Pickup line still working?
How should I say this, either way, I am going to say it, happy Monday guys, haha, I hope your Monday won't be stressful like other Mondays, it's almost the end of the month and we thank God for keeping us safe since the beginning of the year, and I know he will keep us throughout the year cause he's not a wicked God, and next year, he shall renew his subscription in protecting us again.
Today I will be talking about, pickup lines, we all know what a pickup line is right, I better give a brief explanation, Pick up lines are a few words you can use to get a girl or guy's attention, but we will be talking about girls here, hehe, it's not gossip, okay, but maybe a little bit of gossip and I hope the ladies won't drag me for this, haha, apologies in advance, let’s dive right in.
Yesterday being Sunday, we were just chatting in a WhatsApp group, that’s when one of the members dropped a pickup line for a female in the group, to get her attention that he likes her, unfortunately, the pickup line is old school and one of the guys tackle him and said that these lines has expired it, the lady also said that someone has already used it for back her then when she was in primary school, we all burst into laughter, the guy told me to drop mine but I refuse.
Cause there was a time I use to drop pickup and one of my guy back then used it on a lady, which I tried to use it on the same lady and she said she has heard it before, like I compose it but someone else has used it before me, haha, it’s like buying it a car and another person gets to ride it around the place even before you ride it, they might think it belongs to the person that ride it first.
The lady in the group now wrote that pickup lines are outdated and the only small boys that still use them, it was kind of funny and also not funny, cause I know that even right from In the beginning, when God created Adam and Eve, Adam didn't just walk to Eve and tell her that she was destined to be his wife, he instead used pickup lines.
**And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.** ***Genesis 2:23***
This is the first pickup line in the history of pickup lines, so there is no way pickup lines can't be outdated, it's still working very fine but in a few places or perhaps people.
I replied the lady that pickup lines are for ladies and some girls just want money as their pickup lines because they are driven by hunger, as the saying goes, a hungry lady is an angry lady, (***sorry I had to use lady instead of man, and I don't mean real hunger, I meant when a lady I always in need of money from a guy***) you can't tell someone hungry about what will benefit her in the future because the person will rather have it for the moment than for the future.
Hardly you see girls that still listen to pick up lines in Nigeria, except for the financial stable ladies that have a lot of money to take care of themselves, when you use pick lines on them, they will blush and want to hear what you want to say, the conversation might lead to them giving you their number and be friends with them, which friendship can lead to a relationship and so on, life is not supposed to be stressful as we see it these days.
Meet a lady in the street and ask her what she likes, and her first reply will be money, I know that everyone needs money but she doesn't need to make it obvious like she's the only one that has a responsibility to care, some of them don't even have responsibility self, they just want to use the money to shop new clothes, shoes, bags, hairs and so on, no business plan, then later you will see them singing “Carry me dey go my husband house” when they began to grow old without a spouse.
Everything shouldn't have to be about money, if she likes money that much, she should go into a business that can be taking care of her needs and wants, at least we have rich women in the society today and those women don't have two heads or four brains, a guy just want to use his pickup lines as a continuation of what the first man did it, thank God money wasn't available then, maybe Eve might have asked Adam what can he offered, haha, just joking.
We wonder why guys go into fraud and rituals, we forget the real reason behind it, because sometimes no matter how hard a guy tries to get a girl's attention with pick up lines or a long note of him expressing his feelings to her, the girls usually choose the guys that send them money, even when they know he just wants s3x in return and that is it, not that we too don't want it but we won't have it and run away, that's how the relationship is supposed to be, not every time money money money, even before a guy say hello, she has asked if he has money.
This doesn't just happen in Nigeria though, its also happening in different countries, I have seen some American guys asking a lady out in a video and she will turn the guy down, then the guy will walk to his car and she will want to come back and say hello to him that she thought he was broke.
Some girls do listen to pickup lines but they are rare, they have enough money to care for their needs and you have to try your best to get them, at least you will know that you like it when she blushes and listens to you.
My conclusion is that, Pick up lines are still very much working but depending on the person you use it on, I hope we don't come across the ones that are driven by hunger, rather we will meet the right ones that want to listen and engage in a sweet conversation to us that will grow into something beautiful, a strong relationship that can lead to marriage and support from each other.
***Lead image source*** https://pixabay.com/images/id-1194312/
30-05-2022
Get paid for doing the simple tasks you do daily.
Hello readers and I hope you all are doing fine, remember never to go to bed angry, bad things can happen if you go to bed angry, I think I have shared one before or I should share it again, I read it on Facebook though.
***The story was about a couple and they live happily until one night, both of them were angry at each other, though the wife was at fault and the husband was always apologizing and but this time, he choose not to, the wife too wasn't ready to apologize, so they both went to sleep in the bed but facing the opposite side, at might night, the wife was hitting the husband (like trying to wake him) but the husband was still angry at her, so he didn't answer her, in the morning he woke up and the wife was still in the bed, he got ready and dressed for work in the same angry mood when he got back, he saw that the wife was still in bed and she didn't even move an inch, then he was suspicious and tries to wake, only to see that she's dead. The wife had asthma and she was trying to wake the husband for him to give her the inhaler, but the husband thought she was just trying not to let him sleep, now she's gone, is not his fault though, but anger cost him his wife and the wife died angrily.***
That's not my topic for the the day though, as written in the title, ****Get paid for doing the daily task you normally do on social media for free****, I am not here to introduce anysite to you, lol, I wanted to write something different but this one just came in, and someone told me to write on it since I do have idea on how it is, that’s why I decided to write on it.
This evening, someone posted the link to the site in one of the WhatsApp groups I belong and when I saw what the site is about, I had a flashback to years back when I was still looking for ways to earn online, I came across a similar site, its not the same name and I am not if its the same person that owns it though, the name of the site was called **Viraltrend** and it's like it's still active, I don't remember the last time I checked it.
Someone that runs a Whatsapp tv introduced it to his group years back when I was still a member of the group, it felt promising and the fee was just a token, it comes in a pack like there is the regular pack of membership and another high one, the minimum registration fee then was 1$ then, some members of the group started sending him a message and he was registering them and dropping screenshots in the group to pressure us that hasn't registered.
I registered a few days later and the task was kind of simple, all you will have to do is just like pictures of some people, comments on their post, and follow or subscribe to them, when I heard it, I didn't even bother much on how long is going to be for me to get my first cash out, cause I was so confident in it that I can at least be earning 0.50$ a day. That will go to be huge money when I withdraw it at a month end.
I was doing it for some while, the thing is that these people aren't a scammed but before you can earn a decent amount, it's going to take some forever, though the task is simple, like, comment, and follow or subscribe to the social media link they will send, but the amount they pay per task is not up to 0.05$ and the worst part is that they won't be enough tasks for you to do the whole day to at least earn about 1$ or 0.50$ a day.
The only way you can enjoy it is through the referral bonus you get when someone used your link, when they use your link, you might get 50% to 25% of the amount the person use to subscribe, depending on the amount you also use in subscribing, haha, they are just there to gather registration fee, they don't even have strong good patronage all the time that will come to buy followers.
Even the founder of the site might not have up to 5,000 organic followers (real people following him) cause their likes and comment will be low, how can someone have about 11k followers on Instagram and he barely has 100 likes, we check the engage of these people before we believe they can get the work done, they can't give what they don't have, better not to join than for join and say let's see how it goes, even if the registration fee is 2$, you can do better things with the 2$, even if you have nothing to do with it.
Better you stake it on a sports bet and watch the outcome than put it on the site, I am not downgrading any site but I am just giving warming ahead in case you come across this kind of site that pay for social media activities, the data you will even spend on it is going to be more x5 of the money you will even be expecting, stay safe and be sure on what you about to do.
I started writing the article yesterday but I slept off and God did it I woke up early so I had to finish it and get ready for church, Happy Sunday and God bless your day and mine.
*Lead image source* https://pixabay.com/images/id-3353701/
29-05-2022
Your life is now in your hands
what if God gives us the ability to choose when we will leave this earth like there will be no untimely death and before we leave the earth, we will have enough time to clear our desk or perhaps dashboard, well, I guess we will never know how we will use it, not until we get there first.
Today 27th of May is children's day in my country, it's indeed a day of joy, though not all children was privileged to go out and celebrate it like others, still, I believe they will be happy in one way or the other, there's a lot of memories I would have liked to share but I will leave it since it won't fit in the topic, haha.
I came across a video on Instagram while I was checking the field and I saw some other videos though, but this one was not what I expected, it made me to laugh and I know it will crack your ribs also, they called a young male child to pray on one of the occasions of today, the prayer he prayed is funny and at the same time sensitive, at first people laughed but when they reasoned what the boy said, he couldn’t skip it but to say amen.
The Mc gave the young boy mic to pray for the occasion, he started with
***In Jesus name, in the mighty name of Jesus, thank lord for mommy, thank lord for daddy, thank lord for everybody, thank lord for everybody will not die in Jesus name, thank lord, everybody will live long, in Jesus name, they will not die until they feel like dying in Jesus name, (everyone burst into laughter) in Jesus name I prayed (everyone said amen).***
The video is short I will drop the **link here.** https://youtube.com/shorts/QnJawwTYiRI?feature=share
The prayer sounds funny at first, but when I thought about it again, that is what birthed this topic, I had to imagine if truly we have the choice to choose when to die, how will the world look like now? Will people even choose to die at all, or they will all live like immortals, well, as @Kushyzee used to say, **you will surely get tired of living**, and one day, which might be true though.
But, I still believe that we a person has the right to the red bottom (terminate bottom) in his or her life and only the person can access it, just like Russia's missiles defense, I believe only the president has the password to it, that's why he's being feared, back to the topic, if we have the opportunity to be the only one that can end our lives, do you think there will be a reason to end it?
At least if there should be a reason, like some people that suffer from depression and other deep sad feelings that can get over with, some will still end theirs, because they believe that there's nothing worth living for, only God knows what most people go through behind the closed doors, if only pillow can talk, I guess she would have told everyone what we do most times in the night when we think about life.
There will be no untimely death if we are given the privilege to get control of our lives, even when someone had an accident without saying goodbye to their loved ones, while some don't even get to see their loved ones before they pass on, now, they everyone will get a chance to say goodbye when they are ready to die and the accident will ineffective on them, they might clash 21 times but they will still come out alive and well because they haven’t pressed the bottom yet.
I believe it will be cool but at the same time, most people won’t leave to go, you will see people that is about 5 thousand years of age, still living life, the population of the world is too much, it’s just like a football or any other sport that has team, the whole players can’t be in the field at the same time, the field will be over crowded by people and the fans won’t even enjoy it, that’s why they are substitutions, just like life, some people die for others to come be born, in football some players will have to seat on the bench, while the ones that has been seating there will be able to play.
There will surely be disadvantages and advantages if we become the mai holder of our lives, I believe the disadvantages is much more than the advantages.
Quick one: **I have been seeing viewing some of the people on my contact list wishing themselves happy children's day as sign or catching cruise or so, not that I am against it, cause we all are someone children, but the if you anyone a child after today, they will pick offense, lol.**
*Lead image source* https://pixabay.com/images/id-1838658/
27-05-2022
It takes nothing to be humble.
Seat down, be humble, seat down, be humble, I guess we all know who sang the song, but in case you haven't heard of it, The title of the song is **Humble** by **Kendrick Lamar**, it’s a rap song and you going to enjoy it.
Straight to the topic of the day, which is written as the title, we all know what humble stands for, and no need for me to start defining it, I am going to talk about what it takes to be humble, not just for the rich but also to the none rich, its easier for some people to be humble to those that they benefit from and also look down on those that either benefit from them or they don't benefit from.
Humbleness shouldn't be about the amount of money the person has in his or her account before you humble them, some people don't even answer the greeting of their workers, like the gateman or the driver, they will hear the person but they won't answer, the day the person don't greet them, they will notice it and start picking offenses.
Everyone knows the way they are and how they do their things, this article is simply my personal opinion and observations, though I am not rich yet and I don't know how it feels to have over a million dollars in my possession, so let me not start saying things that I might do in future when I have such an amount of money, haha, cause as people often say, money has spirits and it will unlock your true nature, I haven't seen mine though.
There are two types of rich people, the ones who don't like to show off and the ones that show off, both are rich but have different lifestyles, there are some people that can use their last money to show off while there are some that rather use the money for something more profitable than spend it on diamond and ice, just depending on what the person feels like to his or her money for.
A few days back, a popular rapper visited Nigeria and he came with his guys for a music video, when they came, you can tell that yes he was a rapper (Da baby), because he dresses like one and also have a lot of diamond chains and ices, few of his friends and bouncers that came with him was also looking fresh from the oven, the appearance says it all, the people were running after him when they see him, he sometimes through money to them, he came out few times with one of Africa biggest artiste (Davido) they had fun and shot a music video together, few days he left.
I believe it was in the same week that another rapper (Kendrick Lamar) visited Ghana, he has the funniest appearance, firstly he shows up as an ordinary man, he wasn't wearing diamond and ice all over his neck, I believe he came with just one person, cause it's like the person was the one holding the camera sometimes, he first went to the street and most people don't even recognize him, lol, that's the kind of personality I will like to copy.
He started playing football with all the other guys in the street and they all were just having fun like they have known him for years now, he just went there to have a wonderful, from there he went to the beach, which one of the Ghanaians rapper (Black sheriff) went and welcomed him to Ghana, that's how life suppose to be though.
