One Good Turn Deserves Another

We most definitely would have heard this clause, parents told us, school taught us, friends made reference to it, even life experiences further buttress this point, in all we must agree that it's so true, one good turn definitely deserves another. One thing I've learnt over time is that nothing stays the same forever, in fact the only thing that never changes is change itself cause change must always occur. However its worthy of note that it determines if the person or thing wants to act or to be acted upon before a change can happen, if nothing effects a change, or if someone does work towards the change then it would remain constant, it's not that supernatural to understand, its just the way things are.

In other words the moment you decide to get up and work towards effecting a change then and then you are likely to get a change, don't just fold hands and expect things to go right for you. The best way to stay on top has been by helping people rise too, this way you have created some support system in place, peradventure times get slightly down, you might not feel it so much, because you have people who can cover up for you. Tables turn, you really want to be prepared at all time.

Sadly how many others tend to grow pride and their time of success, I'm always baffled, like do you know how and what life has and entails, pride goes before a fall, how aware of that statement are they, if they were aware they would have curb down the pride and see better alternatives to secure themselves better. The way the actual human minds work, we all want to lead, and wish we would be the best, its not bad though, what is bad is when we get angry or unhappy that people are rising to our levels, it's still not that bad to be jealous or unhappy at least you're human, what's really bad and evil is when you try to ruin it for the person, just so it's you and you alone.

Tables turn and just same way mr A is planning to take over from mr B, its same way mr C who has been watching everything happen and play out would be plotting too to take over for mr A, so as much as possible, you want to ensure you doing right by nature, you want to ensure you're not planting the wrong seedling into mother nature, cause someday we all would be reaping off what we have sown. So live right, be right and stay right, not that alone, be good to others, learn to help,so that it would be easy to be helped too. I noticed the normal human nature not like to help, we want to be helped but we don't like to help, in fact we don't want anything to be a burden to us, whatever it is that wants to take up our time, money or energy, we are quick to decline but hope that someone else would take us seriously when we are in need.

Most times we get annoyed and vexed to discover that a friend is not showing interest in helping and we hold this grudge. Its not easy to help, however the best way to ensure we can still get help, though not certainly but that somehow or someone surely would help is to have helped others. In as much as betrayal could happen but there are more probability that you'll be helped. You could call it a strategic investment, you could call it playing smart, you could call it whatever you choose to call it, as long as it helps someone and put a smile on faces it's a good act.

Someone once said he didn't like the idea, oh if you want to help someone, why not help them without expecting anything in return,just help selflessly. I understood the angle where his thoughts was coming from and I know we have to help without any strings attached, moreover you can't force them to help you back if needed, if they choose not to, then that's it, unless you can to leverage with your assistance, which in that case of urgency won't be a bad idea, you know. Actually i don't think anyone truly makes it big without help. In one way or the other we were all helped and as truly as the sun and moon we were helped on the hope that one day we would return the favour and help them too. Still in a way preparing for when the tables turn.

Growing up as little children we were still dependent, our parents were independent and were helping us, why do we feel they had to help us, it's all an investment, it doesn't matter if you like the word investment or not, it is what it is, the only difference was that it was a must do investment, mandated to all parents, but those kids are the surest support any parent can bank on. Your brothers can try, your friends can try but the surest support you can get is that of your children. However sooner than later the tables turns and this parents get aged and now dependent, while the children independent, what happens now, now that the tables have turned what occurs, I guess the investments starts paying off.

One good turn deserves another, tables do turn, not necessary a rich man goes back to becoming poor, that's not what I mean by tables turn, there a many ways the rich needs help, you never know how you could be of help to a rich person and become the answer to his long time prayer. So indeed, do good, help now, this way you can and would be helped whenever the need arise for you. When the tables turn, how many people have you secured on the other end to help you get back up. Learn to help to, it's also an investment for yourself, cause truly nobody knows tomorrow. A lot a true life stories to back this up, you must have heard of one anyways. For real tables do turn.

Do well to render help often and more often, it never goes wrong, set your mind straight to the father of all with him is all reward and expect from him alone, with that you can never get disappointed, still never look down on anyone, tables really turn. Thanks for reading, remain happy.