Feelstora: A Silent Mental Battle Against The Stigma Of Losing Someone You Love
November 21, 2022 | Monday, 10:20 PM
Emotions are power and once this emotions are being handled the the wrong way or taken not seriously, it can be a real disturbing mental problem later on down the road of life.
Whenever we are in a relationship or even married one's, we want assurance that this relationship will last for a lifetime. This should be the mindset of all relationships, to be committed to our partner no matter what the circumstances are at hand. But, the sad reality is not as easy as what we think of it. It is really easy to said it than to be done.
Brain Plus Heart
Loving isn't just pure emotions for me chill'hustlers. One must paired it with a sharp understanding that love alone won't make a relationship last longer, especially in our current economy status. We must think every decision we have to make multiple times just to figure out what's the best move and decisions that will benefit both of you. In this way, by just being cautious, we can easily adjust no matter what the outcome will be because we already think of its possible results.
When a person is super in love, that's when problem rises, because that person will tend to focus all his/her attention to the one he/she loves. This can also result to overthinking, jealousy and bossy in their relationship, which is not healthy for any relationship.
Thus, loving must come with both mind and heart inline towards each other, for a smooth and peaceful relationship moving forward.
Fighting The Stigma
Experience plays a big role in any relationship, adding to it also the maturity of a person. Fast relationship can produce trauma especially those relationship that ended in the most toxic way.
Being in a relationship is not always happy, of course, their will be misunderstanding and doubtful thinking. This can resort to complicated problem to both parties and the beginning of questions popping in our brain and overthink what's to come.
In all of this, the worst to happen is losing the one we love. This might be hard to process for some of us, but don't get drowned by it. If ever caught our selves in this situation, talk to the one we love immediately, throw away our pride and settle things down, assurance might be hard to get but just focus on loving each other on a daily basis. Remember those days you start dating and never ever let the bad thoughts wins on your mind.
In Conclusion
Before ending this article of mine chill'hustlers, let me tell you all this, to feel a little paranoid to the one's we love is normal, but don't go too far for it might end any relationship. As I have said in the beginning of this article, emotions are powerful and we should learn how to use is the proper and ethical way.
Learn to trust your partner and help each grow instead of controlling them, for it won't result to any good. Always find the quickest way to solve any quarrels or issues that are related to your relationship. Build a strong foundation in order to strengthen your relationship and add future plans and goals as a partner.
Always bare in mind also that temptations are just sneaking around the corner and that it only waits for the perfect timing, don't get stained by any of this. Think of how blessed you are with your partner and be contented. Commit yourself totally to the one you love and lastly, always put God first at the center of your relationship. Pray for guidance and forgiveness, understanding and blessings.
Stay in love chill'hustlers and may we all find the best love that the world can offer to us. Love and peace to y'all! Ciao!!!
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