Parenting Challenges at Teenage

" The sign of great parenting is not child's behavior. The sign of truly great parenting is parents behavior." Andy Smithson

Parenting can be defined as the behavior of the parents that they adopt to raise their children at their childhood and teenage. It's a training of the children how to behave and manage the problems that they face in their personal life. Both father and mother personality effects the children life. There are different parenting trends around the world. Some styles of parenting are following :

• Authoritative parenting

• Authoritarian parenting

• Permissive parenting

• Uninvolved parenting

• Intrusive parenting

The most challenging stage of parenting is teenage for children and parents. Many emotions and dreams blows up in the children life because biologically it's an age hormones growth and adulthood. The attraction towards any one and the romantic thoughts begins to raise in someone mind is common. Dream world of emotions is build in the teenagers mind. This is the stage where they are distracted from their goals. It is most common problem that teenagers face. Many parents gave the freedom to their children talk to them about the problems that are going in their life. That's how they are very comfortable in sharing with their parents and get to know how to overcome these emotions. How to react and deal at such circumstances without damaging own and others self respect. If your children are comfortable enough to share with you what they are facing, then you are best parents of the world who are friend of their children at the same time. Never be aggressive to your children because of emotions. Perhaps you can stop your children to commit any mistake/wrong that is harmful for them. You can aid your children by supporting them morally to overcome their mind stress.

Yesterday, I was scrolling on YouTube to watch any short movie that consume less time and always carries a lesson. The movie clip Crushes & Teenage went through my eyes. Perhaps it belongs to Indian Movies that perfectly captured the important aspect of society. A single mother was very kind to her teenage daughter who was 10th grade at her school. The girl name was Yashu who has crush at her classmate. She didn't open her heart to the guy but she always remains praying to God to get his attention. Yashu pen her emotions in personal diary. One day, when was take bath her mother begins to read her diary and come to know about her emotions. She got furious and closed her in the room for whole day. Late on, Pallvi the Aunty of Yashu came and handle the situation. She told his sister that it's wrong to react aggressively with the teenagers. Parents believe that their children doesn't know anything at teenage but it's a digital revolutionary era. Everything about biological relationship is exposed by the internet that is easily accessible by the person of every age. That's why it's the best way to be close enough to their children and guide them about the problems that they are facing.

That's how Yashu come to realize that her behavior isn't favorable. She went to her daughter and explain him about the emotions of Teenage. She differentiate crush and true love. Teenage isn't perfect age to start relationship. It's time to focus on career and achieve the goal. That's how every parents should deal the situation and behave. It doesn't matter you are parents of boy or girl, you need to make efforts to raise your children with moral ethics in their behavior and personality.

"The best kind of parents you can be is to lead by example." Drew Barrymore

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