He was so free in the environment and he even had time to play with kids and each with them, they were just dressing, I guess he's following his words by being humble, no every time one has to wear diamonds before we give them respect, he shows that it takes nothing to be humble sometimes, at least don't overdo it cause some people might step on you.
When I look at him then I took like his cycle too, that's when I realize that the company we keep does matter a lot, hardly see Kendrick Lamar's cycle in the music industry wearing diamonds and ice all over their body, which are Dr. Dre, Eminem, 50 Cents (always like to wear one diamond chain with the number 50) Snoop Dogg (Do like to wear one chain also), and more, I know being with these people must have influenced him that there's so much to live than wearing ice chains and diamonds all over your neck, hardly you see Eminem and Dr. Dre with big chains, except for the necklace they normally wear.
That doesn't mean there are broke, these people are among the top riches artiste in the music industry but still don't like to spend the money on ice chains and diamonds chains to prove to people that they are rich, like I said before, all these are a matter of choices, not compulsory that everyone should be like them, but I will like to be like them in the future when I make it big, I just like being simple, only time will tell when I prevail.
**Lead image source** https://pixabay.com/images/id-1996511/
26/05/2022
You need more than faith to get it
This evening, I and my friends was chatting about how the the music industry is going, we were talking about how the music streams work and how much music digital stores pay, we went through some of the top platforms that pays artiste per million streams, which some platforms have high pay than others, for example, Tinder is paying 12k$ plus per million streams, and Spotify is paying almost 4k$, and Itunes is paying about 7k$ plus per million streams too, which are a huge amount of money.
The music business can be tricky sometimes and the people that know more about it can pay an artist that doesn't know much about streaming less amount or less, most artists still don't understand how the music streams pay artists, they just believe that the only way one can get paid for his music is when he or she is signed to a record label, but we can't all be signed to a record label, that's why one doesn't always have to wait to be signed before they start making money from their music.
He sent me a picture of two popular artists in my country the first one was holding a reward from boom play for getting 100million streams on the platform, while the other one is holding 200 million streams, all these are ATS all-time streams, that's very huge, they will definitely make a lot of money from it, the label will definitely have their share and at the end of the day, the the artiste will have his percent of it,, cause the artiste can't have everything, unless if he's the owner of the label, which one of them is not.
He now said that with faith, he will be able to get such an amount of streams too
I told him that faith alone can't do it and he needs to work for it too, he laugh, maybe he didn't understand it though, but I believe I have told him countless times that it's not all about faith, he has to do his part too and if he's to go deep into the music business, he might be shocked about what he will find out, not that I know it all, but the few I know, I am grateful for knowing it, at least I will know what to expect.
Some artists believe that the people that have made it is all about faith and the grace of God, don't get me wrong, of course, God did his part, but you will also do your part, let's say for an example, **God gave you a car, will you still wait for God to drive you around?**
Of course not, you will have to learn how to drive it yourself, the music business like I have said is a very tricky one and people can benefit from your sweats if you don't understand how it works, artiste that gives their songs to bloggers to distribute without understanding how royalties works, will just be wasting their money, I believe we all know what royalties mean, but just in case you don't understand what it means, I will just write a brief explanation.
**Royalty in music is the money music artists get for online streaming**
Most artist songs are trending but they are not getting money from it, all because of don't understand how it works, they will pay bloggers to upload the song in the top music platforms , the blogger will do it and still be collecting their royalties, that is the double collection, haha.
Not that I am doubting my friend's faith or belief, but I am saying is that faith can't get him the streams alone, he also has to try to know how the music streams can increase, that's why they are marketers in the music industry, the truth is that there are a lot of jobs in the music industry even if you are not an artist, he will have to know how the markets works, the truth is that him knowing all these is not completely necessary if he can pay someone to do it.
As an independent artist that he is, faith alone can't get what he needs as of now if he doesn't understand more so he won't misuse it, that's why I always try to advise any independent artist to try to know more about the industry so they won't make a mistake they will regret later, cause most of these opportunities might come and if they miss it, they might not see it again, because it's rare.
*I don't know much about how it works, but what I know, I like to share because it will cost me nothing to let them know the danger ahead so they will know how to handle it when it comes. I will try to write about a few of the dangers ahead.*
***Lead image source*** https://pixabay.com/images/id-3611519/
25-05-2022
What do women want?
This doesn't apply to all women, but mostly most of them, and this article isn’t to discriminate anyone, I’m just writing it from fact and personal thoughts and observations, so let’s dive right into it.
What do women want? How can you win a woman hear totally, these questions always pump in a mans heard when they are trying to make a move on a lady they like, either for a relationship or just pleasure, most of them (the guys) first come into their life and act funny (seems women like funny guys) and make a move but didn’t work, while some come in as a friend and end up in the friend zone (the most dangerous zone, might not come out from it, haha)
Some women will say that they like straight forward guys, the one that will tell them the truth to their face and exactly what they have in mind, ones that guy come their way and start saying the truth to them, they will say he doesn’t have any respect at all, like how can you tell a lady to her face that you just want a night with her, can't you say keep it in your mind and not let it out.
I got the inspiration to write this article after coming across a post on Twitter and it got my attention, the post is a screenshot of the guy's conversation with one of his female friends, the guy was on his jejely when she messages him that she will be coming to the island (a place in Lagos where the rich and the middle-class stay) and she will need a place to spend the night, the guy agreed that she should come and also buy suya so they can eat.
After the day, the lady messaged him that he was not serious, the guy was shocked, like what brought this kind of message, she replied that she came to spend the night in his house and they don't even have s3x, the guy replied then reply that she was the one that told him that she's not in the mood, what do you expect me to do, she said he would have forced her, that she liked guys that forced her to do it.
That's when the guy said that he's not like that and when a lady tells him no, he don't forced himself on them that no is no and he doesn't want another to start accusing him of rape.
This also reminds me of another one that someone else posted, he had plans with the girl and they were to meet in the hotel, the girl came and he was fully charged for action, then the girl told him that she just came to let him know that he's going to her aunty house and she can't do it anymore, the guy was disappointed and she walked away.
That same evening she messaged the guy that he was disappointed him that she said she can’t do it and he just let her leave, she said she was expecting the guy to dragged her inside and forced hisself on her that will show how strong he is.
I have come across countless posts of ladies saying that they prefer men who forced themselves on them and don't give up when they tell them, they are not in the mood, this clearly means that they prefer to be raped, cause s3x without the partner agreeing to it is rape and most ladies prefer it, not all though.
I remember sometime in 2020, Rape began to trend on Twitter NG, many ladies started writing how they were raped, both the ones that were raped years back, lawyers were on ground to pick up the case and bring justice to most of the women, even celebrities were showing support against rape and rape victims
Just stated there “Real men don't rape” but you will see another lady says otherwise, not actually clear on what they want, rape is never a good thing, and some other ladies saying that when a man forced himself on a lady, that shows that he's a real man, I think all these things have to stop and these set of women of ladies need to change their ways it won't affect the other ones that don't want it.
***There's this Nollywood movie I watched some years back, a rich and successful has a fiancee who told him that she's a virgin and we want to wait till they get married, he respected that, one day his cousin asked him for help and he went to his house give him what he asked, only for him to see his fiancee half naked in on his bed (it's one room and the cousin didn't even know that the lady is his boyfriend) he took his rings went out.***
***The Man then got three maids to be doing his house chores, that maids were so beautiful, remembering what happened in the past about his fiancee, two of the three maids were seducing him which he gave in and slept with them differently, he waited for the third maid to do the same but she didn't, he now invited her to his room and told her to clean some place, while she was cleaning he was touching her and she told him that she's a virgin want to keep it till she gets married.***
***The man remembering what his fiancee did just felt like it's another test and that's how all the ladies do to see if the man is actually interested, he forced himself on her and realized she was actually telling the truth and he regretted why didn't he even listen, to cut the story short, he married the lady at the end of the film.***
**Conclusion**
No man wants to be a fool for the second time that some girls end up being raped cause they might think the girl wanted him to push a bit harder but only to realize that she didn't mean that, all because some other ladies are busy saying that when a woman tells you she's not interested, it means you should try harder.
**Lead image source** https://pixabay.com/images/id-1542339/
25-05-2022
Money and power don't change people and here's why.
I believe we all have come across this statement “***we use to be very close but ever since he made money, he has changed a lot and he hardly vibes with us again***”
The only thing constant is change, we all have that one person that we use to be close with but later on the energy between us starts falling away, that's nothing new anyway, people do change for real and I can tell you that money or power don't change anybody, I have my facts, which I am going to write below but before then, let me write what came about the topic, at least every tree has a root, they don't just build a house from top to bottom, they build it from the bottom which is the foundation to the top.
A few days ago while I was active in one of the Whatsapp groups am in, one of the admins solved a case, and the way he did it was like a trained detective, everyone was amazing, then I complimented him that he should be working as a detective in the security agencies so he can solve a lot of cases, another member replied my message and said that he will change when he gets there, that's when I said, money and power don't change people, another member asked me to explain how money and power don't change people, what now change them, I did a bit explanation, which I can remember, but I'm going to write it now.
When we hear the word money, we often think about a lot of things we can do with it, Like buying a new phone, wearing designer clothes, eating a well-prepared meal, and staying in a more comfortable house than the one we are living in now, some of us have already planned the country we want to tour and the places we want to visit there, like for me, I will like to go skydiving and enjoy the moments of falling from the sky with a parachute, I will be able to see a lot of places from the top view.
All these I mentioned and some that I didn't mention are all on our to-do list when we get that huge amount of money that we need to live a comfortable life, that's why we grind every day, in and outside the internet so we can have money to enjoy all the enjoyments that we kept aside, every day we grind on read cash and also engage in the outside world, being friendly to everyone and spending time with different people that we met because we are still grinding for the money we need.
Let's say, God's favor hit you now and you got a million dollars in your crypto wallet, I mean BCH wallet, what will be the first thing you will do? Will, you still be active on read cash or you will be busy doing what you wrote on your bucket list, like traveling and doing what you always wanted to do, I bet that's what you will do.
The people that you use to seat with and talk about anything back then, you won't even remember them at the moment because you will want to take care of your own first before doing for others, I mean, that's the main purpose of us grinding right? Cause we don't want to rely on others so we grind and take care of our needs first before others, trust me, it's not selflessness or being stingy, it's what is necessary, cause at the end of the day, we only got ourselves, only we know what we go through behind the closed doors.
Some people will start might start saying that ever since we make money, we change, we no longer have time their time, we are just acting busy because we see them as low class, which is not actually true, money does bring opportunities and also take away time, before I continue, I just want to ask this simple question,
**Will you rather be chilling in Miami Beach and from there to a presidential suite hotel or You just want to be with friends talking about things like that won't give you money?**
I guess you already answer the question, cause there are a millionaire things you can be doing now, but you choose to grind in read cash.
Money gives us the freedom to think far and wide and also provides the material things needed to get it, money also gives us control over some certain things in ourselves like handling the wheel to go anywhere moneyly possible, being broke limit us and make us believe that some people change because they make money.
Though some people do show bad attitudes after making money and all I can say is that they have the attitudes in them all along, they were just acting like they don't have it because they were broke, but when the money came, they start showing their true color and you will realize that you never actually knew the person, he was just wearing a mask this while.
A few days ago @Bisolammy wrote an **article** about her mother's neighbor that was acting friendly when she first moved into the place, but all of a sudden she became troublesome, and everyone was avoiding her, that's how some people are, they are just acting loyally because they are broke and money don't change anyone, they have the intention in them all along, either good or bad intentions, they are just waiting to make the money so they can bring out their true selves. https://read.cash/@Bisolammy/the-troublesome-woman-c290fd55
**The same applies to power too, they might act like a good leader and say what the people want to hear like some pastors, but deep down, they already know what they want to do once they win election and enter power.**
That's it for today, lovely people of read cash, do have a wonderful night/morning/afternoon.
*Lead image source* https://pixabay.com/images/id-2180330/
23-05-2022
Craziest things we did in our high school
First, I will like to wish you guys a blessed Sunday, though the Sunday is already over, the blessings can also push to Monday, cause blessings don't have to expire date, today I will just head straight to the article of the day.
Back then in high school, we all did some crazy things we aren't proud of but anytime we remember it, we burst into laughter and then start asking ourselves if we were that stupid in the past, haha, well, it is what it is, so tighten your seatbelt cause I will be taking you back to when I was in high school (junior secondary) and most of the crazy things we did it back, but before then, I will like to write about what inspired the article.
This afternoon, I posted a video I saw on Facebook and it was so funny and so sad at the same time cause a guy was hurt, though it was his fault and too much of movies though,
This guy on white was just showing his kung-fu skill on the other guy as seen then this happened when he wanted to give him the ultimate kick, this will surely damage his body bones and if he's lucky, he might end up in a comma or perhaps a wheelchair, cause and he fell halfway in the gutter, that's if he survives it though.
Away from that, one of my contact on Whatsapp reacted to the video and share her experience of her also doing kung-fu when she was young, after watching Bruce Lee and how his a skill, she and her siblings started doing practicing it and that was how she fell and got a big injury, her father that always warmed her against playing like that, heard about it and also give a tip of the iceberg (beat her) haha.
