Trust: An air or smoke in relationships?

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2 years ago

What is trust?

Trust is the firm confidence that a person has in another person not to betray them or sell their secrets to a third party. To trust someone simply means to confide in them. Trust is the act of entrusting one's vulnerability onto another. Trust is solely hinged on confidence.

In the context of this discourse, we compare the value of air to smoke, seeking to measure which one outweigh the other in relation to the subject of relationship.

What is relationship?

When we talk about relationship, we refer to the multiplicity of mutual social interaction or communication between one party and the other. It could be in business, marriage, romance or even casual friends

Notions about the concept of trust.

A faction of the world population think of trust as a mirage; an impracticable piece of idea that should only be left to be imagined. This group of people are those whose trust have been betrayed once or on several occasions and as a result become absolutely recluse or defensive at the slightest provocation. Because of their experiences with betrayal which has caused them a negative mental shift, they perceive trust as a smoke; a thing of little or no value in relationships which should be done away with. They look at those who believe in trust as shadow-chasers who have little or no experience about life. Because of the way their mind has been programmed, they tend to punish those who trust them and their trust for people is always built on facade. They don't sustain relationships because they always act as though they were forced into it. Ironically, these set of people irrespective of their setting want to be trusted. Hypothetically, these people make up the larger population of the society.

The other faction of the world population are those who perceive trust as an indispensable integral part of every surviving relationship. They are the population of people who sincerely trust others and openly seek to be trusted. They are those that may not have or may have experienced on form of betrayal or the other but decided to remain steadfast, knowing that every facet of relationship need trust in order to survive. Just like oxygenated air, they see trust as something they must breathe in a relationship in order for the relationship to thrive. These crop of a people are smart enough to know who trust, when to trust, who to dispel and when to hide.

Do you want to be trusted?

Do you trust anybody?

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thx bro

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2 years ago

I have trust issues bcz I trusted my friend but in the end he betrayed me and since then I have not blindly trusted anyone. But Many people have been trusted me as I keep their secrets.

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2 years ago

It's not unsual.

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2 years ago

Yup i have been trusted by many people i always keep their secret and never reveal it at any cost......i want to trust to someone....trust itself a relationship among people....relastionship of trust.....i request everybody don't broke anyone's expectations while he is trusting you.....hey guy you have raised a great topic of trust....

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2 years ago

Trust is a big word. Lalo na kung may trust issues po tayo. It's really hard to trust when you know that, the person you trust is not worth of your trust.

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2 years ago

That's understandable!

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2 years ago

Actually, I do have trust issues but I don't close my heart to those people who wanted to get closer to me. Yeah your right! Trust is essential in every relationship. Anyways, nice to meet you here❣️

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2 years ago

Thank you dear.

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2 years ago

I lie in a category where I easily do trust and in return receive deterioration. 🙄 This is actually how life work..

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2 years ago

Ok. Which perspective from which you see it is acceptable...

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2 years ago

I trust anybody but not full. I'm afraid to be betrayed because once our trust has broken, it's hard to fix.

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2 years ago

I understand your fears my dear but I think that trust should either be absolute or zero or do you think there's such thing as half trust?

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2 years ago

Maybe because of doubt or we are victims of deceitful words.

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2 years ago

I love the way you write bro.. you're definitely going to make it here and quick too. Rusty seems to know that too

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2 years ago

Thank you for believing in me. I believe that everything will work out fine for all of us.

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2 years ago

This is a perfect masterpiece brother. I love your blogs

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2 years ago

Thank you for your compliments dear. I'm undoubtedly grateful.

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2 years ago