Depends on who's asking

Christmas has come and it was indeed a good day, I left home as early as I told you guys and it was a mistake that I will not make again, the girl didn't come through, she broke the trust my stomach had for her, thank God I had a backup plan, which was the plastic Fanta I had in my bag, if not I would have fainted at the office today, lol, well at least the day wasn't a waste, lesson learned, the female gender is not to be trusted, especially with your stomach, haha. 

I'm not the calling type, I'm not the visiting type, I'm not the posting type, these are words people usually use as no excuse for not doing what you told them, I don't know much about people from other countries but I will just write on few things that I have to observe in my country and some silly excuses people give.

These excuses are common and they are mostly used by ladies in my country, all guys in my country must have fallen victim to these excuses in one way or the other, a girl can tell you that she don't have airtime to call you or she didn't like to receive night calls because of her parents and blah blah blah, you as a guy will understand because you feel like is late too and most parents don't like that, that same girl will be calling someone at midnight, the same time she told you she don't use to answer call, or you tell a girl to come visit you so you both can go clubbing and she will say she's not the visiting type because her parents don't allow her to go out, she's always indoor, you decided to go clubbing alone with your boys and you will see her at the club, wait, Anita, I thought you don't use to go out, how come you are here, she will just bypass the question with silly talk and so on, some girls will say "before you decide to date me, just know that I won't post you, even if you go missing" haha. 

I know of a guy that has been dating this girl, the girl told him that she can't be posting him as her boyfriend because she's afraid that her relative might report to her parents, the guy agreed and their relationship was kind of secret, on the girl birthday, this guy messaged me and told me that tomorrow is his girlfriend birthday and he sent me some of her pictures to repost for her, which I did, this guy sang a song for her and did a shout out video with the song for her, the girl reposted half of the video in a way that you will know she didn't wanted to repost it before, I was watching (I have both numbers on WhatsApp) when it got to the guy birthday, she just posted his picture and wrote happy birthday dear, this girl gave him a lot of excuses and the guy will be complaining to me, I will try to see reasons with the girl and she will convince me, well, to cut the story short, they are no longer together and everything the girl told him she can't do for him, she's doing it for another guy now, same goes with guys too, a lady will be complaining that he's not caring and so on, but after breakup, all the ladies complained that the guy wasn't doing for her, he will start doing it for his new girlfriend. 

I remember when I told a friend to dance to twerk on my song so I can repost it, she rebuked me I was kind of a demon, she was very angry at me for telling her to twerk on my song, like don't I know she goes to church and what if her church members sees, they will start using her to preach, I apologize to her because I thought she's right and I won't have told her to twerk on it, months later when Naira Marley dropped Coming, this girl posted a video of her twerking to the song, she posted it on WhatsApp, posted it on Instagram and was tagging Naira Marley to repost the video, I just smiled and pass, "na me never blow"

Conclusion

There's nothing like a stupid question or request, they just don't want to do it for you because you are not important to them as you thought you are, people can cross their limit and do what they say they can't do and we don't have to feel sad about it, the only thing we can do is to move on and not hold grudges against them, is better to rely on yourself than others, just like today now, I thought at least this girl will come through, but I thought wrong, lol, maybe she went to her boyfriend side though, but she sees me as an important friend she won't have disappointed me as she did.

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25/12/2021