That's what African parents do sometimes when they warm the child against something and the child does it and got injured, instead of them to allow the child to cry and learn his or her lesson, they will add additional lessons by beating the child for not obeying them, haha, she sent me a photo of the scar which is still in her arms as a symbol of disobedience, lol, she said she stopped playing kung-fu and started playing Xena, haha, that's one thing about being young, we will never learn to stop, instead we will do it in another way.
So I told her about the mine and what I and my friends did in high school back then, it is always after school hours time, its a public school, and we all know how public school is here, Jet Li was our favorite Chinese actor then and we will be playing it in empty class room, a few people will be in school by the time we start playing it.
Just like Jet Li, we were running on the tables another that falls will have to be the one that will pursue the rest of us, we were doing it always until one fateful day, it’s still feels like yesterday to me, when we were just running, as usual, the next thing we heard was a big fall, we quickly turned and saw one of us was on the floor at first were afraid like hope he's not what we think, then after we raise him and everything was back to normal, we started laughing.
I began to think like what if something bad had happened to him as he fell like we all know how school properties (chair and desk or perhaps table) it's half destroyed and nails will be out, very dangerous but we didn't think of that, not until the incident, that's when we reasoned it and stopped that acting like Jet Li, they went home after the incident happened and thank God for the guy that fell only sustain few injuries which he's going to lie about the cause of it. Lol.
The next day we continued another rough play and this time, we are no longer running toon top of the desk, we were now playing with caution, like splitting into two grows and using a stone at each other, they did it for a few days and no one got hurt because we were also good in making our opponents miss the target, at least were fine with it until another fateful day.
While we were playing it for fun and making sure we don't hit our opponents, that was one when one of us threw the stone and it went and hit the other guy, who I call My Main man, the stone went for the face and he then held his eyes, all of us quickly to him and saw blood in his hands, the one that threw stone started was praying that hope it's not his one of his eyes two, when it removes his hand from his eyes, we saw that it was his eyebrows that the stone hit.
When we saw that it was the eyebrow, he went to the scientist for a plaster to cover it, the next we started making fun of him and how he would have ended up being Nicki fury in the avenger or Odin the father of thor, haha, but now, it has made you subzero, lol, at least the injury is good now but the scar is still there.
You can see that the scar is still there and it looks like a birthmark, haha, we are grateful for everything though
That's it for today guys, I might write another episode in the future. Take care
**Lead image sources** https://pixabay.com/images/id-2456159/
22-05-2022
Why do people easily believe false prophet?
Happy Saturday readers how did your day go? I would like to know if you don't mind at all. It's been a long day and I feel like some effort isn't worth it when we know the true solution to it, why still trying to do it the same way that we do it, that's when I realize that we might know the solution but it's not always in our power to do it, the person in charge should be the ones that do or he should permit us to do it, in case you were wondering what I am talking about, it's the bathroom, haha.
Today I will be writing about why people believe false news or perhaps false prophets, I believe that is the title. In Africa and most especially Nigeria, the churches that we have here are x10 more than factories that can provide jobs, you will see a church will buy a huge land that was owned by some industry before, they will demolish the industry and build a very big church in it and people will come and be praying for jobs.
Africa has so many pastors and inside many fake pastors are posing as real because they will make you believe that they are among the true pastors, though some of these pastors do evil things behind and when they are caught, the members that have been soaked and brainwash by the pastor will come out and be backing the pastor up, some will even go to the extent of insulting others that call their pastor false, yes I said it, religion is indeed the worst virus that has affected Africa.
I know must be wondering how these fake pastors usually get members, well it's very simple, I said simple and not easy, you just have to play your cards right and not let yourself screw it up because once it happened, well, it is what it is, without taking much of your time, let's dive right into it.
False prophets usually catch members with fake visions, for example, they will tell you about yourself, the place you were born, and how you grow up, this one is hard to resist cause you will be so convinced that your only option will be to believe the false pastor, recently @Danika wrote an ***article*** about how a friend that his mom trusted and tells everything about in their place of work turned against her and told the retired boss that his mother is a bad person that always gossips with her with others. https://read.cash/@Danika/jealousy-at-my-moms-place-00762ae6
You won't blame the retired boss because the lady must have told her some things that only his mom and the retired boss know and that will make her believe, that's how they say the false vision too, they will tell you something that only you and just a person know about and the person is not even in the state as you again, they will tell you the kind of food you like eating, how you like your coffee, the routine you normally and so on.
There was something I heard about a popular pastor in my country some time ago and the person that said it, know him very well because he's into ministry too, let me use the name Adam as the pastor name, according to the man, the pastor was invited for a program at a big church in one of the state, so they lodged in the hotel for his staying till the end of the program.
The first day, of the program, went well, there were prophecies and you will see the mover of God around, the pastor that came to preach can see the vision and he saw a lot of vision to some people, the church was so blessed, so the next day the organized visited the pastor in his hotel room, I don't know if he badges in or knot.
When they got into his hotel room, they opened the door and saw papers of people names of people and the organizers was surprised when they saw the papers with people's names and details about them, according to the man, the pastor will send someone to start asking the members some questions about their selves with code (without suspicion).
Though people do fall for the false visions, the women are the ones who usually fall victim to them, ones they hear about prophecy and vision of what happened some years back, automatically they will believe the pastor and say that indeed he was sent from God, there's nothing you will tell the women that will make them believe the pastor is fake, they will be convincing you to join the ministry of the pastor.
I would have like to write more, but unfortunately, I will need to end it here and hope to continue it sometime in the future, cause I don't want to write 24 minutes read, haha.
**Lead image source** https://pixabay.com/images/id-6110175/
21/05/2022
He denied his wife and the newborn baby after this happened.
TGiF and I hope you had a wonderful day and the the weather didn't spoil your activity of the day, Mine was kind of slow and I felt like someone was playing with the time, like I was just waiting for 6pm to reach so I can go home and take a nice bath cause I was sweating, it was decreasing my beauty and my chances of saying hello to my new neighbor, maybe another time.
Just this evening I came across a post that got my attention, it has been happening for a long and a lot of people are not yet aware of it, though there's a new upgrade to it now and you won't even notice it in someone cause you will think they are being caring to the wife, without taking much of your time.
*A Twitter user who goes by the username name “****drpenking****” tweeted what happened in his place of work and this is it.*
*Obstetrician saw a waist bead on the waist of a patient on OP table for CS and ask health attendant to cut it, the husband eyes became clear and he left her and the newborn baby in the hospital and said that he hasn't gotten married in his life, unfortunately, the waist bead was kayamanta (what women can use to control a man they like)*
This might sound really funny, a lot of men are still under the influence of Kayamanta, guess what? The people that sell this evil waist bead don't hide, they have registered the business with the government, so they are free to operate and most of them have thousands of followers, bloggers and some certain social media influencers do promote them in their page and they will pay the person some certain amount of money as bargain.
Like I said before, it not new anymore, like it has been happening before and this one is just an upgrade, back then some women will lock their husband or the man they want to marry in a bottle so the person will always love them and nobody else, the man will be controlled by the wife anything the wife says, that is what the man will do, even if she told her to slap the mother, he will do it because he’s under the influence of black magic that he knows nothing about.
***Some years back, my pastor wife told us a story while she was leading prayers, the story was about a young lady that has no mother or father, she manages to get through life herself and the help that God sends through people, she had a best friend that she tells everything and she also have a fiance that love her very much, he's from a rich family, though the lady don’t depend on his money that much because she has her business, but the man still buys her gifts which she can’t refuse.***
***She will be telling her best friend how lovely her fiancé is and she will tell her that she’s happy for her that she has finally seen the one and she’s happy for her, this lady also knows the best friend mother and took her as her own mother because she don’t have any, something happen one faithful day, this lady had an appointment in the UK and she has to go attend to it the same week that is her fiancé birthday, the fiancé took her to the airport, the best friend was with them, he kissed her goodbye and hope to see her soon, the lady told her best friend to help keep eye on her fiancé (she’s doesn’t mean the best friend should watch if he’s going to cheat on her because she trust her fiancé can’t do that) she only told her to be bring him food cause she doesn’t want him to always buy food outside, the best friend said okay.***
***She was doing it, the lady will always call the fiancé on video call to ask how he’s doing and they will chat at least twice a day, it was his birthday, the lady told her best friend to baked cake and she told her the flour that her fiance liked, after the birthday, the fiance stopped picking up her calls and the best friend also was ignoring her, they just believe that maybe something is up or maybe they want to surprise her when she gets back when she got back, she realizes that the fiance didn't come to pick her from the airport, she became suspicious, then she held straight to his house and that was where the surprise happened.***
***When she entered the house, she saw her best friend head on his fiance's lap they were just playing love, then the mother of the best friend came of the kitchen and called the man, my in law, that's she realized that she trusted the wrong person, during the time of her being away the best friend bringing food for the finance, the best friend added some substances to it that made him forget the lady and to love her instead, she regretted it but what has happened has happened.***
So many women has lost their husbands to these kayamanta ladies and some young girls have already lock their boyfriend with it, they might be act normal like they are haven't been blinded by the charm, but deep down, only the people that did it know, the men will not remember a thing once the joke is broken.
Imagine waking up and realizing from the influence of kayamanta and you realized that 5 years of your time are gone without your knowledge, that's a hard pill to swallow, stay safe out there guys.
Lead image source https://pixabay.com/images/id-909049/
20-05-2022
This will make you change your mentality forever.
Finally, the day after midweek is almost over and here I am again on your phone screen, what an honor indeed, I hope you had a stress-less and a productive day, mine was filled with lessons, which I might still, repeat again, haha.
To my topic of the day, as boldly written above with a pen of knowledge got the Bible, the Bible is indeed a book of knowledge and people just read it for reading sake and don't understand certain things written, the Bible contains so many secrets and how the world works, the past the present and the future, like everything we do, done, or think about doing has already been done by someone and there's nothing new under the sun, that means we are just remixing what has been done in the past by our ancestors, now to the topic.
I was planning to write on this yesterday but I reserved it for today cause a fresh topic came up yesterday, a lot of us must have come across some articles about entitlement that some members of read.cash feels, @Tomi-Ajax wrote about it in his recent ***article*** and used a certain chapter in the Bible, which is different from mine, we got the same idea but from different perspectives. https://read.cash/@Tomi-Ajax/entitlement-mentality-6a6d8471
**I write the name and chapter in the Bible that you can find the story at the end of the the article, on this one I will use the internet to write it. let's begin.**
*There's this rich man in the community, he's name his* @MarcDeMesel *has a big project (BCH adoption) at hand that he need to handle, but he doesn't have workers to handle do the job, so he went into the community and saw some group of people standing idle, he approached them to ask them why are they standing idle, they said that they door have to work to do that's why they are all here, he told them that he needed workers for his project and he's ready to pay them 1000$ for the 8hours after the work, they were all happy and they followed him, in the noon, this rich man realized that he needed, he back to the community and saw another set of people, he approached them asked why they were seating doing nothing, they said is because they don’t have job to do, he asked them if they can work for him for 5hours and he will pay them 1000$, they all were happy and followed him.*
*The workers were still working, he looked and said to himself that he needed more works so the job can be done as quick as possible, he went back into the city and saw another group of people doing nothing, he approached them ask why are you people doing nothing, they said is because no one is ready to employ, he asked them if they can work for him for 1hour and he will pay them 1000$, they said yes and were happy, they followed him and joined the rest of the workers, finally, they were done with the project and it was time for payment.*
*The rich man called his assistant* @TheRandomRewarder *to give the workers their pay for the day, he told the assistant to start from the people that came last, the assistant gave them the 1000$ each as promised and they were going home happy when the workers that came first asked how much were them given, they said it was 1000$, the workers that came first started saying to themselves that if these people that worked for few hours are given 1000$, that means they started it will receive more than that, they were just rejoicing and some called their friends to order anything in their care that they will pay when they get home.*
*When it was their turn to receive their pay for the day, the assistant gave them 1000$ as he as given to other works, they were surprised and one of them said that why would you give us the same amount you gave to those that came after us, the rich saw them and went to meet them, they complained to the rich man that the assistant gave them the same amount he gave those workers that came after them.*
*The rich man asked them, how much did I tell you, people, I will pay for the day, how much did I give you, I fulfilled my promise to you as said, why do you people feel entitled to what aren't yours, why must you think that because you came first and did most of the work, your money should be more than the rest that came last, The last shall become first and the first shall become last. Matthew 20:1-16*
When we got here, I believe we planned to be earning 1$ worth of BCH per day and as time goes, we started earning more, but once the earnings dropped some will start complaining and saying all kinds of things that tbs the bot has favoritism and they have better content than the ones that are getting more tip than them, some will even make attack others for trying to tell them that they are being entitled to what isn't theirs.
We all read the welcome article and agreed on what was written, why the sudden entitled my you paid before you start writing here or the site is using your article somewhere else, there is so much to live on and feel entitled to everything that is given to you free will ruin you for real. **This is what usually happens when you tell a visitor to feel at home and some usually start feeling entitled to everything like they own the place and they won't make you have peace in your home again.**
I have so much to write about this but I will end it here, thanks for yet another joyful ride and God bless the mother earth.
**Lead image source** https://pixabay.com/images/id-7099540/
19-05-2022
Who now owns the baby?
Midweek and all of a sudden I felt weak, maybe it was because of the all night rehearsal I went to last night and I haven’t had a long sleep since last night, going to be hard to fall asleep though, especially when one is not in the mood, the rain that fell today was something else and the wind was like that of an angry lady, haha, the reason I use lady is because ladies would use man if as an example too, lol. Well, let’s get right to the topic.
