Celebrating The True Definition Of A Father
I would continue to say that not all men should be celebrated on fathers day, it doesn't only require you to be a man before you're worth being celebrated. What then entails a man to be celebrated as a true father? In one word its simply responsibility. A true father takes responsibility for everyone and everything in his domain, as a man automatically you are ordained the head of the home, you've got to act like it and take your seat in power, it's great to see women step up to the task when the man is no more not because they want to or they planned to rather its because they've got no option and the love for their children won't allow them be irresponsible.
The society we live in today is full of men and women who love sex but aren't ready for the product that comes from sex. If you love sex and aren't ready for the product then its best to use a protection so as to prevent an unwanted pregnancy, however there are yet people who still want to do it without a protection and also don't want to have children from it, isn't that quite risky, more than its risky its counted as being wicked when you know you don't want to take responsibility for it, we see this play out among the men, the women aren't all innocent, they could have prevented it by asking questions to know how reasonable the man is., however some men lie.
Its never right to bring a child into the world only to be abandoned, no child deserves to be left without proper parenting, inasmuch as it happens concurrently doesn't make it right, funny how overtime we hear people claim that children without proper parenting grows up stronger and I'm just statically amazed at the extent people can go to defend theirselves, yet when the child grows up and fortunately becomes wealthy the parents comes to claim ownership, if this doesn't get you angry enough I don't know what will, every grow up stands a better chance of training a child, it's all about wanting in the first place.
So the fathers day celebration was geared to honor every man that took up responsibility of their family, not only the kids but also the wife. The importance of the mother can never be contended with so it's important to try every possible best to keep the wife in the home, fathers alone can't complete the job, however if circumstances brings tough times then the fathers must see to it that they try covering all areas so the children grows up as though they have a mother. Father's are sacrificial in nature, what gives more joy is giving to a need and settling it, a father in the house would make everyone at peace in the house.
A father is a protector and peace, growing up in a rough environment would bring this claim to light better, when the tension are high and your dad steps into the house, automatically there'll be a bit of calmness because a strongman is here, now for anything to get to you all it has to first go through you dad whom you're very sure would never permit such to happen. When you're home and dad is away and there are any emergent repairs to be done, it's most likely you all would have to wait till dad comes or call the repairer, but when dad is hope you are sure he would try to get it working again, it'll alone be in a critical stage for him to postpone it for the actual repairman.
A dad does all he can to ensure his home is the best, all fingers are not equal nor is everyone having the same amount of money, therefore our individually dad caring abilities would be limited, that notwithstanding every true dad would try his possible best to do all he can with the available resources open to him. By nature men are givers but a dad gives all. A dad can be overly protective but that doesn't mean he is wicked or don't understand you, he is only angry at the possibility of people devaluing who he value, so he doesn't want that cause he can kill for it, therefore its better to be strict enough to protect and prevent you from the vipers outside.
Every father is encompassed with the task of inducting good morals and distinct values into their children, every father is proud likewise the mothers to know their children stands out in the world and are respectable. A man is always proud, then he is proud when his children have done enough to make him proud, so whenever he stands in the midst of his peers he's not ashamed, rather he is head up and content with the caliber of blessing God granted him from above. Every true father would do just enough for their kids to also do to theirs. The training starts from day birth, as much as the child is responsive, then the fatherly responsibility has begun.
So if you're a good man or lady then you must accord the honour and respect to your parents who has done all this sacrifice for you to be how you are today, however since I'm taking specifically speaking on fathers today then I guess I'll rephrase that sentence to 'accord and honour your father who made it all possible. Moreover the mothers day we have in a year is already more than the men day so it wouldn't hurt to dwell only on the fathers today. So happy Father's day, this article should have been posted earlier, but like they say it's better late than never.
Yes as a father and potential father in the future one thing to place in priority is responsibility, God has placed a lot on our hands let's show responsibility enough to do the task it requires. God bless every man out there. Thank you for reading.
Being a biological father is one of the easiest and most enjoyable jobs in the world, but being a real responsible father is one of the hardest jobs in the world. For this reason, everyone should weigh their own weight before becoming a father!