Unpredictable

There's no fun in being predictable, there are no surprises in being unpredictable, no butterflies rush in being unpredictable, some areas needs us to be predictable as it fosters trust, but in other areas we have to be unpredictable as it puts others in suspense and anxious, this got its ways of putting us in the mind of others. Maybe be predictable in areas like our whereabouts, where we can be and where not we can be, Hobbies we enjoy and do more often, so that if we are being compelled or forced into going somewhere else, or doing something else, those who are familiar with us can easily detect that there's something wrong.

However unpredictability is the fun of a relationship, I mean all forms of relationships and most especially the couples kind of relationship. Many people tend to lose interest when there are nothing exciting going on anymore, inasmuch as it's no reason to stop an ongoing relationship, we shouldn't deny the fact that we should do better. Why not try to spice it up, if there are ways to make it fun, if there are ways to build up more thrills, then we should try to do them. But when you already expect something, how excited would you get when it finally comes.

More reason why vacations are becoming vastly recommended. The excitement she gets when she hears "get ready we are going on" especially when she least expects it, even while she expects you to do something, because she knows you're that kind of person, still ensure there is something to talk about each and everytime. The fun has helped in setting the mood right, call it psychological therapy or effect, but truly it helps. As it affects the male, it also affects the females, I know the females aren't used to being the ones doing the surprises, however if they did, it'll be appreciated as much.

Don't really see much need for unpredictability when it comes to family as much as there is in relationships, friends, enemies or between business partners. For family they have been with us, they know how we think, they know the heights of what we can do and how far we can go, and it's better that way. It's good we take good care of them also, from time to time take family by surprise too, make them feel so loved. However its family, with or without the surprises they are going nowhere, you won't lose them as compared to outsiders. So it's a different game.

Do you have enemies, ok maybe you'll say no, so I'll put it in another way, are there people who dislike you?, well you can't possible be loved by everyone, some individuals may dislike you for reasons best known to them, and as soon as you observe this it is best you start to act with caution. Many has thought all is well, as they can't do anything to harm them, but sadly as soon they have been taught a lesson, it's a crazy and wicked world you know, we've got to be careful around people sometimes, more reason why we shouldn't be predictable all the times, let's stay one step ahead.

It's all about a concious life. A life planned out in a way we know what to act and how to act, unpredictability is often a needed skill. When no one can know your next move, you keep people in awe, amazed at what you just did, thereby anticipating your next move. The suspense, the thrill, the uncertainty, all has its ways of keeping you on the mind of others, it becomes interesting, it becomes exciting. Even in cases of competition, it makes you no longer underestimated, all those who first thought low of you now know better than to push you aside. Indeed the game of unpredictability is an interesting one.

The reason why we can't deal with some people we should really deal with is because we are too predictable, they know our next move and already prepared down their counter measures. Yea we are good people but sometimes we need to deal with some people so they can correct themselves or worst case resolve a fight. So yeah sometimes we plan our actions towards someone to teach them a to act better towards us, but how can the plan be successful when we are too predictable, so you see there are times we need to amaze someone with a different attitude and actions, sometimes it's needed.

Our actions can make or remake how we are perceived, however if people can conclude what we do even before we know to do them, then we can't remake our personalities. Yeah we should be looking to take so many people by surprise this year, get them so amazed so they'll know better than to conclude anything about us. In relationships with your spouse we can clearly see the need for unpredictability as it spices things up often, although the need for trust would require you both know each others routines, still taking up by surprise is always a spice.

Thank you guys for taking out time to read through. Happy First Monday of the amazing year 2022, the week holds better things for us, so let's all enjoy. Keep the love coming through the likes, comments and subscription, I love you all. Have a lovely day.