Why do some ladies sleep with multiple without protection and at the end of the day, if they become pregnant, they will just look for one of the men that they slept well and put the pregnancy in the person’s head, even if he isn’t the biological father of the child, she will say he’s the one because she don’t know which of the men got her pregnant, I have came across some people that faced such a situation and some of them won’t accept the pregnancy because they know how the lady is that she doesn’t seat one place, therefore they will require a DNA test to make sure they won’t accommodate someone’s child in their home.
Some of these ladies won't learnt their lessons even after giving birth to the first child and no of the men will accept it the parents that love their daughter will now take responsibility for the child and they will think that the lady has learned her lesson, only for her to go out again and come back with another pregnancy and the worst part is that she won't know who got her pregnant again.
There was a story my mother told me some time back, I guess what made her tell me the story was because of a movie we watched and it was similar to the story she told me, after watching the drama, I told her that such a thing can't happen in the real world that is only in the movies so they can put fear other people mind about it, that's when she told me about the story of a man in her village back then when she was a teen.
There was this lecturer who loved this school girl, the lecturer is not a member of the community, he was transferred to the community to teach, both of them started having an affair and from there the girl got pregnant, and the family of the girl drove her from the house to the man house that he should come and pay the bride price for her, the lady began to stay with the lecturer, the lecturer no longer think about his self any more, he now thinks about both the lady and the unborn child, months past and the lady's stomach was progressing, when it was time for her to give birth, she went into the labor room and the doctors were doing what they know how to do best, the lecturer has already spent a lot of money throughout the months the lady was staying with him.
When he heard the wife was in labor, he rushed to the market and bought some baby things, though he didn't know the gender of the child yet, he just bought unisex clothes for the baby, the lady was in the labor room and the doctors were doing their best but the baby refuse to come out, the doctors haven't seen anything like this before like the baby is not supposed to even stress them before coming out, some were saying that the doctor should use operation but the doctor saw it like a waste of time he knows that what is holding the baby is not operation though, a day past and the family were still worried because she's still in labor for over 24 hours.
The doctor now suggested that they should co spiritual which they all disapproved at first but the lady and the baby's life were at stake here, so they decide to do it, when the native doctor arrive the hospital, he told the man to call the child and if the child belong to him, the baby will come out, the call and call and call, he didn’t want to stop calling cause he was convince that the baby is his.
That’s when the ask the girl if she has another lover outside she said yes and they called him that he’s child and the lady life is at stake and so first was like what baby cause the lady didn’t tell her that she was pregnant, he rushed down to the hospital and the native doctor told him to call the name of the baby, immediately he mentioned the name of the baby, the baby started coming out, the doctor quickly went and support her while the baby was coming out.
The lecturer just so dump founded, he never knew that the the lady would do such a thing to her, he walked for hours as he was thinking about all the time and money he spent on the lady while she was pregnant.
Some of these ladies always look for a man with money so they can leave the life of a queen, the men might not bother to find out about the child.
We need to be very careful and not fall into their trap, cause some will do everything possible and others. **Always use protection to avoid producing baby's when you are not ready. It**
Big thanks for @Kendy42 for the sponsorship.
*Lead image source* https://pixabay.com/images/id-6189040/
18-05-2024
Propaganda
A false news
The media is a very dangerous place and there's a lot of false news being spread on a daily, people that don't know much about the propaganda the media present on their screens do believe everything that comes from the media, a lot of people have been misled by what the media brings, and for this, they will think that the country is okay, but not know that the country is actually on fire.
Thank God for the internet, though the Internet has done more harm than good, still, it has opened our eyes and ears to see and hear what is happening around the world, the government can't control what the people see or hear anymore with their propaganda they show on the tv news.
A few months back, they were an attack on the railway in one of the states in my country, some group of bandit went bomb the railway and the train that was coming had a clash there, the bandits attacked the train and started shooting, some people recorded it and posted it online to alert others of what is happening to them that they need help because they have been attacked by bandits (terrorist) after much of gunfire, some passengers were hit by the bullets, some sustain injuries, while some couldn't make it because the bullet went very deep, the news was all over Twitter NG that night and people couldn't sleep because they want to know if those that were attacked are safe.
After that day, popular tv news broadcast to their viewers that the army has saved those passengers that were attacked by bandits and none of them died, some people begin to praise the army for saving all the passengers on the train, they don't know that it was false news and the photos of some people that died in the attack have been circulated Twitter NG, the family of the victims that died will be in deeper pain because of the false news that was spread to people that watching tv.
Another one is the recent article I wrote some days back about the girl that was murdered in her school by some group of people, this same tv station changed what actually happened to the girl and they said that the girl died while they were protesting because of the current ASUU strike (University teachers strike) that is happening right now.
Since when did a college of education become a part of ASUU? These people can discredit any news and manipulate it to the public that this is what actually happened, if not that the so-called murderers recorded the video and posted it their selves, we would have thought that it was because of the ASUU, those people destroy countless properties and the army was nowhere to be found, they didn't make any arrest or whatsoever.
After breaking the news to the public that the girl died while protesting, when they realize that the public didn't buy it because they all have already watched the video of what actually happened, they now went and apologize that it was a false news that the host or perhaps the broadcasters of the news thought it was because the of the ASUU strike and they didn't bother to confirm it before breaking it to the public.
How will a broadcast just start reading news that he or she is not sure of when she knows that more than a million people are watching it live, that I don't get, if it was a blogger that wrote it, I won’t say much because a lot of bloggers like carrying fake news as long as they have a lot of engagements in it, but for a tv staton to carry it and say that they made a mistake about the news is not true and I can’t buy that, this isn’t the first time they start sharing false news, it’s just that they were caught this time and they have to apology so they won’t lose a lot of viewers.
Concerning the ASUU strike, the government still hasn’t granted their needs and it pains me that the country is drowning, the people power don’t want students to graduate, they are just playing with the country's Education, a lot of students has been searching for ways to study abroad, and the fortunate ones he's gained admission to study abroad. One of the students that got admission to Finland university wrote that even though she has started from year one again in this new university, it will be worth it because Nigeria education is F-up and the rich people send their students to study abroad while the none rich one will have to face the consequences of studying in Nigeria university.
The students of Nigeria universities took to the streets and started protesting for the strike to end, they started it a few days back the turn up by students around the state was huge, only for the army to show up the protection one of the states and destroy their properties, they destroy a lot of things of the students and they started shooting so the students will run, which they did because no one will ready to die and if anyone had died, they would have covered it up with their false news.
There was an explosion this morning in a basic education school and I am sure that not everyone will hear about it, some school children lost their lives to the explosion and also some adults too, according to the police, they said it was caused by gas, probably a cooking gas that they were using in the school, but some people said otherwise and come to think of it, I have seen a gas explosion that destroyed an entire building, like the whole building break down like it was demolished.
One of the students that survived the explosion with some bruises on her neck, said that they were in the glass when someone throw a bomb into the building and they didn't know what it was until it exploded and break down the building, this makes more sense than the one the police said, maybe a large content of gas can destroy the walls of a building but how can a cooking gas do such heavy damage, that's a question that they need to ask themselves before concluding it was a gas that fills the whole building, maybe they don't want the public to be afraid and start pointing fingers because of what happened some days ago, but still the public needs to be aware so they can be security conscious about their environments.
**Lead image source** https://pixabay.com/images/id-4881488/
18-05-2022
Strong people lift others up
“**I don't trust anyone who's nice to me but rude to the waiter, because they would treat me the same way if I were in that position.” - Mohammed Ali**
This a quote by Mohammed Ali got me thinking, I guess we all know who Mohammad Ali is, well for some of us that don't know much about him, he was one of the greatest boxers back in the 80s, he barely lose a fight and people were afraid to fight him because he always messes up his opponents and shows prove them wrong, except for the fortunate ones that manage to defeat him some time, but not all of them accept a rematch and the ones that do, well, to God be the glory, haha.
He's not the reason for my topic today, but I just feel like giving him the honor to open today's topic, as a legend, he deserves, my dream is to be a legend too, but not in boxing though, I can barely accept one punch, not to talk about multiple punches on the face, haha, I want to be a legend in music, in the entertainment industry, and let people remember me for good things and the impact that I will make before transferring to heaven, I want to create a name, not just a name, a legacy that my offspring will also be reaping the benefits to the next 10 generations, I might just be saying or perhaps tying it now, but it usually starts with a dream, then the work will follow, which is the road to success, the path isn't paved with good, we choose our paths and there are some certain choices we do make that other can't, it's called sacrifice, not everyone can do that.
In the life we live now, everyone has what they are struggling with, some have a major while some have a minor, either day, we still have our demons to fight, some people like to step on others, and they feel like stepping on others will make them strong, what they don't know is that is easier to destroy than build, strong people build and not destroy, the weak ones are the ones that do destroy others reputations, careers, jobs, relationship, family and etc.
These so-called people know their limit, they know who to step on and who not to dare step on, just as in the above quote, they will respect the rich and disrespect the poor for not being rich, when they notice you have more than them, they will start befriending you, they will be sending you gifts like the both of you are best friends, but when they realize they have more than you, that's when their attitude towards change, a person that use to be available for you even when you call him or she at 3 am, they will respond, it's now playing busy because they notice you don't have money than them.
Some will be acting superior over the young ones in the feed, they are usually the ones that want to know your level first, so they can choose how they will be treating you, if you are more superior than them, they will want to be close to you, while if they are more superior than you, they will step on you and always be reminding you that both of you are not in the same level.
Let’s take high school for example, for some of us that attended public schools, though it does happen in private school too, let me write this from what I experienced in high school, every government school has like three or more cult groups and they also seat at the dangerous side of the school, like an abandoned class that is covered by grass in school or a class that has no roof over it.
Those groups always look for other students to oppress but before they oppress them, they will ask the victim some sensitive questions like if he or she is backup by other cult groups and if the person is, they will ask for more details and if he or she proves to be backup by another cult group, they will let the person go, but if the person is not, they will rob the person and tell him or her that they shouldn't say a word to anyone about it or they will come for him or her and they always mean what they say when it comes to threatening an innocent soul that is studying for good grades.
Let's put outside the oppressor side and talk about how some people do look down on others because they are new to the place, they don't like to let others grow and make mistakes and grow from them, they will just count every mistake the person made, and instead of them just correcting the person, they will use the energy to talk down the person for not being able to do things.
The strong people raise others up and don't talk to them now, a strong person will not only tell you your mistakes but he or she will also tell you ways to fix it and not make the same mistake again because they have been there and done that, they become a mentor to the younger ones and set their road straight, they tell the younger ones that it is okay to make mistakes, we are all humans and no one is perfect, they will give the younger ones time to grow and know, instead of telling them that they can't do it, they will tell them that they can do it and all they have to do is practice more or perhaps learn more.
Be a builder and not a destroyer.
**Lead image source** https://pixabay.com/images/id-1807524/
16-05-2022
God gave him a second chance
***Firstly, I will like to say a happy Sunday to everyone and hope you had a wonderful Sunday.***
Do you believe in second chances, we all know that as humans, we do make mistakes and we don't usually realize our mistakes until it becomes too late for us, though most people sometimes get seconds chances in life when some don't, that shows that all fingers can't be equal and some people are more privilege than others.
Some years back, a homeless man become famous round social media because he made people laugh with his unique way of spelling words, he was a physical challenge man and I think he has mental health issues, he was just on the street one day and some group of young men recorded him as he was told to spell the name the president of Nigeria when the people saw the engagements the video brought to them, they decided to take him in.
They became his manager and his name became Mr. Spellz because of how he spells, he became a very popular person online and the people that was managing him must have been gaining much from him then, because they also accommodated him, he became an ambassador of some brands and was going for interviews, which also made him be more famous.
Something happened and he just disappeared, people started getting worried like where is Mr spellz, months past and no one heard from him from a very long time, like it was like everyone just forgot about him, so sad that we humans are usually like that, everyone just moved on like he no longer existed.
A few months back, someone spotted him and he was back to the trenches (back to being poor) the person recorded him and posted him online that Mr spellz is back on the street, he was struggling and homeless again, begging people to help him and they all were just walking past him, because they see no value in him again, when he was famous, these same people were rushing to get his autograph, but now that they see him struggling again with rough clothes, they were just ignoring.
I guess the people that was managing him throw him out because they feel like they no long need him again and they must've made a lot of money off him with the ambassador deals which he Signed when he was famous, maybe they were more to it though, I don't really know what happened and I am just writing based on personal thoughts about what must have happened.
The Good news is that after the video of him back in the trenches went viral, a good Samaritan became interested in getting him up to his fit again and I guess most of us must have read about him in two of my **articles**, yeah that's right, the same pastor that helped two security guards that were sacked for dancing while on duty, the same pastor looked for Mr spells and he finally found him, according to one of Nigeria biggest bloggers, this was what he wrote about it. https://read.cash/@Cogamedia/a-good-turnaround-b132ec60
***THE LIFE OF MR SPELLZ IS NOW TOTALLY TRANSFORMED BY GOD THROUGH APOSTLE CHIBUZOR CHINYERE OF OPM***
***Just two days ago, Apostle Chibuzor Gift Chinyere put out word on all social media platforms in search of Mr Spellz who once trended on social for his unique way of spelling words. This was after the man of God had seen a very pitiable video of Mr Spellz begging for alms beside Abia Mall in Aba.***
***Amazingly, he was found, all glory to God Almighty.***
***Yesterday, 13th May 2022, he arrived at the residence of Apostle Chibuzor Gift Chinyere, the general overseer of Omega Power Ministries. The man of God welcomed him wholeheartedly and was very hospitable towards him not minding his current state.***
***Apostle Chibuzor took Mr Spellz shopping at Everyday Supermarket to get him new clothes and other items he would need for his personal upkeep.***
***The man of God didn't stop there, he also took him to one of the OPM free estate well-furnished apartment with television, fridge, gas cooker, etc.***
***God don bless Mr. Spellz heavily.***
He has been given a second chance in life again, what happened in the past has past and now life just got better for him, indeed when God want to change the story of a man, he’s doesn’t look the odd the person has, the favor of God can make the impossible possible, who would have thought that he will be off the street again.
