What if women are to be blamedd for this?
It saddens 💔 me that another citizen in my country has lost his life due to religious blasphemy, I hope God is still seeing what is happening here.
Continuation from my previous article that I wrote yesterday, I had to cut it short so it won't be too much, well here is the other part that most ladies don't take the blame for, cause its easier for some to put all the blame on men only.
This Twitter user here gave her the reply she was looking for, I thought it in my mind as well cause hardly you will ladies don't talk about money in their Whatsapp status these days, not that I am against it but at least if they are talking about a business that brings money, it's better but they always talk about guys that will dash the money, as some will openly say it that “If you say you love me and you don't spend money on me, that love is fake and I don't need it”
Some always insult broke boys in their status too and they might call it catching cruise but that sh!t isn't funny, some will post a screenshot of what a guy wrote and also give the person a savage reply, like the one that was trending a few months back, I know most of my country people surely came across it, there was a Dj (DJ YK) that used it to create trending sound, what came about the reply is that a guy asked a lady out, they were both at the same school.
The lady a voice note replied with started with broke, short, black, and so on, people started reposting it sounded funny to them, well, it is always found funny when you are not the one that is being mocked, there are like 99 ways she should have rejected the guy without insults, but she choose the 1 that she feels like it will touch him very well not to message her again.
Does men's mental health matter? That alone leads to depression and anxiety, but he's expected to dust it off because he's a man, and men are not supposed to cry or show witness, so many men have died in silence because of all these because they will be tagged as lazy if they were to say what they feel, what is bothering them, how's life going, in my country now, hardly you will see a genuine female friend that just wants to be there for you, they do exist but, just have money first, that's the number one rule we were thought.
According to the tweet above, who should I blame for the evil things young guys are putting their hands on these days, I guess we all know who to blame if were are given a chance to speak, but still, a man has to take the blame for what he did, even if he did it for someone, that. becomes none of the person's business if it didn't work out.
A lot of young guys have gone and some others are in the street running mad, some are kept at home and are receiving home treatment cause of what they did to make money early, some regret their decisions but it's already too late for that, some are being carried from church to church for them to be healed but as the saying goes, when the devil gives with a left hand, he takes back with the right hand.
The devil comes with different tricks, the guy's story that I narrated on how he was embarrassed by the lady for liking her, it's easier for the devil to just enter one of his friends and the friend will tell him about joining fraudster so he can become rich and no one will ever embarrass him like that again if he's faith in God is not fully solid like a tree planted by the waters or like Dangote cement, he will give him to what the friend said and then from there the devil might come again and talk to him about ritual, he's already halfway there, why not finish it and have a lot of money, which most of them does and they will start calling it grace.
Young promising guys that should have been studying hard or perhaps smart so they can develop the country with their knowledge are now into cyber fraud because they want to make money so quick even if it means to steal from others, some even go to the extent of using the victim card to take a loan and the victim will use the rest of his or her life to be paying for what he or didn't do, these guys usually, say that All the hustle is for their mother, but we all know that they use the money for, lol.
The girlfriend will be putting pressure on them that they need a new phone, new hair, new clothes, and money for upkeep, if the guy doesn't have enough, some will insult the guy while some will low key look for other guys that can provide for them, which we call Hookup, lol, when the guy finds out about it, he will have the urge to make money too by all midst necessary and some will even use their mother for the ritual so they can impress the girls and show off their wealth, when they enter the club everyone will know their names, the big money spender, lol.
What women are to blamed for all these things young guys are putting their hands, how would they feel?
04-06-2022
The pressure on people(both male and female) to be rich is getting too much. At long as you have money, people don't care where or how you got it, which is very wrong.