How to stay sad forever
Recently, one of my celebrity crush, she's a well-known female music artiste, not only in Africa but also in other countries, she said something on a video that birthed this topic I am writing on, she inspires me every day, if I was to be given a chance to either dine with her or choose 10k$, I will go for the 10k$ and make good use of the money then go and ask her hand in dating,
In the video she posted, she talked about how to stay sad forever, which is to be following what you see on Instagram, norms, we all know that Instagram is mostly filled with fake people that pretend to be rich so they can impress their followers and others, some of them will take it to the next level by leaving their house in the morning well dressed just to go and take pictures at someone else house, haha, funny but true.
Some months back, a Twitter user posted some photos of a photo studio in lekki lagos, Nigeria, the caption, he said most people in lagos usually go to the studio and snap some photos there because the studio was designed like an airplane, inside looks like a private jet and some people will just come and take some photos so they be post it and say that they are leaving the country, haha, what humans can do doesn't have a limit.
It's only on Instagram you will see independent models, they will be modeling for the gram and they spend a lot of money on their wear just to look beautiful for the gram, which most of them usually get more than the money because they do it for some reasons, some do it for the followers while others do it for ho0kup, they're what we called digital runs, they don't need to stay on the road for someone to pick them, they will just be on their page waiting for someone to dm them with good talk.
Some of them usually claim they are influencers and that is where they earn their money, while the ones that don't know much about Instagram will just be feeling depressed because of what they see online, the internet is not for the weak, the none rich will say the rich are showing off their wealth, while the rich will say they are just being grateful by posting it and no hard feelings.
As for me, I don't like to let it get into my head, just because someone is gaining it big, doesn't mean I am losing, the sky is big enough for all the birds to fly, but sometimes it feels like I want to start overthinking because of what I see online, I will just switch off my data and find something else doing to whine away my time, because the more I look at it, the more I might start having this feeling of anxiety or not being able or capable to do great things.
I know life isn't the same for everyone and some people are more favorable than others, that's just life, looking at life from a different perspective will save one from a lot of drama and overthinking because you will be able to see that they the alphabet don't just start and end with A, they are 25 more alphabets, at least before we reach Z, one of the alphabets will work for us, haha.
That will be all for today, it has been a day, I hope you all are doing good, well it's not easy out here for real, talking about the country and the coming election, I hope the people make a better choice by choosing a president that will take the country from the bottom to the top and higher because the current president is still taking it from top bottom, I don't know how bottomed it will be before his leadership will expire.
14-07-2022
Some people seek attention through social media, and I don't plan to do it for myself. I can be happy outside social media and people doesn't have to know every single detail about my life.