No one would have believed that the the grace of God will uplift him from the street to a well furnished apartment with good food, clothes and ride in a Rolls Royce car, this shows that God is still alive and he’s doing the unthinkable.
What God can not do, does not exist.
**Lead image source** https://pixabay.com/images/id-3385168/
15-05-2022
Better we breakup
**Living together is toxic to us**
I believe most of us have read the previous article I wrote about the lady that was murdered by a crowd who believes that death is the judgment for anyone who blasphemy their prophet S.A.W, how it went down, I didn't intend to write on this but just this afternoon as I log in my Twitter account. I checked out what was trending and as expected, I saw that the same people that murdered the girl were trending, I opened it and I saw pictures and videos of people from the north (Sokoto state) protesting that the authorities should release their brothers that were arrested concerning the death of the innocent girl.
They where so many of them and they all hit the streets with a paper signs and was protesting that their brothers should be released and its an injustice to arrest them, they were only following the law of what they were thought, the police were telling them to go away and that they won't release the people, that is when they now enter the street and starts destroying the none Muslim properties, people that said they are doing peaceful protest. Videos were coming on the internet as they were also videoing what they were destroying.
They left the police station and went to the Catholic Church that was in clothes to them and started destroying the church properties, both old and young, children that were supposed to be in school and studying to become better tomorrow were among the crowd that was destroying things, they said that they don't blasphemy other people religion, destroying church properties isn't part of blaspheming? They destroyed goods worth millions and some of them started going house to house to beat people that were none Muslim in the state, they were carrying out all this barbarism in daylight and the government is not doing anything about it, if it was in the east or south that this thing is happening, we would have seen battalions of soldiers fully armed to shoot and kill people, but because top politicians of Nigeria are Muslims, they were just watching.
**Someone wrote that the best thing for this country is to split the country and let the north go their ways.**
So many people were tweeting about what should be done for all these to end because it has been going on for so long and no Muslims are being killed in the north.
A pastor narrated a story that he encountered when he was staying in the north, he said a woman called the people that use to carry recycle bin, so they can carry her own away, as they were packing the bin, they saw a Quran inside the bin, and immediately they alert the others and accuse the woman of blasphemy of wanting to throw away the Quran, they said that they must put her to death and the police try saving her and putting her on their custody, but the people weren't satisfied, not until she is dead, the family managed to sneak her out of the state overnight, but in the morning, they see the peace rejoicing as they hang the woman head on a stick.
Truly, leaving Nigeria is was not easy, cause we might just wake up one day and hear that the country is on fire, staying in the northern part of the country is like a time bomb that is waiting to explode and any tiny movement will just make it go boom.
Insecurity has been a big problem in the north for years now and not a day goes by that we don't hear that more than 20 people were killed by bandits or Boko haram terrorists, the formal President was trying to accomplish peace in the north while he was in the office, though he was from the south, but be placed his focus on the north because he believes that it can bring peace to the north, Nigeria will get better, he built schools for the children to study there because the illiteracy in the northern part of the country is too much and hardly you see any educated person from North, except the big men children, he did a lot of things in the north but still they voted him out.
As seen in the tweet, these people don't want peace and as I have mentioned before, if this had happened in the east or south, the streets would have been flooded with blood killing innocent people, just a few months back, bandits attacked the airport in the north and took over it, before then, they also attacked the headquarter of a security agency which is also located in the north and they took over it, the President sent battalions of soldiers to the east and not the north that is turning into a state of emergency, they sent them to the east and they started killing people innocent people that were believed to be Biafra.
The IPOB or popularly known as Biafra are people from the east that believed that the name Nigeria is a curse and the unity we think we have is fake, they believe that splitting the country will be the best and the east will go by the name Biafra, the leader of the people were kidnapped from another country and brought to Nigeria, since he has been awaiting justice, these government people shifted the face of the security agency to the place that doesn't need much security.
The one that pained me pass is a presidential candidate that condemned the killing of the young lady, after tweeting that the perpetrators should be arrested, some Muslim people commented that he has just lost millions of votes from the north, he then deleted the tweets and wrote another one that he was informed that a tweet was posted without his knowledge and he's sorry for it, I was so disappointed in him, shouldn't have tweeted it if he was only going to lie that he wasn't aware of the tweet, my respect for him is gone already.
I do have many screenshots and I will just drop some below in case you want to know more because I feel the article is getting too long.
**This last tweet does sound funny but its the painful truth.**
Ps: I don't discriminate against any religion but if splitting the country will bring peace, let us split it cause we can't continue to die in silence of unity when we never united.
**Lead image source** https://pixabay.com/images/id-1965678/
15-05-2022
Don't be judgemental
**Never be quick to judge others**
My Friday was kind of fast and I woke up not quite early, I was just looking at my the time and sleep will take me again, that was how I went late for work, haha, I never wanted to go because I feel like time is already gone but on second thought, I have to finish what I started yesterday and I quickly went, and thank God my boss didn't come early as, before me, I quick arrange the necessary things like I didn't come late.
Today, I will be writing about “Never be quick to judge others” in a world like this, everyone does struggle with one or two things, depending on how life hit them, even the rich people do have their struggles too but not as hard as the none rich people though, either ways, everyone is fighting their demons, sometimes I wonder why some people just be angry at others for not checking on them as if is their job too, both of them have phones and it's not the duty of one to check on the other one if your friend doesn't check on you and you miss them, you should check on your friend because that's what friendship is all about.
That's why I don't blame others for not messaging me when am at my lowest sometimes I just believe that everyone has their struggles and maybe they are fighting their demons at the same time as mine, so I just keep my calm and use memes to hold body sometimes, or I start writing songs on how I feel and how life is doing me at this end, I have some people cutting others off for not checking on them and they won't even bother to ask the person what happen and how they have been doing in the last few days, they will just call them fake friends and cut them off like the world revolve around them, haha.
What brought this topic is about an event that happen some weeks back, not a bad event, haha, it's a wedding event of one celebrity in my country (Rita Dominic) I believe most of my country people will surely know about her, though it has been long since she was seen on Nollywood drama, yes, she was an actress year back, I believe she's still acting though, but she just took a break maybe.
On her wedding day, most of her colleagues came through for her, both the married ones and the unmarried ones, they were all over the place, vibing and having the positive energy around them, then the fans notice that one of her colleagues wasn't present at the wedding ceremony, everyone was trying to find out why she didn't attend the wedding, both of them use to act the same movie back then, why will she miss her colleague wedding.
Twitter NG now starts dragging her that maybe she's not happy with her colleague getting married and that's why she wasn't present at the wedding cause the rest of the colleagues came, except her, as usual, everyone started saying their thoughts and all was to condemn the lady for not attending her colleague wedding, the wedding was a success and the pride didn't complain “one of the Twitter users wrote” while others were still dragging her for not attending.
A few days after the wedding, the lady that didn't attend the wedding unfollowed everyone on her Instagram and deleted all of her posts, every single one of them, bloggers quick pick the news, and people were commenting like, who does she think she is, why will she just unfollowed everyone on her Instagram like she's more special than everyone, people was just saying a lot things and most of the things they said wasn’t good at all.
A few days back, someone leaked the health conditions of the lady that didn't attend the wedding online and it was gathered that she's struggling with her mental health for some weeks now, she has been outside the country taking treatments and trying to get her self back.
When people saw what she has been going through, they felt sad for misjudging her so quick and shouldn’t have said a lot of things about her.
She was trending on Twitter and everyone that was online read about her medical condition, everyone was now waiting for her to rate to the news about her having a mental health condition, and then she posted a video of her face on her Instagram story when she was painting just like people in the mental health hospital, I guess it was true then, she's struggling with mental her and some of her colleagues must have known as well or maybe not.
Maybe that's the reason she unfollowed everyone on Instagram because she wanted to just be with herself for now and no social media, people were quick to judge her and it wasn't right at all. This lady is not the social media type that wants to trend like others, I believe all of my country's people do know about Genevieve Nnaji, yes, she's the one I am talking about, though she hasn't got married yet, she's very rich and beautiful as well, she’s has also been featured in Hollywood movies some time back.
That's it for today guys, though I was kind of one the people that also reason why she didn’t attend her colleague's wedding I didn’t write anything about it because I needed to be sure that maybe she was busy with some other things and that’s why which turns out to be true.
***Lead image source*** https://pixabay.com/images/id-802296/
13-02-2022
Look at what we've become.
**Where religion has taken us**
Thursday, well nothing much to talk about my Thursday, aside from the fact that I was feeling one of my beats I was making and the vibe was just hitting the G spot in my brain, haha, before Power Supply company took the light and I wasn't happy about it, like why now that the beat is making sense.
A little confession, I'm one of the people that like to do things halfway and finish them whenever I hear from God, haha, well depending on the project sha, cause I don't like to hurry things up unless I need it in a hurry, if not, I will just take my time and do it when I'm inspired to finish it, I went home and relax hoping to have a wonderful evening before I log in my Facebook and came across a news that happened this morning in my country, very sad news that could be avoided but still, people let it happen.
Before I start writing about it, first I will likely say that I don't do religious discrimination or tribalism, or political views, I don't discriminate against anyone because of what they believe in, but the truth is that most people take religion too seriously and all these things usually happen in the local environment that none rich people live, hardly you will see two rich people fighting over religious or tribalism, they don't have time for that, they just live their life and be happy when enjoying the fruit of their labor, the effect of religion is hitting the Africa continent so hard, especially my country, the way they do things like there's no tomorrow and they don't care about what others feel.
This news I came across is about a young lady that was beaten and set ablaze because they said that she was blasphemy their religion, this happened in the north side of my country (Sotoko state) she was beaten with no pity, some were stoning her while others were using woods to hit her, even after she collapsed, they were still stoning her as if she committed an unforgivable crime like killing people, they didn't stop at the beating, they made sure she's dead by setting her ablaze and the people that carried the barbaric act didn't have any fear at all, they were proud about their actions and taking credits like they just saved the day,
What caused them to beat her and burn her, secondary, I don't know about how the Muslim religion is and what they are being taught at their mosque, but according to the news, someone opened a Whatsapp group for the school and they were to talk about their exams and all, so someone now forwarded a picture that concerns the Muslim prophet, then, she now reply with this, though she spoke in their language and this was the translation.
What she said is wrong but it wasn't supposed to cause her life, they didn't even take mercy on her even if it was against their religion to speak badly about the prophet S.A.W, even if it was written there in the Bible too that a person should be killed for blasphemy, that was in the old testament and the world is changing, why should one die for this, not just any death but very painful death, the family is into mourning just because of what some people believe.
All of these things happened today and Twitter NG was on fire, people were not happy with the news at all, and some Muslims don't have anything about it and some were saying the death was too painful, which means they support her death but not in this manner, believe or not, religion has done more harm than good and it's still going to do more.
Some top Muslims did come out and say that they support the death and this should be as warm to anyone that will try to blasphemy their prophet, I use to think that all these things were caused by the illiteracy rate in the north, but it was what they were taught and they also abide by it, something similar to this happen last year and a young man was sentenced to death by the court for blasphemy the prophet S.A.W
A Muslim lady that knows how to drag politicians and other government people for bad leadership, she was even among those people that were on the front line at the protest that occurred in 2020, when she was asked why she hadn't said anything about the girl that was killed because of religion, she diverted the question and was saying something else, she was dragged and once again, religion couldn't get her to speak that it wasn't right because that was what she was taught too and she believes it, so sad that people have not been arrested yet, if this was to happen in the east, you would have seen soldiers in the street, killing and arresting people.
Reno Omokri said that we shouldn't blame the religion, we should only blame the perpetrators of the crime, which I would have agreed with him but that was what they were thought and how can you blame people that were following what they were taught, the matter has to be approached from the root which is the religion and not the people himself, blaming the people for following what they believe in is like cutting a tree from the top, it will always grow with more branches, but when you cut it for the root, the branches will also be affected.
***Once again, to be clear, this writer doesn't support religious discrimination or tribalism, or anything that has to do with hate because of someone's belief. Thanks for yet again, another ride.***
**Lead image source** https://pixabay.com/images/id-3035877/
12-05-2022
Small outside but mighty inside
**Don't underestimate little things**
Why do people always think that big things are more expensive than small things, they easily judge by the size without even knowing what the others carriers, especially when it comes to something they haven’t seen before, they won’t bother to learn about it before they say any word, they will just conclude that the amount won’t be much.
I am the kind of person that always keep mute when it comes to something I don’t know much about, especially when we are talking about things like music or football or some other stuff and someone raises a question, some people will just be rushing to guess the answer, while I will just be thinking about the answer in my mind, at the end of the day, I might be right about the answer I said in mind or I might not wrong, either way, I always learn from the question and life goes on.
