Remember those unbearable pain

One of the hardest thing being a mom is to give birth a baby.They said that once you are a birthing a baby ,your left foot is already on the ground .Its risky thing that a mother can do for her baby.

Whats up read cashiers and to some mommies here?

The unbearable pain!

Yesterday ,my husband's neice went to her OB for her weekly check up ,her doctor monitor her twice a week as she near to her expected delivery date.

Her OB ,IE her to learn if her cervix is already open and its already 1cm ,so she stayed at her boyfriend place at the town coz it near to the clinic incase she will be in labor.

Afternoon she felt the pain ,a continuosly pain and it was already 2cm and at night she chatted me telling that she already confined at the clinic and it already 5cm and the head of the baby was already touched by the midwife.

I told her to keep stronger ,never cries coz it makes us to loss our strenght.She can do it ,my mother in-law wanted to talk to her and were having a video call.

Mama advices her to close her mouth whe she started pushing and I told her not to push kung wala pa ,kasi it makes us weak kung push ng push pero wala pa.

When I saw her face changing expressions ,she already felt the continously pain and it makes me remember those time I was in labor.Since I felt worried and pity looking at her I end our call and told her boyfriend to give an update about her.

Being in labor isn't easy at all ,the pain ,the unbearable pain we could experience well,I am not telling this to make other afraid of giving birth but for them to prepare for this things.

I remember when I am in labor with my first son ,two days in labor and it was so painful ,my friend told me not to cry and I keep that on my mind ,I need to be brave coz theres a life inside my womb.

When I saw my husband's tears ,I was'nt able to hold my tears ,he felt pity looking at me but all that pain was gone when I first touch my son.

Totoo pala yung sa mga movie no ,after seeing and touch our baby for the very first time ,all the pain we had was gone and it was true ,I my self experienced that ,imagine two days in labor and not having enough time of sleeping because of pain but when I touch my baby ,I never felt the tiredness ,the sleepy feeling and the pain ,all of it was gone.

And for my second baby ,I was suffering too much pain also especially when the doctore enduce me ,it makes the pain never stop and everytime lulutong ang tiyan ko as I feel gusto na niyang lumabas ay umi eri talaga ako ,I was trying and giving all my strenght para e delivery normally anak ko but hindi ko nakayanan to the point na wala na ako lakas ,as in my feet can't even feel the floor .

So we decided that I will undergo an emergency CS operation and I believe taht everything happens for a reason ,kaya pala ayaw niyang lumabas kasi may mission pala ang baby ko ,which is ma operahan ako para matanggal ang cyst sa matress ko.

I was confident na kaya kong e anak ng normal ang baby ko since its my second baby na eh and the doctor told me taht she can already saw the head but everytime I push hard ay babalik siya sa loob.

I am thankful that because of my CS operation I will not suffering another pain from that cyst ,the doctor told me na if lumalaki yung bato it can causes me bleeding and pain ,kaya sabi ng doctor sa akin is "your baby save you" thats why we gave him a name Niño.

And that would be all for now ,help me to pray for our niece safe delivery ,as of now we don't have any update from them ,hindi sila na online.I felt worried for them kahit maldita yun hihi.

Pdaying for their safe delivery🙏

How about you momma?Whats your giving birth story?

Thank you and God Bless