This Pains Are Necessary

If man was God I bet he would have done things differently, I for one would have either reduced, increased, stopped or introduced somethings that I feel we needed, but when i think well about all of it I'll realize the world is better the way it is, everything exist just in the right proportions, Indeed God is never wrong, one major questioning arise from the area of pains and sickness, like why did he make sickness, why did he make pains, couldn't we just live and die, why must we suffer at all, couldn't we all have a fair chance to play, it doesn't add up, until when you look back from the future, you'll see more clearly the need for all of it.

The pains we've felt all contributed to the future we are enjoying today, same way you get into a place filled with mosquitoes, having to deal with them for the night would get you cleaning up your environment the next day, trying to fumigate or spraying your insecticide, so you can have a peaceful sleep the next night, imagine there wasn't any mosquitoes in the world to make us clean up, I bet some people wouldn't mind sleeping in a very dirty environment with stagnant waters and litters, to a large extent the emergence of mosquitoes is a propeller to cleanliness. No wonder they said everything has their economic importance, isn't that crazy.

Have you noticed how people at the top are often the ones with a rough path, along the way they had learn tricks and built up characters that would help them sustain the top, its like having to grow up to a position, there is nothing at any level you wouldn't be experienced in, whatever challenges might be coming, it'll be easy to tackle caused you've once tackled it coming up the ladder. But when someone without experience is thrown to the top, he would be blindsided to the other areas he doesn't know about, opposition can easily arise and possibly overthrown cause ofcourse it's a competitive space. It's better to grow from the foundation.

Once saw a movie where the owner of a multinational company was going to introduce his son into the business, one would have thought like every normal parent, his son automatically becomes the boss, but he didn't, instead he made his son serve from a lower office, while the appointed employees still maintained their managerial positions, ofcourse they weren't aware he was their real boss, if not they would have given him some preferential treatment that would utterly useless the essence of his learning. If he was going to be in charge of the company tomorrow then the father needed to be sure of his competence so he doesn't run his years so sweat and toils to the ground lavishly.

If that were you, would you be humble enough to bear the pain of working as an underdog when your friends are already enjoying their fathers wealth, the future tells eventually. The builders often do the best maintenance, they know where to focus and where to upgrade, anyone else would do as pleased but may never get it right. Remember the pains of going to school, now see how brilliant you've become, see how well your mind works, remember the pains of having to learn that skill, even the pain of having to pay from your little, now see how well you're earning with the acquired knowledge.

Another good use to pain is remembrance, somethings you can't forget because there is a pain attached to it. If you hit your leg on a stone on your way out, I bet you'll focus your eyes more on the floor throughout the rest of the journey, likewise those who have a rough past, having being embarrassed and humiliated know best to treat others more hospitable, they appear more emotionally intelligent than those who never tasted the hurt of being embarrassed. Being born with a silver spoon doesn't always mean he or she is not feeling the pain, it's all in the training process. You should know some wealthy parents know how to inculcate the right habits into their kids, they ensure their children grow up well cultured, they have felt the pain too and now careful so their children doesn't miss it in life.

Rather than dwell on the pain, take up the lesson and work with it. It's all there to make is wiser and better, people who allow their past experiences make them worst aren't getting the real picture and they are only self diving into more pain. Remember how the Bible clearly spell out to us that God wouldn't give us temptations greater than us, and for everything we face we are more than capable to overcome, this tells us that this pains we face are actually lesser than us and we very much can deal with it. All pains have lessons embedded in them, pluck out the lessons, no pain last forever, but it's more important you take the lessons with you forever.

Hope you're having a nice time out there, thanks for reading, God Loves You.