***Have you ever felt like a weirdo sometimes because you keep mute too much just because you don't want to end up embarrassing yourself now, well, I feel like that too and most times I know the answers but I will still keep mute like I don't even understand the question, another reason I keep mute is that sometimes the answer you think is right and everyone thinks is right, might not actually be right, I saw a video one time on the net and they are interviewing one of the gurus in music, the man is a plays the piano on all keys and he knows a lot of theory in music, they asked him a lot of question and there was this particular one he responded with a question to the audience, he asked them and they all said the same answer, then he said that, he use to think that way too until he invited another music guru to his summer music class and the other one asked the same question, he wanted to answer but he kept mute and watch, while others were sayings the same thing he also has in mind, the music guru told them that they are wrong and he explained it to them, they now understand it and he was like. Thank God I didn't say a word, haha.***
Now back to the original topic, in case you are just joining us now, I'm talking about why people underrate little things and go after the ones because they believe that big ones are more valuable in price and worth, well, that's some people end up buying they will later dislike, one thing people should know is that mighty things are not always huge, they can be small and mighty as well, let me write about another short story before dropping the mic, just want to let you know that I am not writing this to mock anyone on the decision they made.
***Last year, a friend of mine was planning to buy an iPhone, he budget the phone he wanted to buy which is an iPhone 6s plus, went there and they told him that his money is not enough and he should complete it, the other day he went and bought it, the phone is big and you will surely think the price is worth when you see the phone, but when you get to check the spec of the phone, you will think otherwise, firstly, the version is IOS 12, which is an old version and they just recently launched IOS 15, there are some apps that IOS 12 can't carry, which sometimes makes him feel sad, another is the phone storage which is 16GB, okay, I never wanted to laugh but haha, at this time of the world when people are even complaining that 250GB is not enough for their phone storage, another person is okay with 16GB, and the worst part is that iPhone doesn't use an external memory card, they depend on only the internal, this friend of mine always deletes things from his phone and you can hardly see anything on his phone except few of his pictures that he likes, though mine is just 30$ difference from the price of his own and my phone is small because that's how iPhone 8 was built when he first saw it, he was laughing that why did I buy this small phone, I smile and I just relaxed because he doesn't know what this small phone can do, when started checking it, he now realizes that this small phone outside is mighty inside, ever since then, he doesn't joke around my small phone again, haha, though one of the disadvantages of my phone is that most people mistake it for iPhone 6 because of the size of it and I sometimes correct them and they won't believe then I will now show them through settings.***
What brought about this article? Just this evening, one of my contact on Whatsapp posted a video of a popular Gospel artist which everyone in my country knows very well (Frank Edward) he's not only an artist, he's also a producer and he just dropped his album a few days ago, the video he posted was a short clip of him showing how he producer one of the songs in his album and something got my attention in the video, which I told the guy that posted it and he was shocked, haha
What if I tell you this gadget that looks small and worthless is the most expensive gadget in this room, will you believe me? Believe it or not, it won't bring down the price, haha, as little as it is, this is worth more than 1 million naira (2k$+) I learned about the price a few weeks back when I was checking on studio setups to buy in the future like I was just checking them out for now like a dress in the class, haha, I always see that particle gadget in almost all of them, so I was thinking that maybe it was cheap, that's why they all have it but on a second, I needed to know the price of it, so I went and check one studio gadgets page and I was shocked when I saw the amount, I first thought it was a joke, then I googled and I even saw some that are almost x2 of that amount, then I started to ask myself.
What makes this gadget (audio interface)so special from others, I googled the specs and I was amazed at it, now I why the price is so high, as little this gadget, what is inside is mightier than most of the ones I thought was better before, haha, just like in the 1950s when they were using a van to carry a 5MB memory card, but now you can carry 1TB at the palm of your hands, haha.
Most people that don't do research might end up selling valuable assets for a cheap price, just imagine I came across that gadget from abroad goods shipped to the market to sell and I ask for the price it and the person told me that he will sell it for 40$, even if I don't have money with me (which I always have money with me when such an opportunity come) I will look for money to buy it fast because the owner won't know the value, it's not actually cheating, he's just me buying goods that the owner doesn't know the value, I that know the value will surely use it well.
**Lead image source** https://www.istockphoto.com/search/search-by-asset?affiliateredirect=true&assetid=175717025&assettype=image&utm_campaign=SRP_photo_sponsored&utm_content=http%3A%2F%2Fpixabay.com%2Fphotos%2Fsearch%2Fcat+and+lion%2F&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=pixabay&utm_term=cat+lion
11-05-2022
Learning a digital skill is the best investment.
Tuesday again and here we are with our phones, grinding when we can be doing other things, but we choose to be here again, I have been seeing articles on how the crypto market is bleeding, and a lot of people aren't happy about it, including me though I don't like to look at the chart because I might just collapse at anywhere I am, haha, cryptocurrency is not for the weak at all, I recently came across a video that @Amazing-grace sent to the group chat, about a guy that was told to buy a certain coin because the coin was pumping, immediately he bought it, there was a big dip and half of his money dipped with the dip, he immediately messaged the person that told him to buy it that he's not understanding what he's seeing, is this how the coin used to rise? If the both of us don't d!e today, we won't d!e again, lol.
The same event happened to my brother last year, someone told him to buy the dip and the person did convince him to buy Shiba Inu as of then when Elon musk was promoting it, immediately he bought about 40$ worth of Shiba Inu, not up to a week, it dipped so hard and his money was remaining 4$ in his wallet, called me to ask if it is like this the cryptocurrency is, I told him yes, sometimes and he said he doesn't want to do again, haha, immediately he gave up on cryptocurrency, though he didn't sell the coin, he just kept it there until it pumps, haha.
The crypto market is red this period and it's affecting a lot of people by the day, especially some of us that do hodl and some of us that want to sell so we can use it to take care of our needs and wants, I think I will stop here since I don't know much about trading except for hodl.
The strike in a public university is still ongoing, while so many are sad about it, some are making use of the opportunity to get better in their skill so won't end up carrying their portfolio from office to office seeking jobs, someone like @Kushyzee that is always planning head and he was kind of okay with the strike though, haha, I called him the Jonah of it all because he feels like it will give him time to get better with his skills which is true.
Having a skill is very good, especially in the digital world, you can just use do it from the comfort of your home, digital skills have more benefits and the major things it requires are good gadgets, a productive brain that is creative, and of course a healthy body, especially your hands, haha.
I have been doing graphic designs for some time now and I do get better as time goes on, I didn't enroll in any class to be thought, I just needed the zeal which came in a form of hunger, haha, I guess I have shared this story so many times, well, I believe the zeal is still in me but taking a nap for now, haha and I don't think she's ready to wake up now, at least there's a reason she's still sleeping though.
There are so many benefits of having a skill and I will only talk about a few which is, you can be a freelancer by being your boss and you don't have to expect a fixed amount every month, for me I prefer being a freelancer and running gigs as my boss because it will also give me a lot of time for myself and to attended other things, not that I will just be working from Monday to Friday and be getting paid monthly.
The other one is you won't have a fixed amount you will be getting monthly, you won't have to wait till month end to get a paycheck as I have stated above, because every day can be your payday and you earn what people earn for a month, you don't have to be sweating for your money every day and be working under the heat of the sun because you want to prove to yourself that you can do hard labor, life doesn't have to be hard before you eat, digital skills will change your mentality.
I was broke for like a week now, when I say completely, I mean my total networth wasn't up to 1$, I used one app to borrow money to subscribe for the main time and the payment is due, they have been disturbing me since last week, haha, though the money I am owing them is almost 10$, I promised to pay them this week, so today one of my contacts messaged me about his music and he's planning to release an EP soon, the person that did his cover art for the song he's about to drop didn't do it well (though I use to be not too good too I'm improving) so I told him that I should do it and he said he has already given the blogger to post it, it was fine by me, then now said that I should do his EP cover, we talked about price and we settle it at 20$ which he sent 10$ to me this evening and I just used it to hold body first, then when I'm done with the job, he will send the remaining 10$ and I will use it to pay the company I borrowed money from, at least now I have 10$ to lean on for the main time, haha.
This is one of the advantages of having a digital skill, now if for instance, I didn't have any digital skill, this money won't have come, I might just be at home and be saying “God when” and be hoping for a manner to fall from heaven, you don't put a corn seed in a glass without soil and water it for it to grow so you can eat the harvest, you need to put it in soil, then water it, even the God said, “I will bless the work of your hand” that alone says it all about having a digital skill.
Thanks for reading and do have a beautiful Wednesday ahead.
**Lead image source** https://pixabay.com/images/id-3371153/
10-05-2022
The reason side chicks are more attractive than wives in a man's life
**The reason side chicks are more attractive than wives in a man's life**
First I will like to greet the house, haha, that's how we usually say it when we are about to start an argument in a Whatsapp group as a sign of respect before the disrespect follows, haha.
Today I'm going to be talking about why men find side chicks more attractive than their wives, so many of us might already know some of the reasons, and am not here to state the same thing, I am just going to write one simple fact and why it is what it is, so without taking much of your time, let's jump right into to it.
First, it's not easy for a man to be faithful to just one woman, be it marriage or a relationship, being a man already makes you polygamy, though few men out of many become faithful to one woman, I'm sure it isn't easy for them every day to keep themselves for the wife only, so many men out here have side chicks that their wife doesn’t know about and when they are with their wives, they will be condemning the side chicks that they are just wasting their lives, meanwhile on a low key, these people are the ones eating the side chicks codedly, especially the public figure.
In my country, you will say a young lady will boldly say that she prefers dating married men that are over 50 years than settling with a guy, her reasons are because married men give them more money than the young hustling guy, and some of them don't want to build with a man with vision, they just want the one that already has a wife and kids so they can side chicks and be getting a huge sum of money from the man.
Now the reason why married men find side chicks more attractive than their wives is that because these men don't see their side chicks regularly and they don't even stay in the same house with them, they may see their wives as irresponsible or they may look at her like she's not getting prettier at all because she has given birth for you and her body is losing shape, most men will see it as a turnoff and they will start looking for side chick outside that can satisfy their huge to cheat and has the physical beauty and nice curve.
Most of these side chicks invest the money they get from married men into their bodies, they take good care of themselves very and they don't want to be caught in-fresh outside the house, the funniest part is that 90 percent of these side chicks can't even cook, they don't even know how to put their clothes in order, all they know is to meet the man in a hotel and give him styles, the man will be praising them that she's better than his wife and he will like to marry her, some of them later get married to the man and he will chase out his wife, sooner or later the man will get to realize that she can't even take care of the home and she can't cook, she's always ordering food for them to eat and he can't take it anymore.
The man will feel frustrated and he will look for another side chick because he's tired of the one he kept at home, he won't tell her, she will suspect but she can't say anything because that was the same way she came into the house and she doesn't want him to get angry at her because she's afraid that he might stop giving her to send her parents as a good in law.
The only reason men have side chicks is that they need someone that is not their wife, someone that they haven't seen finished, they just want a lady that is beautiful and they don't want to spend the money their wives to make her look beautiful because they want to eat the apple from another tree.
Some ladies are proud to be sidechicks as I have mentioned above and they will say that married men are very caring that’s why they follow them, you won’t blame the side chicks though, you will blame the parents for not having the money to take care of them from the start because only broke girls have that mentality, hardly you see a rich man daughter talking about dating married men because of money.
***Lead image source*** https://pixabay.com/images/id-6920626/
09-05-2022
It took more than 30 years for this to happen
**It is now official to God**
The Sunday started with rain and my sleep was getting sweeter, that's when I realize that it was all a trap and I should get ready for church, though it happened to me last two Sundays and I ran late for church because it was raining, but the truth is that when you are determined, nothing can stop your movement, not even rain, I went to church and I wasn't that early though but at least the service just started, but this is not my article of the day though.
What is about to write might be common to some alien to others, but I'm going to write it because it's indeed good news to me and my family and if I'm not writing about everything, I'm sure I would have released two albums of it that contain about 15 songs each, haha.
My mom and Dad met in our hometown province when my dad traveled for the holiday and he was about to leave for the city as soon as possible, his aunty back then was telling him to stay a little more before going back to the city, he stayed a little more and that's when he met my mom, my mom was the friend of his sister, that made things a bit simple for him to talk to her, anytime he tells us the story, I and my siblings will want to laugh but we will just hold it inside of us, not because of how he usually says it though, but what he said after, he will now say that what if he had left to the city without staying a bit longer, that's when the laughter were holding inside burst out, haha, then we won’t have been born then.
Everything went as it went and mom moved with him to the city, they stayed together and that’s when the first child came, the second one and the rest of us, without dad paying his pride price, which means that were born outside wedlock, still we didn’t make that to bother us when other kids were showing pictures of their parents wedding, we will just be smiling and won’t say a word about ours cause there’s nothing to say though.
Years and past and dad don’t even think about putting money in her head (to pay her pride price) but still she didn’t leave us, though sometimes things get out of hand and went not good way, but we still bounce back up as a family, years goes by and the two elder children’s were working to support the family with what they have, they were the two that really saw life from another level because things were worst back then, but thank God we made it out of that phase of our lives, I remember when we were staying in one room for more than “I don’t know when” cause I was born in that one room and some of my elder siblings too, so literally if I were to calculate the time we left there or use my elder siblings age to calculate it, it wound been more than 20 years we stayed in one room, about 6 children and both parent, before the eldest siblings travel to stay with one of the relatives in outside the state, while the second born too went to stay with another relative but it was in the same city.
