Be who you want to Be

Be who you want to be and not what others want you to be; people judge by your appearance, they will judge you for sure, everyone judges each one another, we cannot avoid the possibility that you might get judge by this society that perfect should be the only thing that could be seen.

We are only humans, humans that could make a mistakes, mistakes were we can become our weapon to stand up once again. You should always remember that no one can ever dictate who you are and what you are and no one decide what you become, take their opinion but never let them devour you for who you want to become.

For my today's article, I want you to give an advice for something you should not be scared of, (to become who you are) society is society, people in it may judge you but they have no power over you, to what you want to become, it is still up to you, it is still up to what you really want, do not let them devour your whole self from the judgement. We are scared of judgement that is reality, we are scared to what other might think that is what it's all about, we actually end up becoming depressed just because of what others said but does that really meant to you? Or you just assumed that it might affects your whole self well in fact it wasn't. I am not here to judge for who you want to be, I am not here to just give you an advice just because I experienced it, I am not here writing this article just because I am bored, I am here, writing this article, writing this advice to make you realize how important to be who you really are, how important to choose who you really what you want to become without even minding someone else's judgments. Society becomes full of judgments, whatever you do, good or bad, they still have some words to say and that's is one of our right ( to speak freely) as we are in democratic country but do not affects to the words they may utter as you are the only one who knows the real you.

Remember: You are you and not someone else. What you think that is all that matters.

I hope after this article you wouldn't be afraid anymore to show who you are and what you want to become, this can be related to a gender and identity of one person, if you are afraid to show what you really are then you are not ready to be you, you are not yet ready to become a person to what you really want to become. If you are afraid for the judgement of someone else, you might as well hide from your shell, but hiding yourself from you own shell isn't bad after all, not unless you decide to do it for your whole life. Remember if you want to become to what you want and to who you want to be, do not afraid to take a risk, do not afraid from the judgement, do not let society devour your whole life from judgement. Show them what you really are and who you really are.

This might be short but I hope you get my point :) I might not good at explaining things but I hope I gave you something which can help you go outside your shell/box to be something you want to be for real and not for someone else's want you to be. Gambatte minna. I wish you a very good luck for becoming you and only you.