Can You Do It All By Yourself

Do you think you can do it alone, do you feel you are capable of doing it all by yourself, without the help of anyone else. Everyone needs help in one time or another, this life is so intertwined, at points in time we are in need of something, of someone, it doesn't necessarily need to be money, most times the solution comes provided by someone, we all need that someone. As kids we needed our elderly parents or guidance, as grown ups we are in need of our helpers, people who can provide the solutions we need at a point in time, at old age we need the attention of the younger generation who can attend to out every need. We can't live fully without needed help at some point in time.

It's a normal occurring phenomenon that needs be met and such needs could only be cured of a more experienced personal. No one successful today can truly say he got to where he or she is today without any form of assistance. Its not necessary the helper must be successful first, although it's more rampant that way, but it could be as simply as knowing how to direct a person and you are the helper he needed to see a better life. We all need assistance one way or the other, let's be open minded and positive too. Everyone seeks success, you and I, same way everyone needs help at some point.

I'm yet to see someone who says I don't need any help whatsoever, the richest man still needs help to maintain and gain more too. If you're settled in one area of life then you automatically aim for another area to sorted out. Most times we are at peace not because we have everything sorted and taken care off, rather its because we are content with what we have and won't let the quest to get that desire consume and lead us into drastic decisions.

Many times I've seen people just conclude from afar that everything is fine with you, plus you have plenty in store and so you can help them, and should you not then you're wicked and its like one day you too would come begging for their help, but life doesn't work that way. A wicked and stingy man with the right business mindset who Is wealthy now can remain wealthy forever till he dies, don't be surprised.

So rather than get upset over someone who is refusing to help you, we should all grow with the mindset that no one owes us a dime, in fact everyone needs help. Good business people would prefer to give you money on the basis that you can solve or assist a particular need. Sadly most people want to result to seeking pity, but how many people can they pity as well as you have tagged yourself as an expenditure, so don't be shocked when they seek alternatives to avoid you.

The world today don't pity anymore, its said to be laziness that you who has all your body functioning can't get some particular needs met and you require them to help, some might yet drive you out or insult you politely as some would have compassion because they understand how situations can be sometimes, however we can't hate someone because they refuse to help us, should tables turn and they ask for your help too, its totally up to you to help or not, they shouldn't hate you too for your decision, because every needs and pray help too remember.

The easiest way to get help for yourself is to help the helper. Rather than plead on his conscience to pity you, you can look for what you can do to push forward his favour to you. This reason is why some rich people feed more to their girlfriends or boyfriends than their families. Yes no doubt its bad and irrational, but that girlfriend makes him happy, he longs to see her again, she's hoping to sneak out to meet him again, but when his sister ask for something its an immediate "No I don't have". Well family shouldn't need to help you first, they are your priority already, they are your blood and at such helping them is helping yourself too. However it doesn't change the law from being effective, if you can help then you can be helped too.

Not money alone should we discuss in this matter of needing help, for some people their current main goal isn't getting money, isn't to increase their financial capacity, although money has a way it answers most things, however you still care to solve that issue more than your crave for money. Some times its career, fixing up your career is what you are focused and deliberative about, you probably have tried many times yet it keeps crashing down, so you seek help, not necessarily money, could be the right expertise to work you through, could be the right team to cover other areas you can duplicate yourself too, could be a looking for a perfect spot or location too.

Most times secretly our main objectives is finding the right relationship, its no news how people happiness are now being tied to how much someone can love them rather than how much they can do for themselves. Relationship no doubt is a vital aspect of our lives, we can't afford to make the wrong decision so we don't go hurting and starting afresh, however we can't fully place our happiness on another person, this is more times a bad investment than it is good. Well I guess we aren't discussion relationship in details now, so yes, some people could be more bent on relationship and they need help in that area more.

Some its health, family, appearance, spiritual matters, could as well be crypto trade but I guess that's in someway money too. People differs in what they crave about, everyone has one or more things they need help for, so your life too is just fine, you're not the only one with issues, everyone does, simply control yourself and look for a way forward, get a plan to work with. And most especially remember that nothing is impossible with God.

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