Things started getting better and we left the one room to a two, which one will be room and the one will be the seating room, by the support of both elder siblings, we stayed there for some years though it wasn’t up to 6 years, before we move into a 3 bedroom flat apartment which I and my immediate elder brother was sharing the same room before he went to get a place of his own, now the room belongs to me alone, it’s can only be God for real, like sometimes when I look back I just smile and thank God for his goodness in our lives today, it could have get worst than that but instead, it was getting better and better for us, I know that God isn’t done with us yet, he’s still doing more for us.
The story is long though, but I’m just going to cut it here now, the full details will be on my music album that I haven’t started working on yet, the good news is that. On Friday both parents and my sisters traveled to my mom's village so they can do the rightful thing by putting money on my mother's head (paying my mom's bride price) it’s indeed a thing of joy but it never came easy for us, my siblings made it possible by the help of God for it to be done, I was supposed to go but due to my some reasons that involve money and seeing some family people that don't even know that I exist, I didn't go.
It took over 30 years for this day to come when my mom and dad has officially become husband and wife, it wasn’t easy for my mom at all, imagine waiting for 30 years plus, Not every super hero wear cape, so many of them are mothers and my mom is part of them, my pastor usually say it’s not right for any woman to be livings with a man on credit, which is the truth and it usually touch my mom, well right now, she’s officially married and she’s no longer funnykaty with my dad, haha.
Happy Mother’s Day ma, you are indeed a living legend that I will always keep admiring.
**Lead image source** https://pixabay.com/images/id-6491659/
08-05-2022
Who's to take the blame for cheating
**Who's to be blamed for cheating**
What a cold evening and the weather is being romantic as I am writing this article, someone should tell her that I am single and she should stop being romantic, haha.
How did your day go readers, hope you didn't overwork yourself again, always remain to take a break when you feel like things aren't working, don't quit, just take a break, it makes you see clearly and it frees your day.
In today's article, I will be talking about, as we already know, it's a related topic and I'm not talking about boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, this one is about the only relationship that is supported by God, which is marriage.
Some of us here are already married (am not among the some though, haha) while some of us are still planning with the special one or waiting for them to come our way so we can tie the knot (I can't wait to get the day I will say the marriage vows to my partner on the alter, hehe) well, in the main time, let me be living my single life for now.
Now to the topic, I was watching a movie today to relax myself a bit this afternoon and the movie caught my attention with the actors in it, the first person I saw was Nicki Minaj, I guess we all know her and we must have played her songs on the net, then I saw Ice Cube, not everyone is going to know Ice cube because he’s one of the 90’s rappers back then, during the time of 2pac, Dr. Dre, Snoop Dogg and more, firstly, I’m the kind of person that love to watch action movies, especially I see that the actors have superhuman abilities, it’s a go for me, this movie doesn’t have that kind of action, but the casters made I watch it.
Okay, I don’t want to explain the movie to you, cause some people don’t like it, In case you want to watch the movie, the title: Barber the next cut, it was released in 2016, so it’s not a new movie, but it talks a lot of sense, which I picked this topic from, so here we go.
When a husband cheats in the marriage, who's to be blamed? It's it the girl he cheated with or the husband himself, though many may say that the girl should be blamed because she knows that the man is married but she still went for him, why can't she just find her husband and live with someone else husband alone, this usually leads to the wife confronting the lady in question and try to beat her up for trying to steal her husband from her, we usually see these things happen in our economy when the wife will approach the sidechick of her husband and warned her to stay away from the husband unless something bad will happen to her, though some might be an empty threat, while some women don't say what they can't do, if peradventure, the wife catch the side chick with her husband again, she will regretting not leaving the husband in the first place.
Some women can send thugs to beat up the side chick while some do the dirty work themselves by approaching her to disgrace in public, I heard of one that got poured acid, and now the husband of the woman doesn't even talk to her anymore, he has moved up with his wife or probably finds another side chick, after all, he has the money to get more side chick.
A few weeks ago, I saw a video of a wife who approached her husband's side chick and gets what? The lady was riding the husband's car to show off in the state with her sexy clothes, haha, the wife took the car key from her and drove the car away, she was so embarrassed, she never thought that such a thing will ever happen to her, but it what it is, what doesn't belong to you, can't be yours forever, the original owner will surely come for it.
In the movie, they all work in the barbershop which also has a salon for females, there’s this single lady that is a hairdresser who has eyes on the married man that is a barber in the shop, and the wife of the man is also a barber in the shop, though sometimes she also does extra jobs so they can save more money aside from the barbershop, the lady will play all nice to the man and the wife was suspecting her and she will always find a way to shun the lady when she tries to compliment her husband, something happened and the both of them was in the private room for workers only, the lady was trying to seduce the husband, which the husband was resisting. He doesn't want to cheat, that when the wife walked him, so the husband quickly hides because he knows that if his wife sees both of them together there, she won't be happy, which she saw of them together there, though the man didn't cheat on her, but his face was saying otherwise.
Everyone was blaming the lady for sleeping with someone else husband but one other man spoke up, why is everyone blaming the lady the man is supposed to be blamed for cheating because he was the one that took the vow in the alter, he was the one that said “for better and for worst” the lady didn't take any vow, the man should be blamed for breaking his vows.
Truly, if we look at it, men should take responsibility for their actions and not the side chick, the man didn't cheat on his wife though, but they all believe he did because he was sweating when he came out, and both couples later reconciled and the lady apologizes to the wife for seducing her husband, it was all cool at the end. That was not where the movie ended though.
**Lead image source** https://pixabay.com/images/id-379565/
06-05-2022
What people do for fame.
**Think twice before you do it**
The time is fast spent and today is almost over, a new day is coming I am sure that some of us have already planned how we going to spend the new day, well, not me though, haha, I just keep the flow and let the day lead as I follow, still look like a long way to go for me but God knows best.
This evening @George_Dee posted an article about a lady that claimed that she had s3x with a dog for a huge sum of money and she boldly came out to her TikTok to say it because she know that it will boost her followers and bloggers will spread the news as usual, while her followers will grow. https://read.cash/@George_Dee/filthy-lifestyles-just-for-fame-0ea9d176
Well, it turns out as she predicted it, or let's say too well because she never thought of the consequences that might follow, she later came to say that it was all a prank and that she didn't sleep with a dog, she also said that her boyfriend has left her and things aren't going well for her, the police have already declared her wanted for chasing clout with a serious case, this minds me of an event that happened via Twitter some weeks ago.
A young lady posted on her Twitter that she was being raped, she also posted the number of the person raping her and the address of the house they were raping her at, the tweet spread so fast and people began to call the number to insult the person, while the ones that were close to the area called police that someone is being raped at the area when the police reach the street, they started to pack all the young guys they see in the street into their vehicle, they arrested more than 10 young men.
Not too few minutes, the same girl tweeted that she wasn't raped and that she just posted it to teach the guy a lesson, and they should stop calling him to threaten him, like, WTF, did she even know the damage she has caused in less than few minutes, people start commenting under her new post with anger, they call her clout chaser and so many other names, her brother who saw the tweet was terrified and quickly called to confirm if truly her sister was being raped when he realizes it was a false alarm, he was so angry because he never knew that his sister would go this far and play with serious issues like rape.
This is one of the reasons people don't talk much about rape cases anymore because so many females have been taking advantage of these rape cases to accuse the innocent ones and the innocent ones won't even be given a chance to clear their names, I think I have written about one in the past, the false rape accusers will just come out and point fingers while the real victim of rape won't have the chance to talk because someone has already spoiled everything.
Of course, Twitter NG didn't let her go unpunished, they called for her arrest the police swam into action, and the lady and guys that she accused of rape were arrested and we later realize that she went for hookup (s3x for money) in their house and after business, they were calling her names and she said that she will deal with them, which the guys doubted, that's when she went to tweet that she was being raped and even wrote the address and phone number of one of the guys.
I guess she never knew that there will be consequences to her actions, the parents will look for money to bail her out of the police custody after serving whatever they give her as punishment for her actions, it's kind of funny what most people will do for fame like the desperation is getting too much as time goes, you will see some on TikTok doing adult videos.
Just the day other here, a lady posted a video of her and some wrote that ever since she started doing an adult video on her TikTok, her family doesn't even talk to her, because they see her as a shame to the family, her church doesn't even communicate with her also because she's a lost s0ul, some people do send her dm for hook (money for s3x) because they see her as a pr0stitut3 and they want to have a share of her body.
Well, for me, I won't blame the people that are sending her dm for hook up because that's how she carries herself in her videos, so they believe that she does it for a living, Wiseman said “Dress the way you want to be addressed” she skipped that part though, most people had already downloaded her videos and the internet don't forget, just as Kim Kardashian s3x tape was seen by her son who came to show her and she was just crying because she thought she has passed it since it has been 14 years ago, but the The Internet never forgets.
**Lead image source** https://pixabay.com/images/id-6934821/
05-05-2022
A good turnaround.
**Big ups**
In my previous **article**, I wrote about the two security guards that were sacked from their workplace because they were dancing and entertaining customers, the video changed their lives and gave them blessings they never saw coming, they gained a lot of followers on Instagram and were getting gigs almost every day, either online promotion or being invited to dance at the club. https://read.cash/@Cogamedia/the-sack-letter-unlocked-golden-doors-13011326
The most sweetest blessing they got is the promise a pastor made to them, well, he has fulfilled his promise and as I am writing this article right, the guys are in Cyprus studying under the scholarship of the church, The pastor didn't just send both security guards them, he also sent the guy that recorded the video of them dancing, the young man that recorded the video has been the manager of both guys, they are like the three musketeers, lol, I bet he wasn’t expecting that he will follow them to study abroad, well, that’s how God does things sometimes.
In less than 3 months since they were sacked from the office, they have become fresh, the clothes they wear changed, their body cream has changed also their lifestyle, before they left for Cyprus, they located the pastor church as requested by him via social media, I found out that the pastor has been sending some of his members to study abroad for some time now, I guess he saw something great in them and that’s why he decided to add them to the list so their light won’t be quench by struggle.
When they got to his house, they waited in the seating room for some time, then the pastor came down from his room to welcome them, the seating room is so big and beautiful and from the way I loved it, the seating room can contain five cars, haha, they talked for some minutes and came to an agreement, after that, before they left, the pastor break the news to the manager (the guy that recorded the video) that he has decided to add him to the list of people that he will send to study abroad, he was so happy and the other two guys were also happy for him.
They took some pictures together, the pastor has beautiful cars inside his compound, and the guys also took pictures in front of the pastor's car, that’s what I would have done if I were in there, lol.
They went to process their visa (International passport) cause they don't have it before, but still, God didn't stop blessing them because they don't have the visa, God made it possible for them to get it at once, it wasn't up to a month before they left for Cyprus when they got there, I guess they never planned on traveling out of the country this year, but somehow, God just made it possible for them.
When they got there, the pastor gave them an apartment to stay and the place is so beautiful he didn't just stop there, he helped the manager (the guy that recorded the video) to sign a contract with a football team in Cyprus, he's dreams are just coming to pass in his eyes on bright daylight, that's blessings on blessings for me.
Conclusion
God works in mysterious ways, who would have thought that their lives would be changed in less than a year, I know if someone would have told them before that they will travel to Cyprus from their security work, they would have doubted it because it felt impossible from the beginning, but as a **Wiseman once said, Trust the process**, things might feel like it's going the wrong way, but you have to keep your faith and hope alive, believe in yourself and keep working for what you believe in, you won't have to see it to believe it is possible, you just have to have faith which means you will have to believe without seeing it. Just as we believe in breathing air and we don't see it.
**Thanks for reading this far, I will end the article here for now, and don't forget to leave an upvote and subscribe if you haven't subscribed.**
04-05-2022
The sack letter unlocked golden doors
Happy Friday guys and another Sunday is here again, just a few days too, I wonder the time is running fast these days, it felt like yesterday was Sunday and here we are with another one, haha. Without taking much of your time, because if I was to write about my day, I don't think 5 thousand words would be enough, haha, cause it was stressful, but I just begin now.
A few days ago, I came across a video on Instagram that went viral and it involves two security men in a well-known restaurant called “Chicken Republic” relax they didn’t do anything wrong, well depending on how you see it though, cause what they did made them to lose their job at the restaurant, it’s kind of funny to me though like what was the managing thinking by sacking them ?
They didn’t do anything wrong as I have said, what they did was that they were dancing while on duty and someone recorded them and posted it, a blog reposted it and it went viral on the internet, people was commenting and saying nice words, the manager from the office in Canada told the one that was in charged of the one those boys was dancing to sack them, according to them, they were sacked because they were dancing in duty and that shows they aren’t serious with their jobs
Still that didn’t kill their joy in dancing, they continued to dance in front of their formal workplace, haha, aside the fact that they are sacked for dancing, I believe that these guys are too young to even be security men, they should be in their early 20s and security job shouldn’t be of their list of options, if not that the country isn’t doing well.
