Don't Worry About Me

I often a reason for concern when it comes to a relationship, like you would take me for a player when in reality I'm very loyal, I still dont know how to calm down the situation, I guess you don't expect me to leave all my friends alone. It's all an understanding. The females have this bother more, the guys always want to keep tab on them, hello dear, where are you now?, what are you doing? Who are you with? Yes sometimes its insecurities and sometimes it's the fear to know there are many other guys trying to get her attention, they only want to be on guard.

It's all a matter of trust, accountability too, it's not wrong to let your patner know what you are doing, if you're outside, it's ok to let them know your reason for going out, at least its what you signed up for, accountability is okay, I feel the only reason why you could want to keep your movements private from your partner is when you indeed are planning something fishy, and should your partner not care about finding out your movement is either they don't want to be hurt so they dont inquire, or they really dont care and that's bad, like why would he or she care what you do.

How much assurance could you offer to the one who cares deeply about you, do you like them tensed up and over burdened with your actions or you like things clarified so their minds would be at rest. There are actually people who derive so much joy from making their partners jealous, and so they do it more often, eventually they begin regretting their actions when the partner could no longer deal with the emotional trauma and decides to quit, Just to safe guard their sanity. Not everyone has same tolerance level, some can bear it, others can't and would soon think it best to quit.

Help him or her to trust you more, you could do it easily, a constant assurance till he or she can trust you with their eyes close, we all deserve that security, to know that one day won't come and someone has stolen you away, to know that it's also in your mind to make things work for the better. When we truly love the person, believe me we are scared, we don't want to lose you, yes we have invested so much, days has gone by, months to years has gone by with our fully attention and life invested to being with you, oh we deserve that level of security to know we don't have to bother cause you want it to work also.

Maybe we should stop accusing people of being jealous and try being crystal clear for a while, maybe that person who is allegedly very jealous isn't as jealous as you think, he is only madly in love and you are not making it easy for him to trust you, whereas he or she is so scared of losing you, so maybe you can be crystal clear and so how calm he would be when he knows deep down that all is well, he needs so heart security. Many people are currently living with their blood pressure always raising, and its only because the are in love with someone who derives joy from getting them jealous, I just hope they don't die before you stop.

Also for the deep lovers, they need to treat issues more calmly, it's not wrong to be in love, but your mental health comes first, when you dont feel secured that the person you love loves you back, and there's nothing you can do about it, yet you can be getting I'll now and then. Stressing and always keeping watch, there are more things important, probably have a talk out with the person so they know how it is with you, it's not wrong to let them know their actions gets to you a lot, no it's not wrong, at least they can adjust and help you cope better, every gets jealous when it comes to someone they truly love, some however knows how to manage it and you won't know.

It's ok to say "Dont worry about me" that level of assurance to know that wherever you go, however you move, you heart lies with someone and you're not willing to let it go. Faithfulness indeed is a choice, forget the tales of men would always be men, that is a lie, such men are not in love, when love Is involved it brings forth commitment, knowing that you have someone you never want to lose would keep you living to please that person, however some are in love but think they would never get caught, so they indulge, however truth always unfolds soon, so the wise ones would better keep themselves.

You deserve to be with someone trusted, you also need to be accountable to someone else, trust is a two way thing, trust and br trusted, it helps the relationship foster better. You can be with your spouse all day everyday, you got to work also, he or she needs to work too, so what do you do then, always call, no that wont work, it gets easier when you both establish that trust, you know what "don't worry about me, you have my heart my love" its only you and no ones else, yes not by words alone, but words goes a long way. Learn to reassure your love.

Thanks for taking time out to read this article, I love you all and God bless.