Debt, Debted, Indebted

Hello once again everyone, I want to share you a short understanding about life of being debt, debted and indebted. Actually I once one being in this situation but I made it through and now I am fully recovered from everything and help someone whose in a great help to me and forget someone who never remembered me even I'm with them. You know life must go on, even life is hard to us, it doesn't matter, actually it really helps us out to be stronger, to be more realistic, to be more equipped in life.

Although money has tremendous power over us (humans) and can do anything to any one of us, there was a saying that, "money can't buy happiness" was it really true? Or we are just being ignorant? People are happy with having a lot of money, we are happy to have a lot of money to make things easier for us but what if we are in debt and we cannot pay it back? What should we do? What could we do? What would we do?

And now let me ask you one question have you ever asks someone for money? And promise them to give it back once you are in a good shape? Well, may be everyone experience it, even riches people does that too to cover up their businesses, what more the one who is really in need right? In life, we really can't avoid being in debt, we couldn't even possibly know what could bring this to us, we just wanted to survive, we just wanted to fight more in life, and debt help us out somehow, it help us in a way to cover our suffering even just a short time.

But there is something you must know if you're in debt:

1. Never run away from someone who helps you out to cover your suffering.

2. Don't be ridiculous

3. Remember to be down-to-earth /assurance

4. Say thank you no matter what

5. If you became successful don't forget to look back

First, never run away, (some people not generally speaking), some people who is in debt runs away, this is not what you should do, you are indebted to someone who helps you to cover your suffering yet you run away just because of your thinking that you can't pay them back? Isn't much better if you stay where you are and use the money for something useful to make things more easier for both of you and to someone you indebted? Or are you just being covetous? Being greedy will do nothing good to you.

Second, don't be ridiculous, you are the one in debt yet you are being ridiculous when you are asking to pay it back? People are hard headed when they're asking to pay the money they lend to someone, they sometimes run away or they sometimes hide to someone, I myself experience that way do not worry haha, but remember if you are given a chance and still not pay for it you might as well end up in a bad situation, don't make things hard for both yourself and to someone you indebted.

Third, remember to be down-to-earth, down-to-earth doesn't mean you are going to kneel in front of someone you indebted, you just need to be humble, to be more precise to when you are going to pay the money you lend, remember give them assurance and they will give you enough time to gather some money to cover your debt to pay them back. You do not have to run away, you do not need to be ridiculous and hard headed just because you cannot pay it, just give them assurance and they will surely be your supporter.

Fourth, say thank you no matter what, people who is in debt never forgot to say thank you to someone they've had indebted, but some of them, when they are being pressured and when they are being force to pay the money they are mad, they are getting irritated, and furious, so when they have money to pay the debt they have, they couldn't even say thank you and worst they are giving shitty comment to someone they indebted. People are like that, we can't do anything about that, we don't just want to be pressure and to be force but sometimes it helps us out to pursue and to keep our self to to work more to pay all the debt, it become our weapon to get it through.

The last one, look back and never forget someone who once help you on your worst and bad days, my friend Melissa asked me once, do we really need to look back to someone you helps us before just because we are indebted? Do we really need to say thank you just because we are indebted? Do you really think so? And I asked her back, don't we? Shouldn't we? And she kept herself shut and think deeply. We are not oblige to look back but we are humans, we have this called indebtedness, even they did something bad and even they pressured us, they still help us out to bring ourself to the brighter side of the future. Do not forget and do not make yourself in selfishness, remember you are once in debt, and you are indebted.

That's all everyone, thank you for giving your time to read what I wrote, I hope you understand what I want to tell, and do not get my work in a wrong way, this is all just from my experience. And I hope I gave you some realization even just a while.