How do I teach them?
Hey! Hey! Hey beautiful people whats up? Everyone of us has a different ways of teaching of our kids when they were too young ,they need to know all about in this world .We are the one who teaches them to walk ,talk ,teaching a good manners and everything. As a mother I want to teach my kids how the way my parents teaches us inorder that they will survive without our guidance coz we don't know what happen today or tommorow ,I want them to know how to stand in their own feet ,to be indipedent as well. Teaching to speak is one of the first thing we teaches our babies .Teaching them to speak words are not easy but we should have to teach them at the young age thats the only way that we will aware what they feel aside of they are crying. I remember when my eldest son was 2years old I went to the where I was working before with him .My co -workers keep playing with him they are having fun when my son was dancing with their sounds .One of co-worker before told me to teach my son an english language ,he told me "*ate tudloe pud nag english si baby oy para sosyal*?(teach your baby an english language to make it sounds like social) What?I shocked my head and said "No" I will not teach him that language at his young age just to make parang social.Ofcourse I will teach him naman bat not now kasi maliit pa siya at ako din naman kailangan ko mag aral ng english hahaha.I was not teaching him english language at his very young age coz most of the people who sorround us are 'nt speaking english language ,we are speaking our own language a bisaya.So ,If I will teached him english language how he able to know what the people said to him,and how they would understand him? And now that he is already 5 years old ,I am starting to teaches him an english word and I'm so thankful with the help of youtube he learned many english words now.When his mad at me ,he would speak with me an english word.When he was playing he speak in english language.I feel happy naman kasi madali lang siyang turuan ,minsan nga nakipaglaro sa batang kapitbahay namin tapos nag eenglish ,sabi ng isang bata"wag kang mag english dave hindi ka amerikano hindi ka namin maintindihan) I was laughing while nakikinig sa kanila. There were a time that I and my mother inlaw are arguing because of teaching the wrong way of speaking words.She always teaches them even how many times I told her not to teach that way ,I don't know if you can relate this huh,alam mo yung turuan ang anak mo mga salitang "*mamam*"kung iinum?Sabi ko sa kanya instead of saying that words sabihin nalang inum ka?tubig?bahala na kung dulo lang mabigkas niya atleast alam natin anong sinasabi niya kaysa turuan ng ganyan .Paano matututo kung ganyan tinuro ?Yung bigyan ng pagkain ang anak ko sabihing gusto mo ng "*pa-pa*" ha?bakit" *pa-pa*" pwede namang sabihin anong pagkain yan .Tama ba yung ginawa ko ?Or baka nagmamaldita ako hehehe.Gusto ko lang namang turuan ng mabuti ang anak ko .And you know what ,ang pagtuturo ng tamang salita kahit yung dulo lang ang nabibigkas nila is a big help talaga para makabigkas na sila at their young age ,my baby now is already 1year and 8months pero ang dami ng salitang nabibigkas ,mas magaling pa siyang magsalita kaysa pamangkin kong 3 year old na .I told them ,wag kasi binibaby ang pagtuturo ng pagbigkas ng salita kasi yun talaga matutunan nila.Yung bunso ko now pag nauuhaw sinabi niya sakin "mama big num ko big"mama tubig ,inum ko tubig .Kahit dulo lang mabigkas is maintindihan naman.Kung nagugutom naman siya sinasabi niya sa akin "mama on(kaon)or minsan "eat tom baby mama"hahaha parang intsek magsalita.Pero marami na siyang nabibigkas ,minsan nagulat nalang ako bat kaya niya yung bigkasin .Ang galing na makig pag usap sa phone.
Ewan ko lang ha kung tama tong ginagawa ko ,eh may kanya kanya din tayong paraan sa pagturo ng anak natin eh .Kayo mga mamsh ,same ba tayo ng pagtuturo pagdating sa pagsasalita? And thats all for my blog today ,I'm sorry to my english readers I am using our language so that I can express my toughts correctly. To my dearest upvoters,readers,commenters and to my sponsors A **BIG** **THANK** **YOU** for always supporting me . ***Stay Safe ,Healthy and Happy*** ***GOD BLESS***
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Yes, I'm sorry I can't understand.
Its about maam teaching the kids to speak our language and I was trying not to teach them in a baby talk way ,I was teaching them the exact words even if they were'nt able to pronounce it correctly since they are too young😄
I understand and agree with you. You have to teach the child with the correct word even if the child mispronounces it. But in his mind he forges the thought of the correct word.
Ako sis hindi ako nag bi baby talk sa mga anak ko.. Palaging yung buong salita ang binabanggit ko para madiscover nya eventually yun..yung asawa ko mahilig mag baby talk pero sinasabihan ko din sya na huwag para malaman nya yung tamang salita
Tama sis ,okay lang kahit hindi nila mabigkas ng tama basta exact words ang maririnig nila.
ou sis. Hanggang ngayon nga ang ako nya is ato...pero mag mga words na napansin ko na nakorek na nya.halimbawa yung color blak, dati ang tawag nya "wa"..ngayon nabibigkas na nya ang black..hirap pa din pero hindi na "wa"
Okay lang naman sis na 1 language at a time lang talaga para di malito baby mo. Pag medyo okay na siya sa isa, try another one.
Mao gyud sis ,mayu nalang naay youtube kay diha raman pud sya nakamao gyud og english words😅
Ang hirap maging parents hehe. One day mararanasan ko rin yang mga ganyan. Pero nung baby pa sister ko, hindi naman binababy talk kasi baka ganun siya magsalita pagtanda. Good thing hindi naman po hehe
Kadalasan kasi sa mga bini baby talk ay ganyan na din yung pagsasalita nila
Hindi pa ako parents p kaya hindi ko relate masyado, pero I have cousins and i am ask to lecture them, sinabi ko talaga right pronunciation para naman madala nila sa pag laki nila. Ayuko ng baby talk baka madala nila pagdplaki hahahha
Mao gyud day hehe
As for me, mas maganda talaga na yung ituro sa kanila is yung exact words talaga at hindi bini baby talk hihi. Mas mapapabilis kasi yung speaking development ng kids pag ganun.
True sis hehhe,dapat talaga exact words tinuturo natin😄
*Ako sis, storyahan ug tArong nga mga words para dali makat on oi. Kay akong first kay gi anad man to nila ug baby words, dugay jud naka storya ug tarong. Mao lesson learned na dili babyhon ug storya kay madala unya nila, dugay makalitok ug buo nga mga words.*
Mao gyud sis ,sagdii lang tumoy ra sa words malitok makamaobrana madugay,kaysa e baby talk mada man gud na nila nig kadako
How cute sis.🥰 Yes it's better to teach the kids the exact words habang bata pa sila na aadopt na nila. Iba kasi pag bata ang turuan. Pag ano naikikita at naririnig nila susundin talaga nila yun.
Totoo sis ,mabilis din matuto yung mga bata ngayon.
Para nako sis, mas maayu jud ug tudluan ang bata sa sakto nga words. Way lami ng ibaby talk nimo. Akong bata pud kay ako lang gibisaya para dili maglisud inig skwela. Naa na bayay mother tongue, basin nuon ug dili kamao.haha
Mao jud sis ,unya kay sige man og youtube lagi ning bugoy nako nakamao nag english😅
Sakto na imoha dae oy e correct jud na imong mother in law hehe kay dali ra baya ka sundog ang mga kabataan karun sauna paman na ako nadungog ng mangayo og tubig ingnon dayun mamam ka?
Korek day hehhe,dali rajud kamao ang mga bata ron.