Insecurities: It Kills More Dreams Than Failure Ever Will
November 18, 2022 | Friday, 10:46 PM
Each one of us are born and raised differently. We are all uniquely one of one and even twins or triplets have dissimilarities. From our appearance, to our brilliant intellectual capabilities and characteristics which makes us all genuine from each other.
Then, as we aged and develops or mental capacity to understand things and it natures, we enhance and develop some character traits that are vital and beneficial for us. But, there are some unwanted character traits that humans have learn in the process that are toxic for us too. I know it's just normal and inevitable and to be specific, I'll tackle "insecurities" for my today's article chill'hustlers.
Understanding Insecurities
Being insecure is normal and I'm pretty sure, most of us at certain points in our lives experience it. But, there must be an extent to it. One must understand our insecurities for our own sake. Because, dealing this matter is not as easy as we think of it. It can result to some major downfall's in our lives if we'll fail to deeply understand it.
Whatever the cause of your insecurities in life, you need to find a way to throw it immediately from your mind or you can used it in a way that could lead to favorable results on your side.
Save Yourself From Your Insecurities
As I always mentioned on my articles, that acting now is vital to our inner peace and happy living, this one again is one of those that really needs quick change of approach and understanding.
Insecurities can lead to many serious problems down the road once we let it unnoticed. It can result to lose of self-confidence, jealousy, anxious and worst is depression. So, better be aware of it and save yourself in advance before the anything worst happens.
Many have lost some golden opportunities in life just for the sole reason of being insecure. This mindset is like building our own wall in front of us to block instead of moving forward and because of our own negative thoughts of something that we think we're not capable of doing such things or matter, we give up without even trying.
How I Approached My Insecurities
In my own undertaking, once I feel insecure in one thing or to a person, I'll immediately ask myself why I'm dealing it in the first place. After that, I'll try to find solutions how to convert this insecurities into a goal or even make it a dream to overcome that one day, those that I'm being insecure of will be in me in the near future.
In addition, this is the vital one in overcoming any insecurities in life, it's acceptance. Once you accept your insecurities, you can immediately save yourself from it.
Closing Thoughts
Dealing our own insecurities might be a nightmare for some, but it only needs a strong person to overcome those matters or things. For me personally, insecurities is more like of a jealousy which starts from comparing ourselves to others. If it is unavoidable and already stressing you out, always remember to accept wholeheartedly who we really are.
Furthermore, we know ourselves better than any other person and that's already enough for us to convince ourselves that we should not let our emotions grow bigger before it turns into some unwanted insecurities in life.
Failure is inevitable too, but atleast if we try and won't let our insecurities stops us from reaching out personal dreams and goals in life, for sure there will be learnings to sow and lessons to cherish.
That's it for today chill'hustlers, good vibes and peace! Ciao!
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