Another Chance

Have you been in a situation where you need to ask for another chance? Another chance to make things straight because you failed. Is there a situation in which you have to ask, beg, or even cry? Are you granted for another chance? Or you are rejected?

People make mistakes. Sometimes it's not our intention to commit such actions that will hurt someone, worst is someone we really love. Because of this mistakes and wrong decisions we have to face the consequences. Whether we can make it straight or worst, is always up to us. The anxiety of getting things more worst because of unplanned things bounded by excitement that leads to chaos eat you to the point you don't know how to move. You keep on thinking, countless what ifs and regrets. Another chance, you think, can someone give you another chance?

Well the thing is, chances are not unlimited so as opportunities. If we failed today, the moment we ask for another chance rather than let the failure eat us, is one step closer in making the past mistakes that we committed into right and fixed one. Our failures doesn't define our whole being. People may let you down but you shouldn't let yourself drag by it. Remember that if you've given a chance, you have to learned a lesson and avoid making the same mistakes because as I've said chances are only limited to the same thing and scenarios, people will get tired giving this to someone who kept on messing up. Opportunities, as well, is not a grab all you can thing. Learn to grab opportunities with plan to carefully execute it. If there is a slightest chance for improvement make sure to treasure it.

What if someone didn't gave you the chance you are asking for?

Prove them you are worth the chance.

Prove using not just your words but actions. Change. Change will always be part of us, even a butterfly starts being some kind of worm before it became a beautiful butterfly 🦋

It will take time, but you have to endure. Remember that you inflict a painful wound and it will take time before that wound will heal. So, if you are asking for another chance without the intention of changing, don't bother asking for it. Don't bother hurting someone whom you've already hurt.

Same case, if you are the one who's hurt, take your time to heal. You don't have to rush giving a person another chance, another trust, and another connection to your life.

I failed countless times, but I give myself a chance and learned from it never to commit the same mistakes again.

Thanks for reading!

With love and with curious mind,

curiouscat, Charlotte