Who is that bully?
Cyberbullies are scattered along the Cyber-world which are face book, blogs twitter, and different social platforms. They do such bashing and insulting activities that can make a person down or even depressed. Nowadays, this kind of story are cliche already. The stories are scattered and demonstrated even in the tv dramas and commercials. However, what are the story behind the mask of a bully? What are their reason to do such those things. To make them laugh? So they can have a satisfaction? Or maybe they have a reason behind those things.
The first cause is seeking attention. “Cyber bullies” want to catch the attention of the people inside of social media. We can say that they are “attention seeker” but in real life, they are just a normal, plain and timid person. They are not approachable and alone in their home or school.
So they found cyber-world which they can open their self without restraining and limiting their inhibitions. They immerse themselves in exploring and expressing themselves that they didn't realize those words they are typing can be a powerful driven force that can fluence someone's mind. Harboring hatred, self pity, and any negative vibes that can makes someone depressed.
Second major cause is family problems. They were not able to handle their problems in their family, so they will find a way to entertain themselves and find people which they can vent their feelings. Because it is easy to vent the anger, issues, and hatred to the people they cannot see. They type evil thoughts and foul words that are bottled up inside. Expressing their thoughts and feelings to the people they find which have a similar situation. Their hidden thoughts and unrestrained feelings are bared to the wrong people.
And the common problem what the teenager’s experiences are they've been a victim of bullying. Real world and cyber world are two different dimensions that have different types of people. They can hide their identity; change their names and their personal information. The cyber-bullies suffered forms of bullying in their home or school which are verbal or physical abuse. Venting revenge to those people who bully them in real life. Fighting with words instead of physical so that they have the upperhand. Making an advantage to their identities which are unknown. On the other hand this cycle is full anger and hatred, no matter how satisfying it can brought them,or no matter how it boosted their ego and self confidence by demeaning others. This act can brought doom for them someday as a consequence of their actions.
We all know that bullying is bad activitiy. No matter what their situation is its not an excuse for them to do evil things to other people. An attitude which dragging other people down and uplifting themselves is common story to many. However it doesn't mean that it is accepted by the society.
It is not forgivable or a just justification to do demeaning things to others just because you cannot handle your own personal problems. However, lets try to understand them and lend our hands. Maybe they are only waiting for an ear that are willing to listen and a mouth that can advice them on what they must do.
A tiny ray of light can a guiding line for those people who lost in the night
Thanks for reading! 🤗
Every action has a reason. We should just understand them.