Destiny Or Perception

We all have our lives to live, and many times we experience an occurence and it feels like we've been there before, a dejavu you may say, some say its destiny and it was already predestined to happen that way. Do you believe some things are destined to be, some people are meant to be in our lives, some occurrences are destined to occur, its all written already awaiting to happen. To be fully assured somethings are meant to be, some people are supposed to cross your path, more like we are all living off a script, everything has already been programmed by God up above, although we feel we are calling the shots but rather we are only acting in line with Gods plan. Do you also have this notions, do you feel somethings are fate or it's only our perception, it really isn't preordained to happen.

I don't know about others but sometimes I see some persons walk pass me and I already feel I have to know that person, almost like we should be friends or fate has something for both of us together, and truthfully sometimes it works, I begin to see them more often and our bond becomes close, if this was only to the ladies then I'll feel like it's just a mere attraction but it happens with the guys too. However, some people I have felt same connection with till date we haven't met nor even gotten acquainted, few others I got to know I won't be close to them, we just don't blend. So my hypothesis on fate, thinking that life already has who it has planned out for us to live is already shaken at this scenarios.

Some people still believe till date that God has created a wife or husband specially for them and one day they would see him or her and then both of them get married and life happily ever after. Well not so, I don't think there's any destiny when it comes to marriage especially because we don't truly seek Gods plan in our marriage, we mainly go by our feelings and pray to God about our feelings, not awaiting him to pick for us. Some have rejected the man or lady who they saw in the dream while they were praying about a partner, well you can't blame them and they are not wrong. The Bible says "he who finds" so you've got to find and not wait on destiny to bring anyone to your doorstep. Therefore go on dates, don't be afraid to try multiple times just be prayerful alongside.

Should fate select a partner for you and you both get married, when the quarrels comes and the irritating attitudes, would you still believe you made the right choice? Humans are known to shift blames away from themselves, so its best you find your man or woman yourself, remember the first man, after he had eating the forbidden fruit and was questioned by God said bluntly it's not my fault, its the WOMAN YOU GAVE ME.

Well then there was really no option to pick from, Eve was the first of her kind as is Adam, so we also expect that Eve shifts a lot of blame to the husband she has no choice but to be with. Well now we have a lot of choices, we have our taste and lookout, we see different guys and ladies all around, so its make your pick, ain't no destiny creating a special breed for you specially, no heavenly hook ups, lol.

Also in the area of career, some believe its their destiny to be doctors, lawyers, therapist, teacher, dancer and so on, and since its their destiny, the path would surely find them, oh well, I disagree again, if you feel your fate is to be a doctor and you refuse to attend med school or read more on it, I guess that dream won't be actualized, there is a place for pursuing, you want it, then come on, go get it.

A few has been lucky to miraculously get their dream job or dream spouse, in fact its clear that it was strictly fate, however this persons really didn't get it by sleeping and just waiting for destiny to have its course. No they have also worked for it, either in prayers, in dedication, in handwork, in association and very little percent just luck. When you have devoted time to a particular course of action and building yourself up, its just a little time life would open an opportunity you just have to go grab it, but we should have worked on ourselves before then.

A dancer dancing at home, always rehearsing in front of his mirror or close friends is gradually building up him or herself, although the world doesn't know her yet but she's good because she has given herself to hard work. When a time for competition comes, so many people would come to compete, but she would win because she has worked herself to being better. Using this illustration, someone might say its her fate, but mind you the competition was open to everyone but she won, so was it fate for everyone too? No, someone had to win, it's more of she worked for the win. So we all shouldn't rely on fate waiting to bring us everything, and rather go get them for ourselves.

We want it let's go get it, Not saying fate doesn't exist, but we are not waiting on it, we know ourselves and our wants, we are going to go get things for ourselves. Whatever fate brings is a bonus because I on my own would keep pushing hard and keep being a goal getter. Be it destiny or our mere perception, let's act and plan for ourselves.

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