@Chelle18
edited
more from that month
A superwoman
Hey beautiful people! What's up ?I hope you are all doing great today despite of what happend to the world now ,keep safe wherever you are now. This afternoon I and my husband went to the market and a grocery store to buy our needs.While I was waiting at the line to pays the items I want to buy,there are three persons before me a one old woman and two young ladies.This old woman bought many items in the store I think she had a mini store in their own ,while we are waiting the two young ladies are talking about her brother ,nagiging marites ako bigla mga besh ,so this is their conversation. Girl 1:Hey! I heard you brother had already a girlfriend and he already meet your family. Girl2:Yes girl ,you heard it right and you know what ,that girl had already a kids ,not only one huh but two (sigh). Girl1:What?So ,youre brother will be the one who will feed her kids?Woah!how lucky she is. Girl2:I don't know what's in his head ,a lot of girls out here but he choose a girl with two kids ,can you imagine that?his like he can't find another girl ,he is just looking for a problem.But kuya said that she had a job ,but I even though we don't like her for kuya. Girl1: I see ,that's good that she had a work to feed her kids.Maybe she really needs a man to be a father of her kids (laughing) Then their conversation was cut because its already their turn to payed their groceries. I really felt bad when I heard their conversation ,they are talking a sensitive issue with many people heard ,they talked loud and they did'nt even felt maybe someone was there is also a single mom and for sure it felt hurt when heard them. I felt hurt honestly ,I had a sister which is a single mom and raised her son with her own but my family did'nt left her alone ,especially my parents they takecare of her son for her to find a job and work for her son after her boyfriend left them. My two sister in law are both a single mom but they able to raised and give all the needs of their kids .They able to finished them their studies ,they work hard ,a lot of sacrifices just to give their kids a bright future without the help of the father of the kids who supposed to be the responsible for it. I really wanted to asked and joined their conversation but I keep quite coz I don't want naman na tawagin nila akong pakialamira din and the question I want to asked them just remain in my mind.I just wanted to tell them this question ,are the single mom don't have the right to love and to be love?You don't know their stories ,hindi niyo alam ang pinagdadaanan nila ,ako nga na may asawa pero nahihirapan minsan ,pano pa kaya sila? We don't have the right to judge them if they did mistakes for sure they will learned from it.Hindi natin alam kung bakit ,paano naging ganun ang nangyari sa kanila.We must be proud of them on how brave they are to face kung ano man ang pinagdaanan nila.A big respect for them to have the courage do it alone ,their strenght for not giving up no matter how hard it is for them.They are a true heroes and I call them a **Superwoman**. Salute to all the single mom/single parent out there ,a Big respect for you ,May our Lord God give you the strenght you need and shower you more blessings. And that's all for today ,hindi pa ako nakaka move on kanina ,muntik na akong mag strong mga dzae ,alam nyo yung feeling na nang gigil ka na tapos pinipigilan mo dahil nasa public place kayo .Hayst grabe talaga ,bakit kaya may taong ganun no? Lead image from unsplash Thank you for spending your time to read my article ,to my dearest readers ,uovoters ,commenters and sponsors a big thank you for supporting me. ***Stay Safe and Good night everyone.*** ***GOD bless !***
33 comments
Me too sis. I salute to all single moms out there!❤️ Minsan maging sensitibo tayo sa mga sinasabi natin like in a public places. Napakalaking mali talaga especially na yung mga confidential na topic. We should be aware sa mga salita natin at sa lugar. Yes sis, we don't have a right to judge the other people since it's their own life then we don't know the whole story. Be happy and suportahan nalang sila sis.
Mao jud sis ,support talaga yung kailangan nila 🥰
Yes sis. They need support not judgement.
It's never easy for single parent they are truly heroes like you called them superwoman
Its never easy ,imagine that they raised their kid on their own ,a really hero
Magpasalamat nalang unta sila day nga wala sila sa nahimutangan sa girl. For sure wala sad na gi gusto sa girl nga ma single mom siya.
Mao gyud dae ,ambot lang oy nganu naa man jud ing ana nga tao no mga judgemental kayu.
