Keep The Fun Going

Merry Christmas everyone, how is it going so far, never forget to be happy, it's a day of happiness, we should ensure to intentional stay happy cause life has much to offer, its then our choice if we would seize the happiness. Sometimes we laugh, sometimes we smile, sometimes we cry, so much we face everyday that makes life living. Sometimes our friend or siblings comes over or chat us up with a recent occurrence that's driving them crazy, oh can you believe Jack just cheated on me with a low life girl, I'm deeply heartbroken, or bro my car just broke down in the middle of a bridge, I'm here starring at the oceans, everyone passing seem not to care, or our moms with their loving but annoying character, you might almost loose it, so much to talk about, you just can't help it, because as long as life is filled with different people with different personalities, then of course daily dramas are bound to happen, and they are part of what makes our life interesting.

Someday we would get over it all, time would heal the wounds, and better people would come into our lives to give us a better love experience thereby making up for the bad relationships we've been into, and what we would have left are memories that makes up an interesting story to tell. Most of our fun discussion are about our past deeds, oh we can go on and on to talk and maybe laugh hard about it depending on if it appears funny to you or not, either ways we are okay and happier now, and we would be happier in the future than we are today because life is about overcoming the present to climb on to the next and better level worthy of a winner.

Take time to think before you act, cause as I've explain, time heals a lot of wounds, and what we would have left are stories, yet there are many stories today that people don't want to share to others, not because its embarrassing or disgusting or not funny, but because they are rather actions they deeply regret, and they wish they could correct such wrongs as they had already indulged into it, however the best advice to this people, is they too have to let go of the guilt so they can catch up with their life once again, or maybe restitute, its not enough to breathe that makes someone living, your happiness and inner peace still count. So act right and with caution, so your conscience don't hunt you yet after the deed is done.

Continue living life through and don't be scared to try again, don't try so hard to avoid a mistake, already experience from others or personal experience still have shown that you never can full gamble your trust in another person, you can trust someone to some extent because of consecutively they have lived up to expection, yet not an 100% trust,we are humans, we are not programmed machine so we are no way fully predictable, even machines malfunctions. Therefore we are all playing a semi blind game, so we can at least study the character and nature of the person and hope our guesses are right, that they would be good and sincere, well if you are 100% sure then there'll be no tension and no pressure, nothing to make the heart beat fast, as much as we would prefer the ease, yet you can't deny that all these makes life interesting.

Friendship too comes with a lot of drama, from competition to jealousy then to actual betrayal, the hurt, the "And he was my best friend, or I trusted her so much" and feeling like you've been back stabbed, surely it hurt so bad, yet we all would surely move on with time, well as long as we choose to though, not hanging on to the past and refusing to let go, we all can and should go forward to better places, better people, better plans and better interesting stories, one day we would seat down to a cold drink and our mind would be playing us a throwback on what we have done and experience, then we would drink to the cool breeze with a huge smile on our faces, with giggles and hard laughters, no one around can relate to your mood, just you and memories.

Families are not left out from these interesting stories, in fact families are a crucial part of everyone stories, they are important and by far the oldest people in your story, before you grew old to start having experiences, you'd first stayed with your parents and siblings, or guidance, however the start, there is who you consider family and they have stock longer than most others, so while your naughty minds might want to dwell more on your relationship dramas or shocking events, yet you would have a calmer peace when you remember how your family have come through each time selflessly. The fights that only brought you closer and knowing that there are a group of people who loves you regardless and would not stop loving no matter what. Well other people are somehow your choices to get acquainted with and become close, but family was never your choice or selection, it just happens so, but then time would teach us God doesn't make a mistake and we grew up with the best. That's why it's always family first for me.

The dramas, the fights, the love, the fun, the games, the awards, the recognition, the vacations, the meal, the conversations, the party, the people especially and so on as life brings our way, are part of what makes life's journey interesting, because after death none of these would trouble us anymore, so why not just enjoy the stay. Stay grateful for life.

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