These guys created awareness for that restaurant but they were to blind to see it, they didn’t know that things like this is a win win for them, they concern only about the dancing, they didn’t realize that it would increase their sales and the business will grow in the area, usually people likes entertainment that’s why you see companies that isn’t even related to entertainment are signing entertainers, either musicians or comedians or other kinds of entertainers so their business can grow and Chicken Republic saw these people and decided to throw them away, the worst part is that the boys said that they didn’t pay them for that month, they decided to go into entertainment now and just opened an Instagram account, they got more than 100k followers now, while the restaurant they worked for don’t even have up to 50k followers on Instagram.
Ever since they got sacked from the place, customers haven’t been coming has before, because they will miss the entertainment they get from them, those little things they do can make someone happy and smile, the manager of Chicken Republic saw that it affected their business, they now say that they didn’t sack the boys that they only send them to retrain, haha, the lie doesn’t even make sense, how will you send someone to retrain, is like sending Ronaldo out of the field to the bench through out the whole match.
Well, after they lost to their job, one of the biggest media’s in my country has wrote that anyone that knows their whereabouts should tell them to come to his state that there’s job waiting for them there, maybe as an entertainer I guess.
A pastor saw what I saw and believed that these guys are just too young to be security at their early age and he has decided to send them abroad to further their educations there and he’s ready to take care of all the bills involved, this is what we call blessings in disguise.
Sometimes breaking the rules can lead us to a better path cause some rules are just blocking our stars from shining bright, if they had told them that these opportunities would come knocking one day, they won't believe and they will first of all laugh because the work they are doing can't bring such an opportunity.
**Lead image source** https://pixabay.com/images/id-5594293/
04-03-2022
Disadvantages of being a middleman
Why do people put themselves in trouble? Like, have you ever come across a situation when you see someone cause of what is happening to him or her? Though they never thought it would affect them negatively, they only thought about the advantages of it before venting into what they did, some never knew that the disadvantage is worst than the advantage and is like 30% chances of advantage, while some don't know about the disadvantage of what they got themselves into.
In my recent article, I wrote about a guy that died and some people were claiming they killed him spiritually and the friend of the guy that introduced him to them is panicking because they told him that he would be next.
So many young people's lives have been cut short because they go into what they believed would make them rich quick, some will become a middleman connecting two persons to run a deal and at the end of the day they will have a share in it, though the money is sweet because they won't have to stress too much to get it, it can clash on them at any time unexpected and they will end up regretting it, haha, when you were enjoying the money, you didn't know that it was bad.
In my country, the only reason yahoo (internet fraud) isn't legalized yet, is because it's illegal, though 70% of the youth are into it, they see it as a normal business to themselves, they can use anything of their victim's item to defraud them and they have people that are good in that kind of fraud, it's no longer about the victim sending them money, they can just ask for their IDs and used it to cart iPhones or use it to collect load in the victim name, then they will ship the phone to someone that lives in the same country with the person or some might ship it to the victim themselves and give the victim of the IPhones, they won't and tell the victim to ship the rest to an address they will send, the victim will be happy because they won't realize that the phones were bought their money, maybe after some months or weeks or even days, they get a message that they are owing to the company money for phones they brought, that's how some go into debts.
Some will be looking for someone that has an international account that can accept a huge amount of money, that's when the middle man comes in, he will be the one to bring someone that has victim that is ready to pay to the person that has an international account that can accept a huge amount of money, they usually call it sure aza.
Before they use to do these transactions on a low that no one would know, but these days, you can see them posting on their WhatsApp status and other social media, just a few days ago, I saw someone that did AdSense Facebook with it, they don't think about the consequence at all, because they believe that success is for risk-takers, like why can't they take a risk with other business like trading and investing, why must it be to scam someone of their hard earns money.
After they done with their transaction and the victim eventually sends them the money, if the owner of the account becomes too greedy as decided to run away with the money, they will call him a ripper and they will start sharing his pictures while they place money on his head that who ever catch him or see him, will be rewarded with huge money, they can place 500$ or more on his head, some people would still share the picture on their WhatsApp status or group, knowing fully well that the money the person ran away with is an illegal money, some of them do get lucky enough to run far away that they can't be caught, some even process their Visa and travel out, while the ones that aren't so fortunate will get caught, either in a hotel or a club squadding the money, after they get caught, they shall eat beating, the beating will turn their looks to black Chinese, of course the one that caught the victim will ask for the money and if the one they call ripper can't provide the exact money, they beating the person and some will end up dead.
They weren't able to catch the one they call the ripper, the middleman that introduced him will have to provide the money, they will beat the middle man and pack his things until the money is complete, imagine if it's like a million-dollar they were able to defraud from the victim and the middleman told the person that he has someone he trusts that can accept the money, then the middleman now call his sure aza who has been doing business with him, they will talk of percentage on how they will share it, after the agreement, they will do the transaction, the sure aza man might see the money like his breakthrough out of poverty and he runs away with it, the middleman will face the consequence or if the account got blocked while the money entered, then the owner of the account and the middleman will be in trouble.
There this one that happened last year, two brothers that were into fraud, one of the brothers caught and a victim and the victim paid $36k, something happened and the money was either blocked or something, the one that his expectations were cut short blamed his brother and he killed him, that's how dangerous these kinds of money can get, it the end of the day, its still blood money.
The bigger the money, the greedier they will become, it's like being a vampire, you can't resist the taste always but when you decide to taste human blood, you will eventually want more, it takes big discipline to control the taste and stop.
**Lead image source** https://pixabay.com/images/id-980784/
03-02-2022
what’s the truth behind his death?
Happy new month dear readers and I hope your month is going well, so many writers the set goes on writing every day last month and some fulfil theirs, while others couldn't keep up, this is a new month and some have already set a new goal for the month, well, I haven't been so active these days and I just have to say the truth to myself, lol, talking about truth, I came across a post on Instagram about a young who died a few days ago, they said he’s a billionaire and there are different news about his death.
No one know the truth behind his death, firstly when he was declared dead, the friends of the guy said that he committed suicide because he was depressed and maybe because he don’t know anyone to talk to, all his friends are after his money and they aren’t ready to listen to what he’s going to say from his heart, that made him to feel even with so many friends, and he ended up committing suicide.
while people was processing the news, another video went viral concerning the death of the young man and in the video, there was a woman that was claiming that the mother was responsible for the death of the young man, she further said that blood was coming out from his nose before he died, she also said that was how the late father of the late young man also died too, the mother killed the young man because the son bought all of his properties in her name and she killed the son to claim the wealth for herself.
The woman also showed a place in the video and said that was he was buried in that place, it’s not even a nice place, after all the money he made while he was alive, she said that the mother dropped the body at the family house for them to be buried and she took off after that time, a lot of people started dropping comment that why would she does that to her son, the mother is wicked, blah blah blah, I wanted to drop a comment too, but I just held my peace when I realized that this is actually her own side of the story and the mother hasn't said anything concerning the accusation.
Just today now, I saw an update concerning his death and this was a different case, an account of what I read, some people that the young man was owing millions of dollars and that have told him to pay times without numbers, but he refused to pay them their money, that's what leads them to take it to the next level by killing him spiritually, they told the friend via phone call and they also threatened him that he would be next because he was the one that introduces the late young man to them, now he's panicking and regretting why he link them up.
He's in danger now and I don't think he does sleep well, cause if those people are truly the ones that killed that young man through the spiritual attack, that means he need to either run to church or write his will before they killed him too.
Conclusion
Sometimes being the one that links two people up with each other via business, do have disadvantages and advantages, you are like the middle man, and any slight issue between them, you are the one that they will blame, it's like you being a guarantor for both parties, Happy Wednesday guys, it feels like Monday to me though, I slept while writing this article yesterday and I just woke up to finished it, I hope March add value and growth to our lives, thanks for another ride with me and God bless you. Stay safe out there.
**Lead image source** https://pixabay.com/images/id-4653166/
02-03-2022
The media allows you to see what they want you to see
The media allows you to see what they want you to see, they make you believe what they say to you, you have been brainwashed and it's not going to be easy to accept the truth and believe that all that you know is a lie.
Sometimes it hurts so bad because we will have to start processing everything again and unlearn what we learned before so we can learn the truth, there are so many things that we learned from childhood and now that we are adults, we now realize that most of it is lies.
I know most of us know about wrestle, I remember when I was a kid, they use to tell us that the wrestlers are real fighters they take cocaine for them not to feel pain, they also told us that Undertaker and Cain are brothers and Cain burnt undertaker to ashes in a casket, then undertake resurrected from the ashes like a Phoenix, I used to believe it back then, I and my friends back then will always argue about, not the part of being staged though, but the part of who is stronger between Cain and Undertaker, we know the warming said “don't try this at home” but we do try it at home, haha, want to know how it feels. It pains me to know that some people still believe those wrestling are fighting for real and they can argue it from now till the end of time, these have been brainwashed and they will feel stupid for accepting the truth that's why they rather fight for their lies to protect their ego.
Away from the wrestling part, you guys must be wondering why I start writing about this and why I didn't write an article yesterday, maybe I'm overthinking too much again and that's why I just start writing about it, that's not the reason though and I got so busy yesterday that's why I didn't write any article.
The main reason I wrote this article is about a video I came across on one of the people in my Whatsapp contact list, he posted it on his status and after watching it, my eyes opened to the truth, maybe some might have known about it already and while others are just knowing about it like me right now, I learned about it today.
We all know the King of Pop and I don't need to mention his name because no one has been able to seat on his thrown since the day he passes away, though they are so many talents out there none has been able to do what he did, Michael Jackson drew a line in the industry that no one has been able to cross, he's indeed a legend and one in making.
We all know that Micheal Jackson was a black man before he became white, so many people believed that Michael Jackson did it for his music to be accepted by all, and they said that he ate being black that why he changed the color of his skin, I may not be a family of the Jacksons family but they all must have to know the reason Michael Jackson changed his skin to white when I was a kid, they said that it was the skin that killed him while others said his doctor was given a bribe to kill he and that's why his skin started fading away.
I heard so many things though, but this isn't about what killed him but what made his skin white, normally when people don’t know your reason for taking any action, they will start making up stories, the video I watched on one of my contact status was when Micheal Jackson was explaining his why his skin became white, according to him, he said.
***I have a skin disorder, that destroys the pigmentation of the skin, it's something I can not help, is your skin lighter because you don't like being black? I'm a black American, I'm proud to be a black American, I'm proud of my race, I am proud of who I am, I have a lot of pride in who I am with dignity, when people make up stories that I don't want to be who I am, it hurts me, and using makeup evens it up because it makes blotches in the skin, I have to even up my skin is a problem.***
I don’t know how many of us must know about this before now, but I am just learning about it now, that’s why I decide to write on it. Happy Monday guys, I hope you have a wonderful day ahead of you.
**Lead image source** https://pixabay.com/images/id-5475659/
28-02-2022
It has become everyone's problem.
It's Friday and a beautiful weekend to everyone, today was not that stressful but the sun was just too hot today, I was just pouring cold water on my head all through the day to calm my head down.
A lot of things has been happening in my country for years now and it's just getting worst every day, the police see every successful young man as a fraudster, good people no longer have peace of mind and they are more conscious about how the security agencies operate, cause these people don't want to know what you do for a living, they will just conclude that you are a fraudster.
I came across a post on social media about a young guy that was robbed by the police on his way to deliver clothes to a customer, he's a fashion designer and he was on his way to deliver clothes when police stopped him and used POS to withdraw more than 200k (400$) from his account, the money wasn't even his money, he's supposed to use the money to purchase materials.
Before we use to see the police as fraudsters problem and we ignored it but now it has become everyone's problem, if someone had told us that we will get to this place, we won't have believed but still, it is what it is, the system is corrupt and the only thing we can do about it is to have a good leader that can bring a good change to the country.
Another problem that is coming up rampant is drug abuse, the way young people abuse drugs these days in my country is something else and it's affecting innocent lives too and they are influenced by what they see in the media, they want to be like their role model and the first step is to start smoking like them or mixing drugs inside a soft drink like Coca-Cola or Pepsi, I might not know their reason for doing it, but it seems like they are enjoying it.
Just yesterday a popular record label was raided by government officials against drug abuse, they didn't meet the boss cause he was out of the state, so they took his signees, if not that they went live on IG to show the world what is happening on their end, the government officials would have taken them without anyone knowing, aside from the fact that they might be guilty of the crime, because a few days ago, one of the artiste dropped a song and they started playing the song in estate they live, they blocked the estate road with their cars and some was smoking loud (marijuana) in the video, that got the attention of those government officials, because what they were is a crime.
These people raided the house without a warrant, what a lawless country that the police will just break into your house anytime and scatter everywhere as if they are searching for something, they have been doing it for a long time, and both the guilty ones and the innocent ones are being affected, these people don't care about the youths.
It's becoming everyone's problem these days, we can't just overlook it as we overlooked the first one that happened, it's not about fighting for the drug abusers but it's about securing our future and the ones of the next generation, at least these celebrities should less the drug abuse by stop posting it on social media, people copy what they see and not what you tell them.
It's good to practice what we teach, just imagined someone tweeting that smoking marijuana doesn't make you look cool and the person is still smoking and posing it on social media. That's hypocrisy for real.
Four banks were robbed in the state where I lived yesterday and we just got the news that the robbers first went to the station in the city and drove the police away while killing a lot of people there before proceeding to the banks, they drove more than four cars and they came prepared, they robbed four banks and went to the ways without the police interrupting them, so many lives were lost yesterday. It saddens me.
**Lead image source** https://pixabay.com/images/id-3959784/
25-02-2022
@Cogamedia