Well we should stop with stigmatizing people for what we think aren’t cool. A single mom is also someone that have been in love like most of us. We shouldn’t judge people by their circumstances. We should even judge at all. You don’t know what brought the person to the present state. It could be death of a spouse, toxic and hurtful husband, the lady too might be the problem too. And even still, it’s not the family members that wants to marry. The guy wants her let him have her!
Absolutely right ! Thank you for reading ,stay safe .
Yeah and thanks a lot 🥺
*Ka sad man ana sis oi, to be honest, single mom ko sa akoa panganay. Dili sayon, kanang makadungog ka ug mga sakit na inistoryahan. Pero fight lang, laban kay naa namay anak. Thankful ko kay bisan ingon ato ako past, naay tawo na andam mudawat nako kung unsa ko. Dili nag judge kundi nag motivate nga mas magpursige pa sa kinabuhi*
Mao gyud sis,maka sad jud dili baya lalim ang situation no ,nakita jud na nko sa ako manghod og sa ako bayaw.
*Gani ba sis pero ang uban dali ra kaayo maka judge ug tawo, mura ba ug nakabalo sila sa sitwasyon.*
Don't be distressed by some people's misspoken words. We all dig our own individual ditches. We will all go to the trial, but each one of us will go our own way. Do not fall into judgments because you will also be judged. We listen and learn. And sometimes we fall because the discussion leads to nothing.
Your right maam ,anyways thank you for reading and thank you for the huge ammount you upvoted ❤️🥰
Some mothers have taken the responsibility of a father and they have raise their kids to be great.
Thats true sir ,how strong they are to make that to their kids
Don't underestimate the love of single parents. They deserve to be loved much.
They really deserve to be love and they need our support not a judgement.
Kudos sa lahat ng single parents! Sobrang sakripisyo po ang binigay niyo, deserve niyo ang mundo. All the best!
Totoo sis ,kasi napakatatag nila😍
The learning discussion that gives a message that I can draw from here is don't judge people from the outside, because we don't know how their lives are yet, what if they are better than us?? Respect people wisely regardless of background.
Very well said sir ,have a good day to you.
Daming judgemental sa earth at dumaan ako sa pagiging single mom at totoo may mga kontrabida tlaga pg pinili ng lalaki ang single mom. Siguro kung sila ang nasa sa sitwasyon ewan ko lng kakayanin ba nila pero in fairness mabenta ang single mom😅😅😅.
Totoo ,dami talagang judgemental sa mundo no.Maraming pumipili ng single mom sis kasi alam nila gaano ka tatag mga single mom🥰
Ang iba ksi iba ang pananaw pg single mom ksi dagdag gastos mga anak pero di nila alam kung pano maging single mom kya wag silang makiala kako ksi di nmn sila pinapakialamn ng mga single mom ah.
Kung ako siguro nalagay sa sitwasyon mo nun sis, ay hindi talaga ako magdadalawang isip na sagutin sila. Totoo talagang maraming judgemental,di muna inisip kung ano pinagdaanan nung tao,hay kakalungkot isipin yung mga ganong tao,ang kitid mag isip, mga malulungkot ang kaluluwa😅,walang magawa sa buhay.
Gustong gusto ka din talaga sawayin sila sis pero iniisip ko din baka aawayin nila ako ,dalawa pa naman sila😅
mao gyud na dayon ang ma sulti sa mga marites nga walay lain mabuhat sa ilang kinabuhi kundi manghimantay sa ubang tao
Mao jud maam.
Single moms are really superheros... People will always talk and they will put their nose where it shouldn't be, but I usually don't want to listen conversations like that because they make me nervous. I would also feel bad like you if I heard them... 😊
Mga labtunon ra jod kaajo ning mga marites oy
As a single mom for 14 years, all I can say is Yes we are Superwoman. I am proud that I raised my daughter alone and I can see that I raised her well without his father. there is nothing wrong with being a single mom.What is wrong is the people who tend to judge Single moms as losser or not deserving to be love.Hey mga marites.I am proud that even if my asawa na ako,ako young bumubuhay sa asawa at dalawang anak ko ngayon.So ano kayo sa mga single mom.Kami ata and Nanay na madiskarte sa life .