Imaginary friend

Imaginary friend are psychological and social phenomenon where a friendship or other interpersonal relationship take place in the imagination rather than physical reality.Although they may seem real to their creators,children usually understand that their imaginary friends are not real .source:wikipedia

When my eldest son turns 3 year old ,I let him to use my phone to entertain him if I do my household chores .I make sure he is watching educational videos before I leave him.Aside of watching educational videos ,he loves also watching any videos of macqueen of cars ,that was his favorite movie.He is not a fan of cocomelon and chuchu tv unlike my second baby now.

There was a time ,while I was busy cleaning the house ,(we lived together with my inlaws before)I heard him talking and it sounds like he is with someone,he was talking to someone so I asked him if to whom he had talked toor he was asking me that time ,but he said he was not talking to someone ,he is just talking to him self .My little boy don't have playmates here coz he don't have a couzin here which have a same age him.Hindi ko na pinapansin yun kasi nga naglalaro lang siyang mag isa .He don't like to play with our kids neighbour ,kasi dati nang aaway kasi siya at ang mga bata ding kapitbahay namin ay takot sa kanya .I told him ,he must be good to other kids so that he had someone to played with.

Everytime he was playing until he became 4 years old ,lalong lumala ,he called some names but I don't know who it was .So I asked him if who he was calling .He act like he had a playmates as in talaga ,minsan natawa siya basta natatakot na ako dun .So I talked to him ,and said he must me honest to me I want to know who was his playmates but then he said that it was Nikki and Vlad,so I asked him if who are they ,how he meet them.He answered"from youtube mama,I always watching their videos ,I don't have playmates here thats why I was did an imagination as if I was with them ,they had many toys in their videos mama,their mama and papa are also playing with .Can we go home to nanay and tatay house(my parents)?I want to go there coz I have some playmates there.

And then I felt pitty for him ,he was imagined that he had a playmates ,my poor baby.After we talked about that ,I was trying to play with him if I had time and always said a reminder to him ,that he will be honest to me ,whatever he do,or who was with him while playing.

Because I was so worried that time ,I told my ate(elder sister) about it and she said that when I was a kid ,I was like him also ,I am playing alone but I was acting like I am playing with someone.There was a time that while playing ,I was crying according to my ate coz she saw me playing infront of a banana tree.And they keep their eyes on me and she said I was like playing a role ,like what I heard on the radio ,I was copying what I heard from the radio drama hahha.Akala nila may kalaro ako ,but hindi ko na malala yun.

And back to my child ,I did'nt feel any worries about him coz I was trying to watched the kid youtuber he told me .And I found out he really enjoy watching them .And dun din siya natutong mag english.Minsan kasi sa daming ginagawa sa bahay tsaka may kapatid na siya ,minsan hindi ko na pinakialaman anong pinapanood niya kasi ang pagkakaalam ko puro mcqueen lang yun ,eh my Vlad and Nikki na pala 😅

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