Show Me Your Friends

As simple as this can seem, it has a way to determine a lot about us, the influence our friends has on us is enormous, its often more than we think they do. The funny thing is that they won't force anything on us, but as quickly as possible, they can influence our decisions.Many lives have been transformed just by meeting and associating with a good friend. A good friend that can be turned to in times of need, and one who's heart it genuinely good towards you.

We all have where we best fit. You know who to call on for various reasons, for instance, in the popular "who wants to be millionaire" show, you'll be asked to tender some friends you can call when the questions get tough, Mind you this friends are caught unaware and that's the fun of it, you're sure they fit into that line. You have various friends but there are some you know you must not make a mistake of calling, No hard feelings, but they can't possibly function in that instance.

As well as when you're trying to get off that boredom and go have a fun time, there are some friends that won't make the day memorable for you, as you're more fun than they, maybe they are just introverts, while there are others that would totally make everywhere go crazy, you'll just get lost in the moment, in life we know people who can best be suited for various purposes, they are our right contact for a specific time.

Generally speaking now, life is made in such a way that we should associate with various people with different goals and social standing, that way we have someone to turn too in whatever direction we face. And most problems some people face is when there's a void in a direction they need to turn to, maybe that direction now is a direction of job. For instance a recent school graduant is now in search of a job, but has no one to fix him or her up.

Of course the system should be easy for everyone, as there should be available jobs for everyone, but in the current world we live in that isn't the case, as there are numerous graduates way more than the available job on ground, and those in position aren't ready to leave because they need to keep feeding and theres no other source to help out should they retire. So he or she is stranded looking for a job and feeling luck isn't on their side. Or looking for someone who can assist you in getting some work done. In situations where we can't help ourselves we tend to look through our contacts for who can best help us out.

Some criminals haven't yet face the wrath of justice, well because they have the right contact for that needed occurrence. This fact i guess we can all concur to, forget what we see in the movies, injustice is real in the society, but those who God have decided to deal with, I wonder how they can find their way out. As much as many people are using their right contacts for selfish and evil gain, it doesn't yet stop the fact that its very beneficial for people to get connected to the right person or people who can help their lives. Just knowing the right person can transform the course of your life for the better.

How I wish, Elon musk was my family member, or my mothers brother, or yet my brother's pal, wait do you think I wouldn't be fixed in a higher position by now? Moreover it doesn't take much to give a capital for a start up that would clearly be beneficial to both of us, of course, wealthy business men are smart people and rather than plead on their conscience it's a better preferred option to offer them a proposal that would be more gain to them as well as to you. This way they'll know they aren't just throwing any money and its more like a human investment that is looking prospective to be totally worth the shot.

Yet as much as we are in search for the right connect, let's also make sure we are the right connect to others, so people can in turn look to us and be confident that we are best suited to help them out too, because we have also grommed ourselves and acquire enough skill for us to be valued or high regarded. Its more of a selfish thought to be always on what can people do for you, who can help me now, always on you you you, And start thinking as well as acting on what you can in turn do for people too. The world needs you to be the right contact for them, even if you are the right contact for just a person, believe me you're also helping the world. So grow yourself to be someone's hope when problem arise, well if you look closely you can make a ton of money from being the right person for a dire situation.

Humans are social beings, and therefore socialization is our way of life, already life has helped us put some things in place already, in schools we meet various people, at home we have family, on the streets, in your states, in churches or mosques, humans meet humans which is the start of connecting with the right person. Its a blind game and you never know who the right person for you is or what that person would be good for until they become what they are.

While we are still in the early stage, playing this blind game, it's best we play with a good attitude and character so that we won't be ashamed to confront anyone in the future, as since you too would become a valued person, then you also can't settle for less with anyone who isn't with a right attitude just because you are scared of the future, your peace should matter to you too. So go for good.

Mingle, make friends, people are good for various good reasons, so associate with people and you'll notice that somethings others would pay a fortune for, you could be getting for free.

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