is responsibility.
Most of we women love surprises from our partner but we don't get it which hurt us alot. Apart from sexual urge, women has alot to take responsibility on and I will say even more than the men. I know men will want to object to these but some will reason so deeply about it
I come in peace ooooo
Ladies in the house are you with me on these.
True love can wait. You don't need to do what he wants you to do unless you wanted to. If he truly loves you then he should to respect your point of views in life.