How would you know if what you feel it's love ?

How would you know if you what you feel it's love?. It's the most underated question ever, most people think that because you can't stop thinking about someone all day, that automatically means that you are in love, lol!, Sounds funny right?. Well such it's life.

Let me enlighten you how love works from my experience though, maybe you would learn one or two from it, like a Wiseman ones said, you can't know it all most times you need to think outside the box

In my life time, I have came across different levels of love, there's love at first sight also a long friendship love and etc...

Firstly let's know what's love. Love can be defined as a feeling you have towards someone, love usually dwells in the heart and not the mind, the reason for this it's that, the heart it's soft and easy to accommodate love, but the mind it's kind of hard and usually hate being emotional. That's the reason love deside to stick with the heart and not the mind.

Let's get back to the main topic How would you know if you are inlove?

You can see someone and can't stop thinking about the person then you will just conclude that you are inlove, no no no no no no no, that's not how love works and there's nothing like signs of true love, when a butterflies or fireflies start flying around both of you and all you now see it's him/her then the rain started falling or snowing started falling down while a beautiful song it's being played at the background of the scene, lol! That's fiction (not real) those signs only exist in movies and are not real. So if you are waiting for such before you fall in love, sorry to burst your bubbles that aren't coming dear, love it's not a movie, love it's beautiful and dangerous at the same time, i and my friend was walking and then we sighted young beautiful girl with good curves and my friend was like, Coga I done fall inlove with this girl like this, I was like how come, someone you bearly know, then I asked him, what makes you to fall inlove with her? And has like, omo can't you see that the girl it's funny loaded, if this one handle you ehn you go scream for glory, and I was like that's all? And he said what else again ? I said nothing o but if that is all you think of her that makes you fall in love with her, my brother you are not inlove you are just lust after her body shape, don't confuse lust for love.

You see that's what most people feel. They are lust after the body or the money and they mistake it for love. Like I said love dwells in the heart and not the body shape or beautiful face or the money you see.

When you love someone or you feel like you have developing feelings for someone. First of all you need to ask yourself why I'm developing feelings for this person? (Falling inlove with this person) and check all the necessary documents of the person in your brain to know why you can't stop thinking about the person. It's it because of the body shape ?, It's it because of the way he/she walks ?, It's it because of the help he/she offered me that makes me feel I'm inlove? Or it's it because of the way he/she treats me ?.

All these are areas you should really think about to know if what you feel it's love or you just enjoy the company of the person. Because love dwells in the heart and not the company of a person or body shape. If you love someone because of the body shape (curves) soon or later you would see someone that has better curves than her and you will surely run after that one, if you love someone because of his handsomeness or her beauty, you will eventually see someone that is more beautiful than her or more handsome than him and you will run after that one also, if you love him because he is funny and he's also nice to talk to, you will fall out of love with him sooner or later, if you love her because you enjoy her company anytime she's around you, there's no dull moment, you will fall out of love with her sooner because you will eventually see someone that is more friendly than her.

Love should come from the heart and not the eyes, love it's a feeling and feelings are unseen, feelings are proven by the way you take action towards your emotion not something you see with your eyes.

I hope after reading this arrict you will be able to know the difference between love and lust, so you will have a clear understanding of what you are feeling or want you want to feel. When you understand the difference between these words, trust me you are 10 steps to becoming a better being.