I don't need a man

Hello readers, I hope you are having a good in where ever you are now, a few days to the new year, I can't hold the joy inside of me, I hope things get better in 2022 though. 

Today I will be talking about females, I mean the ones I have come across in my country, it's not about me asking them on a date though, haha, just a few observations I have come to realize about most ladies in Nigeria.

A few months back, a lady on my WhatsApp contact list wrote something on her status which I just remembered now because another lady wrote something similar to it, the first lady wrote "The more I make my own money, the more I see no reason to have a man in my life" it sounds funny to me and a lot of things was running through my mind, so she meant that she's only claiming to love a guy because of his money and nothing more, Haha, now I see the reason @Kushyzee don't believe in true love. 

Most ladies in my country sees men as MMM (Money Making Machines) and that's the reason they even agree on a date with them, it's kind of hard to see a rich lady in a relationship these days because they think that as long as they have their own MMM without a man in it, they don't want a man in their life, I'm not condemning any financially able lady though, I am just trying to clear my thoughts. 

That's why we usually see none educated women living a happy married life, while the ones that are educated and rich are living their lives, most of them though, are few rich women I have read their story on how they got married, one of them is Linda Ikeja, Linda is a blogger and one of the biggest bloggers in Africa, you can tell that she's very rich, according to the story that I heard, I haven't confirmed that is true though, but its the marriage is true, they said that she sent her mother money to look for a husband for her, she married the husband with her own money and they are both living happily now, she has changed the man's life, and many other rich women has married a man with their money and guess what? They didn't die, they are living happily in their home. 

Some actresses in Nollywood are looking for a sperm donor because they have their own money, they see no reason why they need a man in their life, they just believe that the only obligation of a man is to handle the bills and nothing more, they just want to a man to donate his sperm and get paid for it, so they can raise the child alone in their terms without a father, they don't know that no matter the love you give to the child, the child will always feel that something is missing and as the child grows, the child will be asking of the father, they might try to avoid the question when it pops up, but not for long though. 

If a single-gender could generate a baby themselves, that would have been a disaster, you know God sees the end from the beginning, that's why God placed it in both genders that one can't produce a baby without the other one, we thank God for God. 

I believe that is good for a lady to have her own money and be well educated with purpose, but that shouldn't make her feel like a man, you can be a woman and still be strong, I use to believe that women that make a better President in my country but for the looks on the women in my country, I doubt it, I hope they prove me wrong though, but if a woman becomes the President, she might starve all men, especially if she's single, haha, and I'm not ready to go into starvation. 

Conclusion

Someone needs to teach these young females that they can be financially able and still be loving wife, most of these ladies idolized rich and single female celebrities, it won't take long before their influence get to them, the worst part of it all, they call it female power or female taking over, what the F? Who's fighting who here? Aren't supposed to live as one, that's why we see a lot of divorces these days, a week marriage is already filing a divorce because of one thing or the other and most of the reasons is because the lady sees the man as the same level with her because she earns figures that are bigger than the man's own, if only they can learn from other countrywomen and enjoy what true love taste like, some of my countrymen prefers to marry a foreign Lady because of these reasons and I am considering joining the train too, soon I hope, I don't think I have the strength to be telling a Nigeria lady the same thing all the time and she will still be claiming the victim to it, though they are still genuine Nigeria ladies out there that are true, that doesn't mean I should go look for them, haha, I can't, I don't have the time for that now, I have met 99 ladies and all said the words in different ways.

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29/12/2021